Hey Steve: He Hates My Cooking. Help?

Tell your boyfriend what your mom told you growing up: if you don’t eat dinner, you don’t get dessert. Plain and simple.

[mintruth]

Terrible answer!!! If she does that, she is guaranteed to be single!!!

[victoriashubskaya]

I took a cooking class, so that I could become a better cook. Best thing I did :)

[TOracle]

My wife had that problem too. She figured it out and now her food is awesome.

[jonss]

At least she's making an effort to cook which is more than I can say for the many these days.

[lilmakori]

Practice and become a better cook. This isn't rocket science.

[Fatloveful]

if hes a hardworking, loving, fine good man he deserves some good ass food

[TakashiNippon]

maybe time to learn to cook instead of social media crap

[gabekcpoku]

I've tasted food cooked by my girl n it was as if I was eating sandpaper...There's no amount of "dessert" that would make me eat that "sandpaper/cardboard"

[clyde]

Well, I'll be damned by the fact that a girl would even cook for you. It's the heart that matters! Having said that, this girl in the past handed me a handmade box of chocolate, and it was so bitter I had to spit it out. And then



I got slapped halfway across the world.

[carsandcomfort]

I thought Steve would tell her to improve on her cooking by going to a food and catering school or buy a cook book instead of "stop sleeping with him".

[dragomir]

His advice is: be manipulative.

It would be okay for me, if my girl can't cook. I can. She shouldn't manipulate me though... because this reminds me of my mother xD

[NoName-mlkt]

This is the worst advice ever. Using sex as a bargaining chip? That’s degrading to both men and women. If a girl ever used sex as a bargaining chip I will walk!

[edwardlewis]

@0:16 "the guy that I am dating hates the food I cook; what do I do?"
I don't see a problem.
If you are married, then you got an issue; not a big issue, just a normal family issue.
If you have a baby, you don't try to give the baby fried chicken to eat.
Look at all the animals, they have young ones, and they don't throw their hands up in the air because their young ones won't eat what they eat.

Someone I knew for years used to make macaroni pie; eventually I got her to make it like sheppard pie instead by adding minced meat to it, and that, I would eat; when her son would come visiting, he would eat it too and ask me, "She make this?", with a puzzled look on his face, because he knew how she cooked.

[johnlee]

He hates your cooking doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Don’t cook so often and at the same time, improve your cooking.

[lovingmariahgordon]

Steve give that answer because he is not too keen on boyfriend/girlfriend sleeping together I believe if they were married he would advice her on how to become a better cook

[JustinSmith-phle]

Cook better food. Hell, maybe you two can take some cooking classes together, and you both cook

[durkadur]

That's weird because I would rather not have sex than eat bad food. I would tell her if you can't cook there's the door

[mbourque]

this is HORRIBLE advice... when women use sex as a weapon to punish or force their man to do something, it INSTALLY causes resentment to come into the relationship. The more a woman uses sex as a weapon or tool to "train" a man, the more the man resents her and starts looking for a way out of the relationship.

Forcing him to conform to you're desired way by using sex withholding devalues the intimacy that sex has in that relationship. Now that you've devalued the intimacy, he starts realizing that it's worthless and no longer wants the emotional intimacy. THEN he starts looking elsewhere for the physical and emotional intimacy that he wanted with you, that you threw away...

You have a problems with your man, talk to him. explain what you feel, why you feel that way, and work with him to find an ACTUAL solution to the problem you're having.

[ladymartin]

As a man if you love your girl and she dont know how to cook try and teach her how to cook that is the best way

[nouton]

worst advice ever, learn how to cook the moment u dont wanna get better for you partner is the moment u have giving up on spending the rest of your life with your partner