7 Things That Shock A Narcissist To Their Core

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In this video, I will show you 7 things that will shock a narcissist to their core!

This is an insightful video for anyone wanting to understand how narcissists think and what goes on inside their heads.

You'll learn about the seven things that can throw them off balance and shake up their world.

00:00 Introduction
00:58 When You don't Beg them
02:14 When You Take a Narcissist By Surprise
03:32 When You Discard Them
05:15 When They're Proven Wrong
07:36 When You Don't Feed Them Any Supply
09:18 When You Start Thriving
11:11 When You Show Kindness

[michelleshoffner]

We don't leave them to "hurt" them. We leave them so they can no longer hurt us.

[lisahalajian]

I became distant from him. I started making myself a priority. I joined a gym lost weight. I also became more social. I went out more with my friends. I am evolving into the best version of myself. I am healing everyday. I'm winning

[Naydi]

I'm an empath. I attract narcissists.
These videos helps a lot to manage how I react

[ranney]

One of the best things about social media is the ability to share and learn information about narcissists behaviour. I cannot believe how popular these videos are.

[unbreakablefaith]

Now that I have learned about Narcissism I feel almost dumb for letting these "children" have so much power and control over my life

[truthh]

7 Things that Shock A Narcissist-
1) When you don’t beg them
2) When you take them by surprise
3) When you discard them
4)When you prove them wrong
5) When you start thriving
6) When you don’t give them any supply
7) When you show kindness

[priscilalondon]

My narc husband tortured me with threats of abandonment for months while I was so severely depressed and suicidal I could barely work, so him leaving would be life threatening to me. Somehow I managed to pull myself out of the darkness, started working out, taking care of myself, watching videos about narcissism, and got a second job. When he said he would leave expecting me to cry or beg, I just laughed after telling him to go as fast as he could. He was so shocked.
Edit: some narcs are here saying that I was trying to trap him. Just so you know, when this predator infiltrated my life, I was at the top of game! My carreer, my health, my youth and beauty. I lived a peaceful and fulfilling life with family and friends. He pretended to be the man of mu dreams. He went to church. He took classes to be a husband! Some folks have no idea of the lengths a narc will go when they have a desire. I was a precious achievement for him to display. At that time I was completely ignorant of narcissism, otherwise I might have seen the red flags. He convinced me to move across the world. I was so blind believing he was sent from God that I trusted him completely. Biggest mistake of my life. It only cost me everything. But God had better plans for me; I was down, but He raised me up. I am succeeding, and in the narc’s territory, which he never thought I would be able to. I proved I can be independent even in his country, in a total different language and culture. That’s the narc’s biggest mistake: they underestimate our resilience, our inner strength, which are things they don’t have, so they live it through us. I was depressed because he was sucking my soul dry, like a vampire.

[mikki]

Be careful when trying to leave, have a safety plan in place. I won't go into my experience only to say I am so grateful to be alive.

[carolynjaynes]

The best revenge is no contact and become your best self. Don’t look back. They do not deserve your loyalty!

[lorifeil]

I stopped speaking to my parents 25 years ago. My mother is a narcissist and my father is her little slave. Best choice I ever made! 😊

[duckytime]

The saddest part...is nobody believes they are traumatized. If I watched you before my experience, I would label you a nut case. Everything you say, is so true. Thank you for your commitment to heal.

[mariahdejoya]

I've mastered all 7 things. My ex must be extremely shooketh. To anyone in the midst of this abuse or starting their healing journey: I PROMISE life gets so much better and you will come out the other side so much stronger and wiser. Love and light ☀

[shellbell]

My sister is a covert narcissist - one of the most malignant I have ever come across. Once when I started a new relationship that was going really well, she started yelling at me telling me that I "always do this" and how I am so pathetic that I need a relationship to feel whole. This was after I had just been single for 3 years - lol. I stayed really calm and said to her "You have no idea who I am". I could visibly see the shock on her face; almost like she had just been slapped. She was so sure she knew me inside out; but because she never listens to me or asks me a single question about me or my life, she truly has no idea who I am. She only has her delusional assumptions to go on and it never occurred to her that I'm a person in my own right.

[pfandahalf]

I just left a situation with a narcissist. I came very close to losing all of my possessions but I'll tell you what worked. I treated that person like they were the smartest person in the world and that I'm dumb. It immediately worked. Then when everything was going great, knowing that wouldn't last, I took all of my stuff and left and will never contact that person again for the rest of my life.

[josephinestory]

I shocked the hell out of him after 50 years of abuse, telling me he could leave me any time, didn’t have to put up with stupid dumb me, he’d have me committed, until the day I said calmly after another “I can leave you anytime” .. “if that’s what you want, I’ll help you pack”. I gathered up enough of his things and put them by his car. The look on his face as he drove away I will always remember. I’d trumped him.
Of course the coercion, lies to everyone got worse but everyone saw through him.
No friends, Alzheimers, bitter and twisted.

[eileenjtm]

Inside every narcissist there is a deeply wounded child. I am vulnerable to a narcissist because inside me is a deeply wounded child. I cannot change anyone but myself. There are no winners on either side, just children who had to adapt to survive.

[freebe]

My mental abuser got me into a state of great anger when I discovered yet another betrayal, I lost my cool and tore some family pictures. They feigned total fear and shock at my outburst, and called for a family meeting where everyone had a go at me, then as their final nail in the coffin they said "do you realize that you are a danger and need professional help?", to which I replied, "I totally take accountability for the upset I caused you all, and will comply with any mental health professional to rectify my behavior." To my surprise, everyone began to backpedal on their attack on me at the prospect of having a professional look into the situation. They had NOT expected that outcome! I'm currently talking to a therapist, and will continue to do so until I have managed to go no contact.

[rieniemclellan]

I started treating the narcissist in the same manner and this SHOCKED the narcissist.
I was tired of being physically and verbally treated in the most horrible manner.

[Jupand]

He asked, as I threw my things into a bag “are you leaving” for a minute I was going to say no but I stated “yes” and drove away blocked and never spoke to them again

The expression on his face was priceless :)

[solice]

My narcissist was shocked when I left her and had the divorce papers served. She thought she had me totally under her spell having put me through the ringer several times with her treacherous actions to betray me. She thought no way in hell I would walk away from everything I built financially (where she invested nothing). She bragged about her control openly as if to rub it into my face. Then came the process server and her narcissistic rage. I survived but never again, ever.