The Danger Of Being A Role Model | Hayley Mulenda | TEDxLSE

We don’t need more role models, we need more real models. Let’s make being real ideal. We are not human doings but human beings, people can not connect with us because of what we do, they connect with us because of who we are.

[humbleinfaith]

“Make being real ideal!” So simple yet so powerful.

[catherinef.]

These things you said: "We can't rehearse life", "nurturing the inner child" and "life is about capturing moments" all deeply spoke to me. Super inspiring as always Hayley.

[Missvivkingx]

The disease of perfectionism! Love the realness👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I enjoyed this 🙏🏽❤️

[TabiMusaa]

This message spoke to me so much! Being a ‘role model’ is definitely tough. Staying real is everything ❤️

[sterlingrecord]

Beautiful talk from a beautiful person ❤️

[matthcw]

I can relate with the burn out, and trying to grow up too fast. Sometimes we just need to reset and get back in tune with ourselves. Great talk 👏

[ginabowden]

Thank you, just what “I needed” to hear “today”

[tynaklimengo]

This was RIGHT ON TIME! I recently asked myself "who am I outside of my titles?" and you just gave me the answer, & that is to ask my inner child and remember the things I used to enjoy. I feel that we often get lost in our roles both self-imposed or by family & society that we lose who we are at the core. I believe our true identity can be found when we re-discover our inner child. Thank you for the insight & inspiration. Looking forward to seeing you do more great things!

[Justisoken]

Thank you for sharing your journey so far with us🙏🏾❤️

[sephorazola]

Wow amazing 🔥🔥🔥 love your transparency always !

[missmweene]

What an amazing message 👏🏾❤️. Just what I needed to hear.

[LorraineChimbga]

This was so timely, I really love how you put it, Hayley, we are human *_beings_* not human *_doings_*. In a culture where we have easy access to each other's lives through social media, it can be hard to separate the two and you articulated it so well 💫

[KayodeKoD]

Great talk, loved the message and can completely relate, particularly with what you said at 05:00 to 05:40

[RicardoPena-rfbp]

We are Human Beings not Human Doers

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F role you have to be, evolving is the way

[relentlessroyal]

Great talk!!! Make being real ideal!!! 🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽

[RicardoPena-rfbp]

Only thing you will regret on 💀 deathbed

Did I create enough memories and cherish relationships