How to Split the Household Chores with Your Partner Without Bickering

How to Split the Household Chores with Your Partner Without Bickering?
This is such an important question to address as Pew Research reveals that navigating the household chores in harmony is the third highest priority associated with a positive and successful marriage.

If you’re struggling to divide the household chores with your partner, I highly recommend you to watch this entire video where I walk you through 5 steps that will help you to resolve this problem without bickering.

Right now, you may feel defeated, overwhelmed, and hopeless because no matter how you ask, your partner doesn’t do their fair share. I hear you on this.

As soon as my husband and I got back from our honeymoon, that’s when the chores war started.

We had gone to premarital counseling, attended marriage conferences, read relationship books, and despite all the advice we received, I didn’t realize how difficult it would be to manage all our new roles and responsibilities.

Like so many other couples, our happily ever after was interrupted by the piles of dishes, bills and budget, laundry, and cooking. (Not to mention, all the mental work required to complete each one of these tasks.)

So between keeping up with work and the housework- at what point was I going to have time to relax, take care of myself, and enjoy my marriage?

Friend, if this sounds familiar to how you're feeling, I want you to know you’re not alone.

Watch this video and share it with your couple friends. In it, you may find a nugget of wisdom–or two😉– that can create a real shift in this area.

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[alexakimov]

All of this is very helpful it just still kinda sucks bc it’s on the woman to lay it all out and essentially train their partner lol. Women need to teach their sons better and break the cycle.

[zmommy]

This is helpful. What if he says he will do the groceries but i do the cooking?
What if he says he will do the laundry, but doesn't get stuff done or has the kids do their own loads but then doesnt follow through with them?

[obf_molly]

I really enjoyed this video. Stuff like this can really save relationships

[utahnyc]

I been married for over 23 years and this cleaning stuff it’s causing almost for us to divorce.
We both work she work part time I work 17 hours a day two jobs . She expects me to clean or maintain the home . The problem is I get home I do what I can it’s just not enough time for me I have to go to bed .
We have 3 kids two dogs .
At this point we no longer can’t talk about this she will get extremely upset and won’t talk about it. At this point I only see us to go our separate ways.

[miltonsantiago]

What happens when partners disagree on how a task should be completed. Example how clothes are folded. Does the task owner decide?

[lillyxu]

Every piece of advices is so helpful, thank you so much! This video definitely deserves way more views!!