Marrying An Older Man

[ayobamilawa]

No, not all older men, mine is 17 years older. He is the best in my life. I have the best ever relationship, the only thing he thinks for me is to succeed and push me when am not trying harder to get my goals. He is the best dad to the kids. I thank God always for having him. About what people say? people will always talk even if you have same age person. So not all older men.

[godfreyarchibong]

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[BQ]

Good advice I was 17 and my husband is 10 years older. He can discuss issues so we don’t have a lot of arguments. It’s peaceful.

[maryfaleyimu]

Wowza!😮..How am I just seeing this... Twin sister in the house, whoop whoop!!🎉😂...
Great job guys....I enjoyed watching this, it's a gem of a video.
We all love you

[adegbolaoluwawamiri]

One down side. They can be very controlling. One good side. They can be an absolute sweetheart if you meet the very good ones

[lauradoroh]

My parents have a 16 year age gap and from witnessing their relationship my whole life, one thing I can say for certain is absolutely not!! Any man that is more than 5 years my senior is a massive no no

[nanyaonwuamaeze]

Some older men lie about their age - how can age be verified. According to one, he doesn’t have birth certificates and his parents were not educated. Lies can be painful 😢

[tomeesinetijani]

Not true in all cases, it’s individual

[Loveispatient]

WOW!!!! You are so right!! I can relate

[sadelorraine]

I’m 22 and I actually want to settle down. I realized I want a man who is already mature and established so I wouldn’t mind him being older 😂.


I still want to wait a few more years before having kids but I’m ready to settle down and enjoy married life. No need for me to date around and get a bunch of baggage from exes.

[cherish]

We I think it's ur own view. I've dated both younger and older men I can tell u for free that older men are sweet to be with unless u got a bad and uninteresting one. They're loving and caring. And even the sexual part u pointed many of them are far better than the younger ones. Everyone has right to make their choices if u prefer younger men fine, but if older men still good. Older men already know what they want unlike some younger ones that are still confused and can be easily confused by beauty and all of that. They already understand life and they'll genuinely help u navigate through it without blaming you for everything

[marciaappleton]

Oh my goodness so true stuck in there mind set so true 😅😊

[fjc]

What is your definition of older man? I hear you mentioning a certain age of 30 and 40. are you saying men at that age are older?
Please tell me what you mean about what you said.
At what age do you thing men should before they get married

[toyinalonge]

ALl you have said can be reall for some older men that are boss, but I can tell you mine is different his not rigid in his decision making of course he didn't marry a robot

[realitieswithkamzee]

Yea i agree, most of them really want to plan your life to blend with their lives.

[jideakinola]

So the lady doesn't come with their own baggages? 🙄

[blessingjacobs]

For some reasons i wanted to ignore it, but i just couldn't.

Before i got married, i was into relationships with, of course, young men, but none went well. As a matter of fact, i had the worst experiences so far. I had issues in trying to become a better version of myself, which I wouldn't want to state here. But believe me when I say getting married to a man who is much older than me, is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I tell single sisters if the Lord brings such your way don't hesitate to say yes.
I asked God for a father, a friend, a teacher, a mentor as a husband, and HE blessed me beyond my expectations 💖
Daily, I am becoming a better version of myself in character and all wise😊
Not to make mention of the love, care, and the pampering you don't even want to imagine my lovely sister. All what is my husband's priority for me is to become a better woman in society tomorrow, and always encourages me to read 📚 and invest knowledge in myself. The best investment is in yourself by means of education and any educative things you could think of. He tells me this to encourage 😊me. My confidence, my maturity, knowledge, and discipline have taken a new leap since the Lord blessed me with my husband. It's a whole lot of positive baggage, my dear.

I will say it's a blessing getting married to older men.

Secondly, not all older men appeared to be as you described.
In fact, it's a total opposite of what you tried analysing

Here in Europe, have you seen a man in his 50s looking like a 30 year old? you see men who are in their 50s looking as yoing and fresh even better than some young folks that you second guess their age, the women as well.
A mature man who takes proper care of himself, takes his vitamins daily, and exercises his body, and of course proper medical checkup tends to live long and even strong 💪 enough when it comes to sexual activities. What these men do, some of your younger men can't do.
I will stop here, because the list is an unending one, darling 😊
Am open for discussions as well


I think this video you made is insulting to mature men.
Much love ❤️

[queenjames]

Good for u will never marry another older in my lifetime. I am marry to one who is 30 yrs older . Very jealous of me and insecure.

[randomvideoshere]

Lol, i ised to believe all these untill i dated a 48 ur old n 40 yr old tgat i was more accomplished and wiser than

[davidolubukunmijesudemi]

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