What is Self-Destructive Borderline Personality Disorder?

In this video I'll be talking about the self-destructive borderline subtype as well as what its main characteristics are.

TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Intro
0:21 Unstable Emotions
0:45 Lack of Care for Self
1:18 Lack of a Stable Identity
1:51 Tendency to Self-sabotage
2:50 Tendency to Lack Self-care
3:20 Depression
4:23 Tendency to Self-harm
4:49 Outro

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[AmyBeloved-qc]

rushing into relationships trying to please the other person and sabotaging it, distorted unstable sense of self, self harming dangerous behaviour and loss of identity anyone who has BPD you are a warrior for still being here

[madihahshazadi]

To anyone reading this, just remember you’re a lot stronger than you think you are !

[vinskra]

I’m a 27 year old male with this shit. Been called feminine and a bitch all my life. I don’t care about myself at all. I had a girlfriend who loved me so deeply and gave me so many chances and she even gave up on me. I am at the end of my rope. Thanks for the informative video, today is day one of healing.

[Nat-hugq]

My primary subtype is high functioning/quiet BPD. My secondary subtype is self destructive because I had second, third, sixth, seventh and fourth symptoms in my early 20s at the time during my diagnosis. You are like a place of understanding and compassion for us ❤

[peytondowns]

This makes so much sense to me. Definitely what I’m going through since being diagnosed earlier this year with BPD. Thank you

[charlottebeckinsale]

Thank you for the informative and helpful video 👍

I am textbook self destructive bpd subtype and it’s reassuring to know I’m not alone in my thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

[Kcricket]

Thank you for helping me and others understand why I feel the way I do😭😭😭 💚💙💜

[doneyes]

I morph in and out of it, more than out lately. It feels easier because the fall hurts more if you lift yourself up so much

[LilyM-ykpk]

Hey Kayla,
I recently recognized bpd within myself, and I’ve had a very hard time this past week accepting my fear of abandonment, relationship paranoia, and tendencies to self-destruct. I’ve also been reflecting on many of my past experiences that have put me into deep depressive episodes that have sometimes lasted years. Your videos have helped me so much today, and I’ve written down a lot of the different coping strategies you have discussed, in hopes that I can begin to work through this and grow into a better person. I really appreciate your willingness to put yourself out there and I will be coming back to your channel regularly for support. So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you ❤ I wish you all the best in your journey and I hope this message brings a little extra light to your day 🥰

[tia]

I'm going back through a lot of your older videos as I am really struggling lately and your knowledge and voice are kind of a comfort? Haha. Anyway, my point is, this one REALLY resonated with me. So thank you and I plan on mentioning some of the things you said to my doctor. Take care.

[BlakeCulpepper-rhgk]

I think addiction plays a huge role in this. I don’t just mean substance related addiction because it could be sex or gambling. That’s a “symptom” of this, but honestly without the reprice and neurochemical cascade that the pleasure brings you would almost certainly eventually have to find yourself. Addiction made me this way. It’s outright embarrassing.

[Sunsunsunoverthehill]

Thanks for the information. I was searching abt bpd to talk abt it with my therapist

[madihahshazadi]

I was wondering if you have any tips for dealing with bpd at university ?

[kastorkhan]

Hi I got diagnosed in March this year I been struggling for a while I just want to know how to manage and keep a balance in day to day life🙂

[phoenixstone]

this must be my BPD subtype. no subtleties about it lol.. Christ