He Loves You, But He's Not In Love With You | Deeper Love Requires THIS

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My ex boyfriend said that to me. And yes that makes sense that he didn’t want to take care of me because I felt that he didn’t. Which is why I broke up with him. I have now found an emotionally mature man that wants to marry me and take care of me. They are out there, you can’t fall for just the attraction and desire you have, it leads you down the wrong road of disappointment and heartbreak.

Hawelufamily

Perfect. I am in this situation exactly. He is very 'into' me sexually, but has no intention of caring for me.!I shall get the Gladwell book. You give brilliant advice. Thank you. He 'loves' me for what he can get only. Emotionally immature!

amandavictoriasewell

The one I hear all the time when something comes up that causes tension or conflict "I just want to have a good time" "I'm just here to have a good time"

terra_cotta

I agree Jonathon that a man or woman must be willing to take care of their partner before they can truly be "in love." Another great video! ❤

CatherineInColorado

My ex kept saying that he loved me, that he wanted me in his life and blabla and one day he said "I love you, yes, but I am not in love with you", I remember feeling my heart dropping and closing totally. From that day, no more opening to him. After that, he played and tried everything to play me. I blocked him. 4 years later, he managed to find a way to contact me and said "I have changed, I am a different person blablabla and I want to be back together for a serious relationship". I heard it but the thing is that 4 years later I have changed too massively and no, no man will ever play me again the way he did. He broke my heart but taught me a great lesson. Now, he wants something serious. But now, I don't want him anymore. Bottom line: I love you but I am not in love with you is a pure lie and a way to make you fall for him and open your heart because he knows that you're a genuine person. Once he got that he deceives you.

ct

Love these question answering videos, it's like finding a "FAQ" page with direct answers to my questions haha 😂🙏 Great answers and encouraging vibe, keep it up!

womenwhodate

Jonny! Keep Talking!!! Keep preaching. No u did not go off. Love how Raw u talk! U are so right!

trinijoyl

Amen! Ladies don't give into the intimacy part with a man if you haven't ask the questions of were you and him stand with the relationship and were you both what to go with it! Know this guy over year, and 4 months still I won't go there and yes it has come close a few times, but I back off as quickly as it starts! A friend he wants and I will be friends but not a friend with benefits!

nancystevens

I do agree with your perspective, Jonathon. But I think it's easy, as Ester Perel said, to tell someone, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" without doing the work to make the relationship flourish. I one hundred percent agree with the vetting process in dating. But I would also add the influence/interference of external agents such as family members or friends, limerence addiction, and attachment problems to this outcome (I love you, but I'm not in love with you).

I heard this. It is a painful thing to hear. But we have to receive it and move on without looking back.

I suggest the book I love you, but I'm not in love with you: Seven steps to saving your relationship by Andrew G. Marshall.

alexandramaria

I'm like this sometimes. It takes time to fall in love. Being in love is a chemistry thing, aside from vetting for values and such. First comes the "I care for you, " then "I really like you, and care for you, " but it takes me a while to get to the "I'm sure I'm in love with you." It's not something you can vet for, I think. Saying you're in love w/someone is a serious thing. Before I'm sure of it, there is some time that I think "I think I love him." But I don't tell him because I'm not sure. The feelings may come and go, too. Until, finally, I realize that I do love him. It takes me longer than six months, for sure. If someone is in a hurry and wants the person to say that in a couple of months, he or she might get the words, but maybe not the person for the long haul. They'll be back on dating apps in a few years, after the breakup.

Honeycombe