My family disowned me after my girlfriend accused me of struggle snuggling her...

My family disowned me after my girlfriend accused me of struggle snuggling her, and now they want to reconnect. Plus two updates.

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[colliness]

I feel bad for OPs brother…he tried to reach out to him, and his mom blocked him. I hope OP will re-establish his relationship with him and that the brother goes NC with their mother!

[SnowWolfAlpha]

The girlfriend can talk about her guilt all she wants but she didn't confess until she was caught. She would've probably gone the rest of her life without spilling the beans.

[sugarsammy]

Annnd this is why false rape allegations should get the same time in prison. She ruined his life and faced no consequences. Disgusting how awful men are treated in society

[ern]

the op showing the cheating ex the photos oh his wife and kids all happy and telling her what she could've had if she wasn't unfaithful and a liar was so satisfying. She will remember this memory as a burden for the rest of her life and may never recover from this.

[yozarahirvi]

the the ex GF
1) cheated on OP
2) accused OP of r*pe
3) kept it hidden until proof of her actions came up

and then she have the audacity to tell OP she loves him ? and lie about not being with anyone waiting for him so that they can get back together ?

disgusting woman, disgusting parent who abandon their child in the blink of an eye !

[tonychan]

False accusers of r**e should go to jail.

[basedsalazarslytherin]

"Why are men afraid of commitment?"
"Why don't men approach anymore?"
"Why don't men make the first move?"
"Why do men not want relationships?"

Can't imagine why.

[Baronstone]

Yeah, I think he needs to include his brother in the list of family. Afterall, he did try many hundreds of times to contact him to make sure he was okay and offer support both mental and financial. As for his ex, he needs to file a lawsuit against her for $250 million

[Sgth]

She really had the audacity to apologize and thinks therapy would do wonders. Also, sounds like the parents never really loved OP. Accountability is KRYPTONITE

[OnterribleBlows]

i do feel bad for the brother, he tried after all it's more then any one else in his bio "family" did for him, but i also can understand the feelings toward him out of association but i do hope he can reconnect with his brother one day

[ncd]

Atleast reconcile with ur brother like what did he do? He even tried sending u money bruh

[TheJared]

False SA allegations should require the accuser to register as a sexual predator!

[superstan]

"I still love you"

YOU FUCKING WHAT?!

So cheating, ruining their life, and not even telling the truth (out of guilt or remorse) even after all those years are the actions of someone in love? Fucking hell I've heard it all.

[diffsnicker]

The dad is a very lucky and foolish man. To betray someone so close to him in a such a heinous and cruel fashion... people have been broken by far lesser struggles. He's lucky he made it back home with his life.

[ion_playz]

the brother is the only family that truly deserves him

[nayanD]

I heard there is an update. OP is still pretty low contact with parents but he is trying to repair his relationship with his brother. The brother even met OPs kids and wifie

[njts]

How bad times are shifting. It was suppose to be PRESUMED INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY.

[maxherrera]

There is edit on the last update: as some of you asked, I have decided I would allow my Brother to fly over and meet his Nephew and Niece. I completely forgot to mention this in the post. Apologies.

(I hesitated at first as me and my brother weren’t really on great terms growing up, brotherly rivalry and all that.)

[jamestown]

I’m glad OP stood firm and kept his dignity intact. I hope his ex and his parents never emotionally recover from this.

[MizzShortai]

I hope OP can build a relationship with his brother as he did try to reach out to OP multiple times.

The parents saying "they made a rash decison and seeing him in handcuffs broke their hearts" seriously.? Wow just wow. They dont deserve forgiveness. They didnt even give OP a chance even after their was no evidence. Disgusting pieces of work they are. I hope they are filled with regret for the rest of their lives. I also hope the cheating idiot feels guilty for the rest of her life and pines for him forever and i hope any relationship she gets in she gets cheated on.