What Men Rally Mean When They Say...

On today's episode, I decided to translate four common phrases men say to women and are often misinterpreted or confused.

[warmestglow]

Can they please start teaching this in high school when we're still just babies? Good lawd, the sheer amount of heartbreak that would alleviate is breathtaking. 😂 Thx Bern. 😘

[frenchvanilla]

Men have learned cruel tactics to manipulate women into sex. I see so many women in the comment section that never knew these tactics men use. There was a time I didn't know. Women are not raised to know these manipulating tactics. We are raised to be sweet kind nurture the men we like. So can you imagine going to war without training? You will get slaughtered and that's what's happened to many of our hearts unfortunately. I'm glad the younger generation of women will be well informed.

[TheTropics]

I hate lables because men have used labels to manipulate getting what they want. I've even been told "I love you" for them to get what they want.

[tanyaakh]

I think the phrase "I just want to see where it's going" can also be interpreted as "I don't see you as a woman I would want to commit to", "I'm not really interested in something serious with you" :)

[farida]

Thank you for all these uploads! Love your content. ❤️

[karmensitta]

Thank you for making everything look more clear for us.

[kaoshi_kutie]

all your video's...always eye opening and insightful. Keep em coming!! 😁🤗❤

[thankYouN]

Exactly ! Very well said .
Consistency is the key, no excuses .

I like the verbiage, “I am sorry I wasn’t able to call you means I choose you not as my priority.”

Lesson : a day or two busy is ok, understand where you stand in the relationship, please don’t invest time in this type of guys . Please run away from irresponsible guys. Rather spend time to read a book.

[pennir]

Woooo wasn't expecting the refrigerator under the bed 😂😂😂 thanks Bern great vid hugs xx

[angelreadswithamyburleson]

This just confirm that saying no thank you to a man I was dating for 2 months was the right move!! I agree if he is telling you he is not ready and making excuses as to why he can’t make you a priority in your life then it’s time to go.🤷🏻‍♀️ not easy but I actually feel better then I did being frustrated w his actions.

[katrinajones]

I’m glad I’m reading this cause a guy just told me he ain’t looking for a relationship just someone he can vibe with whatever that means

[sainabe]

Thank you very much, its not easy to find new specific topics:)

[papasquat]

If a guy suddenly dissapears and come back days or weeks later saying he's been really busy and could text, it really mean that they withdrew into themselves and most likely stopped talking to everyone. When you are in such a mindset that you stop talking to people it is so hard to send a single text. When you are in a secluded mindset, you dont want to interact and expose yourself to your own pain that you hide from everyone, you dont want them to find that little difference in how you talk or text and have them worry. Its not some stupid "oh i just dont care so i didnt text". The guy wants to text but his mind is telling him it is too risky so he puts it off over and over, every day. If you have a guy doing this, don't wait for him to text you first, cuz it wont happen for a long time. Its a struggle to find the urge to even wake up everyday and do anything, its not just texting, its everything. We dont get up and go eat or go to work or talk to people because we want to, we do it because we NEED to.

[Sara-yidq]

This video is gold!! Listen all you ladies!!

[Simply_Aimazing]

Great video again from you...very informative content 😍

[MyJuliebean]

Another fantastic video my only criticism is that you didn't make/post this years sooner.

[gioarrow]

That last one is 💯 RIGHT 😀 I feel the same to and its okay....aslong as He is not married.or in a commented relationship..

[TheThrivingLady]

I love this...forwarded it to a friend who needed to hear it. So, so good. Except the part about the refrigerator under the bed with body parts. Creepy! LOL! Thanks, Bern. 🤗

[xXThisIsMyAimXx]

tfw Bern drops a truth bomb & it hits you right in the chest 😭😭😭

[jeanhennessy]

I would Looove to see more Dating Coaches...teaching and Inspiring men to be Good men! :)