3 Feminine Qualities Men Find Wildly Attractive Life Over 60 With Sandra Hart

Looking for a masculine man? Here are 3 major feminine qualities that will make his heart race. These are qualities that men find wildly attractive. #relationships #dating #maturewomen #lifeover60

[dale]

I do this with my severely physically disabled husband. There is always some mental task he can do. He is a former chef so he plans our meals. He plans our outings. Because he is so reliant on me for physical help we have to balance things out. Took 25 years to learn this. It works! Together 29 years.

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1. Don't forget who you are. Up your feminine energy. Give the dude a task.
2. Invite not direct.
3. Tell the dude what you like about him often.

[lisamac]

As a therapist one of the things men tell me is that they do not feel appreciated and that no matter what they do it does not appear to be enough! Saying thank you and never losing site that the person your with might not be there tomorrow is a great way to remember to say thank you, good morning and I love you It appears that couples forget to have manners towards each other but will do so with strangers!!

[Dakotad]

I did all that and cooked and cleaned. Somehow I lost myself worth while he grew prideful. I am finding my new self alone now after 38 years.

[ericb]

Simple advice for a happier relationship is Don’t criticize. Don’t complain. And don’t control. Try it. It will make a difference. ☺️

[janetstraw]

Sandra, you look absolutely stunning today!💕 I once had a therapist who told me that the more feminine a woman is the more masculine man she requires, and vice-versa. When I was single, I had a brief encounter with an impressive man who lived in the same building. One day I found a note on my door which asked - “Would you like to go to (little boxes drawn to tick) Lunch - Dinner - or the Theatre? I wrote on the bottom of the note: “Surprise me!” We were married 18 months later! 🥰

[YardleySlicker]

Hi Sandra You are so right on! I observed exactly what are you talking about with my parents: when my mom needed something fixed around the house she would ask my dad ( who worked a physically demanding job 40 plus hours a week and understandably needed his down time) who would agree to do it - and then either take his time about getting around to it, or say he couldn’t do it because he didn’t have the right tool. Frank, a neighbor across the street was the kind of guy who could fix anything - one time my mom, in a moment of exasperation with dad’s procrastinating said “Maybe I should ask Frank if he can fix it.” Dad never procrastinated again….❤

[dreamgaits]

I am a dog trainer and a dog breeder. I believe in energy and the attractiveness of positive energy. My man I have had for 25 years is a worker and a doer. That is how he shows his love. You have to cultivate the natural way men show affection. My man loves to help me if I need it. I like to make him feel like his input in my project is very important. The modern woman doesn't want to ask a "Man" (like it is a bad word) for help. Your man wants to feel helpful and strong and needed. Stop loathing what makes a man a man and you might be able to keep one.

[DS]

You gave me a lot to think about today. I'm a very independent lady, so maybe this quality of mine, kind of keeps people distant. I'm determined this year to become a better person in terms of emotional intelligence (socially) . I'm attractive, have good hygiene, I'm decent and well mannered. But, I'm a breed of my own, that's for sure. So I probably push more than pull. Also, when you let a man plan something, you will discover right away if you're compatible. So what you speak of here, applies to getting to know others too. I have given more compliments lately (which I meant) to others.

[nancystinger]

I have been single for many years and was a single parent. I have had to be independent for most of my life so many times I feel like I don’t “need a man” . Some men I had dated expect me to make phone calls for them cook etc. I am capable of doing that for them but it always feels unbalanced and they want someone to take care of them . I think being feminine is different than being a caretaker . Just like being masculine is different than being bossy or misogynistic. A healthy balanced loving relationship is like the fountain of youth if it exists .

[GreenEggsAndGram]

Great advice and reminder. I’ve been married 38 years and I do know from experience this holds true!
You’re a gem Sandra! 🌸

[CletaRancifer]

For me, I believe retirees who struggle to meet their basic needs are the ones who could not accumulate enough money during their active years to meet their needs. Retirement choices determine a lot of things. My wife and I both spent same number of years in the civil service, she invested through a wealth manager and myself through the 401k. We both still earning after our retirement.

[gloriayouchisonbrown]

What a great topic, a man just came back into my life that’s knew over sixty years
Ago, we dated in our twenties and went off and married other people, but I never forgot him
My husband passed away years ago, lo and behold I get a call last year from ex boyfriend
His wife had passed away, we sort of picked up where we left off so long ago, although we are much
Older today, but what a surprise, one never knows what the future brings, I feel like a young girl
Again.❤ thanks for your tips.

[_VR_]

My man is so naturally masculine, I’m naturally feminine and all you’re saying about the energies is true. I can see it and feel it in my everyday life.
At first, we were teenagers who didn’t understand the world so good, we were at a point where we were fighting egos because of the society feministic pressure.
Once I realized feminists are the most masculine women to exist, my natural femininity started to glow again. My man feel appreciated and NEEDED all the time. I love depending on him. I love pointing out how beautiful his body and mind is. I love saying to him “You’re the best”. Because he literally is. I CHOSE HIM. So why would I even feel the need to control him or criticize him 24/7? That looks like lack of SELF respect.

[janew]

Looking back at my 54 year marriage I do wish I had done these things more often, but sincerely of course. Everyone needs to feel loved and appreciated in a relationship. After years one tends to forget to make the other person feel special. Thank you for this and I hope it helps others.

[janithmathews]

You look amazing, so rested and rejuvenated.

[guttergrl]

I recently left my partner of 3.5+ years bc he had zero masculine energy. It brought out an unhealthy masculinity in me that left me frustrated and like I couldn’t trust him to take care of me. Im progressive in my relationships but I ultimately don’t want to me with anyone who I feel can’t or doesn’t or won’t take care or me, man woman lover or friend.

[misottovoce]

Your hair and make-up is always so perfect for you. Love your hair, so naturally curly/wavy.

[ld]

I'm laughing because I'm thinking of an interview you did with Arthur. And as much of a handful as it looked like he could be he looked pretty darn happy! In pics he looked like he was proud of you. I love that!So, hats👒 off to you, gorgeous for knowing of what you speak. 💃Very good advice and much needed. It IS difficult when you're a take charge person and let the ol' yin and yang do its dance but oh so necessary. Look at you Sandra! All hip and wise and feminine and looking so fresh and lovely! You. are. a. peach!!🍑 A beautiful ripe juicy peach!🙏🥰 Thank you.🧡

[salsera]

This is a very interesting and fascinating topic. My generation was raised to be strong independent women and the feminine energy was seen as weakness. Never too late to learn. Keep it coming!! xx