11 Signs He’s Serious About You | Matthew Hussey

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These days, when it comes to commitment, it can feel impossible to know what men are thinking.

Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express what we feel.

As a result, so many women come to me asking . . .

“Are we living in a time when men just don’t want to commit anymore?”

“How do you know if a guy is ready?”

These two questions pop up A LOT, and that got me thinking about my own thoughts on the subject . . .

In this brand-new video, I give you 11 specific signs to look for to determine if a guy is serious about you

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[ChristianaSenibo]

When he’s serious about you and wants a healthy relationship, he’ll be more open to conversations about making things right and moving past the misunderstanding.

[MsBee-ozvd]

I am 60 and started dating again. The guy I am dating put in a ceiling fan in his room because I sleep hot. He also does adjust the temperature when I am at his place! He also replaced his mattress because his was over 10 years old and hurting my back. He actually bought the mattress I suggested! I was shocked and pleasantly surprised when he did that!

[roseannare]

Nothing makes me happier than seeing a man in love and knowing a woman being loved. I've been single for 7 years now and I hope the same bliss and love will find me too.

[ER-kmtn]

1. He brags about you infront of other people 1:12
2. He's willing to mix your lives in a way that might be inconvenient to him 1:36
3. Your happiness becomes more important to him than his tastes 2:08
4. He's willing to adjust the temperature of his house 2:36
5. He plans a trip with you months in advance 3:06
6. He respects the things that are important to you 3:30
7. The fights have less ultimatums 4:21
8. He's less affected by his friends' teasing 5:15
9. He stops worrying so much about "Fear of Missing Out" 6:36
10. He starts collecting momentos that tell your story 7:59
11. His associations with commitment itself change 8:47

[mrslinajackson]

Number 1. When he starts pumping gas and making sure you always have fuel in your vehicle. And cleaning your windshield and checking the air pressure in your tires, you know you have a winner! 33 years married. 🥰

[chicoutimicucumber]

Few things harder than cultivating a meaningful relationship. Think the best sign is when it feels natural and organic from the start. If you have to work too hard, sacrifice too much, find yourself ignoring obvious red flags, and sometimes contorting yourself in the hope the other person will change, then there’s a good chance you’re not with the right person. I think we all know the ecstasy of that first flirtatious glance and the feeling of closeness, safety and pure joy when you’re with someone you trust and love. Those feelings need to be there fairly early on in a relationship. Shouldn’t require that much chasing. When it’s right you just know it. I wish us all boundless love.

[ambercockcroft]

My boyfriend also proposed to me 2 weeks ago. Congratulations Matthew on your engagement 💍. Your advice has really helped me with my relationship.

[piak]

in my experience the only sure shot way to know if a guy is serious about u is if he proposes to u for marriage. Some guys will do all these relationship stuff and yet be detached from u emotionally. Ladies please dont b fooled. Taking you to his mom has nothing to do with him popping the diamond ring at u.

[icequeen]

I believe in letting love lead. Love will make two people drop the silly act and just wanna make it work for the sake of being together.

[skullbitehead]

Funnily enough, I watch this because I want to see if I do a good job for my girlfriend, and it has been all true of what he stated. Makes me so happy, even when she is angry at me right now.

[lisahurst]

The temperature of the house thing had me rolling! True! I would add that he knows what kind of bed pillows you like best and always makes sure you are comfortable and content to your list. Best lines in the whole video: commitment isn’t him giving something up, but that which he wants to go to because it brings him peace and contentment. That is the true game changer for any relationship! Congrats on your engagement Matthew!

[lc]

Had a guy do most of these. Even after telling me on the first date that he wanted somthing serious. After every weekend and a few complete weeks spent together for 5.5 months, he told me that he was just seeing what kind of relationship he could have and that he had no feelings for me. Essentially, I was his lab rat. But our friends met each other, we did lots of social events together, we hosted parties together, etc. Like I said most of what is mentioned in this video, including changing the temperature of his house for me. When I asked why he would do all that for someone he had no feelings for, he said he was trying to be a good partner.

You better believe I walked. Got right back out there too. After previously being in a narcissistic relationship for almost 15 years, I've made a promise to myself to never stay if it's not healthy. And being with someone who has no feelings for you is not healthy.

BTW, as I walked out the door, he voluntarily admitted that he had married a previous wife just to see if he could get her. 🙃🙄🥴🤯

[JM-yhpd]

I have a lot of sympathy for people who are not sure whether they're ready for a relationship--I myself was quite hesitant at the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend. That being said, if you're looking for 'signs' someone is definitely ready, they should be pretty obvious. My boyfriend told me on the second date that he really liked me, he made a mid-week date happen after our first because he was going to be out of town the next weekend, we met each other's friends early on, like a month in he told me he saw a future with us, and then two months in he asked me to be his girlfriend (as opposed to leaving the status unclear). I met his family three months in and he was excited when the opportunity came to meet mine.

[thebullwhisperer]

I was chasing guys to escape my own issues. I need to stop giving them my time because toxic attracts toxic. Time to really get my life together building my self-confidence. Gotta stay busy!

[johnster]

i literally had this happen to me this week after a first date with a girl i met in a ballroom dance class at penn state. it was intense. totally changed me. perfectly described. i’ve always been single but i think that is about to change

[bobbirose]

He brags about you in front of others? That’s what narcissists do to make other people believe they are sincerely loving and appreciative towards their partners. My ex-husband did that all the time in public. I was always being told how lucky I was to have such a great guy. In reality, he had no interest in anything I did or anything about me and most of the time he ignored me.

[nitakate]

Lmao love it. I was married for 8 years. We were younger and he was immature. 11 years divorced and got back together on our daughters 18th birthday in Bali. Been 7 years now. I can tick all of these now. We’ve both grown up and now learnt by mistakes and now companionship. 🙏❤️

[marcela]

I’m so happy for you, you have been helping others to find the right one, now you get what you deserve !!!💗

[LifeandLoveTarot]

I really, really feel it’s the energy you put out and how open you are to them. You can tell within 3 to 4 dates if they like you and want something more.

[joycegoodrum]

I wish you a wonderful life!! You give so much!
I am 77yrs and still love to hear how you are advising the younger! Advice i know i could have used in a fun, busy life!