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The Psychology Of A Man During The No Contact Rule
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Couples who recently broke up tend to set a no contact rule to allow each other to move on and transition to new phase in their lives. This leads to a point of no return: meaning everything will be over once the set duration for the rule lapses.
Stages of No Contact and Timeframes
It can be surprising that, by average, there are three common time frames people set when starting a no contract rule. They are:
1. 21 Days or Three Weeks
2. 30 Days or One Month
3. 45 Days or One Month and a Half
The most common is 30 days. Do note that sometimes, ex couples don’t set the duration for the no contact rule. This signals a finalization of the break up and the one who initiated it has a plan to move on with his or her life or already has found another partner.
Pursuing your ex in that kind of no contact setup is risky, but is still doable and can still lead to reconciliation. If you’re going to pursue, then just treat the duration as 30 days to make it easier for you to get through and understand your ex’s state of mind after the break up.
Five Stages of a Man’s Psychology During a No Contact Period
Just like the stages of grief, a man’s psychology during a no contract period with his ex undergoes five stages. The 30 day duration will be used to set the duration of the stages that the man will undergo.
Calm
After breaking up with a woman, a man will have a heightened sense of confidence. He’ll be calm and a bit liberated. He may even become a bit condescending, but he will still have a conscience to consider the girl as a victim.
His emotions will vary depending on the reason he broke up with his ex. But it will be constant that he’ll definitely console himself that he chose the best decision for both him and her.
This will take at least a week. As the woman, be strong and patient. Let this week pass and follow the no contact rule. Don’t sink yourself in pain. Just think of this as a cool off period and you just need to exercise your current freedom.
Worry
After the first week and after not hearing anything from the woman, the man will start to worry a bit. Men have the conception that if a person loves another, he or she will at least attempt or do something to mend the relationship. It’s true in most cases at love advice tv. Unfortunately, men can be a bit dumb sometimes.
He will ask himself, “Why isn’t she messaging or talking to me?” He’s asking that question despite knowing that they set a no contact rule. Any loving partner who had his or her heart broken will respect that rule and hold off any attempt to fix the relationship until the set duration is over.
Aside from that, the absence of the woman’s presence will start to bug him off. A relationship can make a person form habits and routines together with his significant other. Breaking up a relationship can throw off a person’s routines and habits with his ex.
Just like before, you shouldn’t contact your ex yet. Just like him, you’d be also experiencing this stage. For now, try finding an activity that requires your focus to get through the withdrawal period of not being with your ex.
Anger
With no idea on what’s going on with him, dating advice he’ll be angry. He doesn’t know that he’s already missing your presence. He’ll feel this during the second half of the second week until the third week.
And since your behavior doesn’t conform to what he believes in, he finds you being obedient to the no contact rule infuriating.
Realization
During the third week, he’ll start thinking. He’ll realize why he’s angry. He’ll know why he feels annoyed at you for “ignoring” him. He’ll understand that he actually lost something because of his decision, and may ponder about if he’ll be stuck with the discomfort brought by your absence.
Hope
This starts on the last week. His desire to make you connect to him regardless of the no contact rule will intensify. With the realizations he had last week, he’ll be mulling on when you’ll get in touch.
He won’t even care if you don’t want to be a couple again. Just being friends will be enough for him. He can’t withstand the sudden change in his life because you already had made him comfortable and rely on your presence and love.
This is the right time to check on him and make your move. If you can spy on him without being found out, do so. Check if he had undergone the five stages.
Note that not all men will experience the stages. Some may experience a few of the stages, but doesn’t reach the last one. On some cases, a few of them will get stuck on one stage and will not move on further.
Why Do Men Lose Interest, What Makes Him Stay In Love, And How Do You Dramatically Improve Your Love Life... Forever...?
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Couples who recently broke up tend to set a no contact rule to allow each other to move on and transition to new phase in their lives. This leads to a point of no return: meaning everything will be over once the set duration for the rule lapses.
Stages of No Contact and Timeframes
It can be surprising that, by average, there are three common time frames people set when starting a no contract rule. They are:
1. 21 Days or Three Weeks
2. 30 Days or One Month
3. 45 Days or One Month and a Half
The most common is 30 days. Do note that sometimes, ex couples don’t set the duration for the no contact rule. This signals a finalization of the break up and the one who initiated it has a plan to move on with his or her life or already has found another partner.
Pursuing your ex in that kind of no contact setup is risky, but is still doable and can still lead to reconciliation. If you’re going to pursue, then just treat the duration as 30 days to make it easier for you to get through and understand your ex’s state of mind after the break up.
Five Stages of a Man’s Psychology During a No Contact Period
Just like the stages of grief, a man’s psychology during a no contract period with his ex undergoes five stages. The 30 day duration will be used to set the duration of the stages that the man will undergo.
Calm
After breaking up with a woman, a man will have a heightened sense of confidence. He’ll be calm and a bit liberated. He may even become a bit condescending, but he will still have a conscience to consider the girl as a victim.
His emotions will vary depending on the reason he broke up with his ex. But it will be constant that he’ll definitely console himself that he chose the best decision for both him and her.
This will take at least a week. As the woman, be strong and patient. Let this week pass and follow the no contact rule. Don’t sink yourself in pain. Just think of this as a cool off period and you just need to exercise your current freedom.
Worry
After the first week and after not hearing anything from the woman, the man will start to worry a bit. Men have the conception that if a person loves another, he or she will at least attempt or do something to mend the relationship. It’s true in most cases at love advice tv. Unfortunately, men can be a bit dumb sometimes.
He will ask himself, “Why isn’t she messaging or talking to me?” He’s asking that question despite knowing that they set a no contact rule. Any loving partner who had his or her heart broken will respect that rule and hold off any attempt to fix the relationship until the set duration is over.
Aside from that, the absence of the woman’s presence will start to bug him off. A relationship can make a person form habits and routines together with his significant other. Breaking up a relationship can throw off a person’s routines and habits with his ex.
Just like before, you shouldn’t contact your ex yet. Just like him, you’d be also experiencing this stage. For now, try finding an activity that requires your focus to get through the withdrawal period of not being with your ex.
Anger
With no idea on what’s going on with him, dating advice he’ll be angry. He doesn’t know that he’s already missing your presence. He’ll feel this during the second half of the second week until the third week.
And since your behavior doesn’t conform to what he believes in, he finds you being obedient to the no contact rule infuriating.
Realization
During the third week, he’ll start thinking. He’ll realize why he’s angry. He’ll know why he feels annoyed at you for “ignoring” him. He’ll understand that he actually lost something because of his decision, and may ponder about if he’ll be stuck with the discomfort brought by your absence.
Hope
This starts on the last week. His desire to make you connect to him regardless of the no contact rule will intensify. With the realizations he had last week, he’ll be mulling on when you’ll get in touch.
He won’t even care if you don’t want to be a couple again. Just being friends will be enough for him. He can’t withstand the sudden change in his life because you already had made him comfortable and rely on your presence and love.
This is the right time to check on him and make your move. If you can spy on him without being found out, do so. Check if he had undergone the five stages.
Note that not all men will experience the stages. Some may experience a few of the stages, but doesn’t reach the last one. On some cases, a few of them will get stuck on one stage and will not move on further.
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