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📄 ABOUT ME:
My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

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FAQ:
How old are you? - 23 years old!
Where are you based? London, UK
What's your star sign? Libra sun, Aquarius moon and Cancer rising

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[vashika]

you have single-handedly changed my mindset tam & i’m so thankful 💓

[Jane_]

I put the message, "I don't need others' validation" on my whiteboard a month ago and now, I remember it throughout the day while I'm out. I feel so much better. I love this message, and this nail color. 💙

[lilaxshade]

Yes! Focus on yourself/what you can control.

[KareenaRolay]

Thank you sooo much because you have actually saved my life because I have anxiety but thanks to you I have blossomed

[kasiakoziol.]

you’re truly an inspiration for others. thank you! <3

[Sophia.MoonXo]

Tam you are always so helpful thank you for all you do🤍🩶 truly one of my fav girls on YouTube

[Lasya-eu]

You are awesome❤, how do you always know what I'm going through, you give me the right piece of advice at the right time!

[gulsumben]

This video inspired me and finally i started to care less people who don't worth for it

[theunbalancedlibran]

Omg !! I was driving myself crazy abt evil eye 🧿Thanku for explaining so beautifully 🌸

[SimpleMunisa]

I am doing a great job on my own ❤
Thank you ❤

[samcarmen]

ADVICE: when you shift your mindset about shame and verbalize it, you will see how people see you differently. These are two conversations I’ve recently had with a people.

Me: Thank you!
Them: it wasn’t a compliment
Me: well I’m taking it as one, you can only be insulted if you let yourself feel insulted


Them: you should feel embarrassed
Me: something is only embarrassing if you let yourself feel embarrassed


Both times they had a surprised face. These were during joking jabs with friends but it also applies when people are actually insulting you. You have to let people know that you are truly not the one and stand on that. People will realize that their negative comments have no power over you. You need to realize that yourself too

[uxoxj]

Thank you soo much, I really needed to hear this rn ❤️

[Tj-dmpl]

Woaahhh 🤯🤯 makes soo much sense omg thanks Tam

[ThatDumbBlonde__]

It's my birthday and I'm gonna use your advice to make this year my year<3

[RenaMoorvitch-lzjf]

Do you have any tips to help? Because my love languages are quality time and words of affirmation😭 and I have no friends rn so I’m trying to be okay without validation but it’s hard

[Yourlocal_Vampirelover]

I'm a silent watcher that doesn't mean I don't support the channel, just saying

[ClefairyFairySnowflake]

It's so hard to evade "evil eye" sometimes. Especially in high pressure situations. 😩😣😈 I need to stop seeking external validation, like you said. I will do my utmost to do better next time! 😤👊🥲

[Anya-]

The timing of this message is insane❤️‍🩹