Accidentally Discovered That My SIL Was Cheating on My Brother With Another Man on My Nephew’s...

Accidentally Discovered That My SIL Was Cheating on My Brother With Another Man on My Nephew’s Tablet. She Said She Would Ruin My Life if I Exposed Her.

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[atlus]

Grandma has secrets I suppose.
Unofficially, cheaters feel sympathy for each other.

[whitehawk]

Ofc OP did the right thing by exposing her unhinged, cheating SIL. Keeping such a big secret from her brother wouldn’t only be extremely disloyal, but also akin to enabling the affair. Betrayed partners deserve to be fully informed so that they can make informed decisions about their lives. Affairs thrive in the dark and should always be exposed.

[Navilovesmuffins]

I'd understand why people would say OP is the asshole if she didn't give Suzanne a chance to come clean. But OP gave Suzanne more than enough time to come clean on her own. So I don't think she did anything wrong by exposing Suzanne

[mathisntmybestsubject]

I bet you the grandma cheated on the grandpa, which is why she said "you shouldn't have disrupted their marriage." She did it, but was never caught.

[ClockeworkMan]

Grandma definitely cheated and just didnt get caught

[lawsonallen]

You did the right thing. Any one saying you did the wrong thing. Is ok with cheaters. Get them out of your life.

[TheSpaceTurtle]

I would be asking Grandma who she cheated on Grandpa with, cause Grandma sounds guilty!

[FlipTheBard]

Something tells me that OP's grandma is a cheater herself, because that's the only way I can see someone defending a cheater or defending "not meddling into uncovering a cheater".

[Emmanuel-wsqo]

To anyone who think she should have done it privately, why the hell should a cheat not feel the shame of public humiliation. Plus with family there, the brother will be supported when facing the cheat. And the chances of the cheat running away before confrontation increase if the info was spread beforehand.

[WeaponXSigma]

To those who thought OP was the asshole for exposing a cheater, explain in detail why you think so. Take your time, I'll wait. While I'm waiting though, Imma just kick back and enjoy this coffee.

[takidsage]

This is just a minor detail, but ya know i really hate when women use their husbands working too much as an excuse to cheat on their partners. That man is freaking working his ass of to support the family and make sure yall are taking care of. There are probably many days when he’d like to just stay in bed and rest but he busts his add to take care of his family. _ESPECIALLY_ if he is the primary or sole provider for the family. It’s sick that while he’s out there trying to take care of them, there at home or out with other men. If you feel neglected, communicate that with your partner. If it’s THAT unbearable, (1) you should separate, and (2) you shouldn’t be in a relationship because if that’s how you will react when someone is trying to provide and take care of you, then you need to take a step back and reevaluate your expectations for a relationship. A relationship is more than just lovey feelings. You need to have resources to support that family. Or else you all will be on the street.

[randomusername]

Never confront a cheater, just expose them

[meatpopsicle_]

If you didn't tell your brother about it, then when this eventually would be known 10-15 years from now it would be releaved that you knew all this time and never told your brother., basically shielding a cheater. You'd be eben a bigger a-hole then.

[rhiarebecca]

Anyone who says a secret like that shouldn’t be exposed more than likely has cheated on their partner or knows someone who has and they’ve kept it secret etc.. anyone with morals and respect for the people they love would definitely tell the person being betrayed.

[brianarnold]

Every cheater deserves to get exposed and publically shamed, reguardless of the fall out

[doomedfromthesmart]

No snitching is the same as life in pure dishonesty.
Nta, just a kind person.

[juanhaines]

I'm worried Suzanne will try get revenge on op.

[waves]

I am still single, but if I found out I was being cheated on and had concrete evidence of it, this would be either an immediate break-up or divorce, depending on our relationship status. If we had kids, I would be fighting for as much custody as possible, out of fear that this bad behavior would influence them to make similar bad decisions in the future. Even if it was a “one time thing” or something “out of loneliness, ” I do not give a second chance when it comes to cheating.

[Business]

OP did the right thing and he saved his brother from her

Grand ma was likely a cheater herself

[juniormon]

Why does she need to confront her SIL first, as soon as she seen the message she should've ran to her brother and showed her all the evidence