She Doesn’t Love Me Anymore - WTF Do I Do?

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In this video, I'm going to talk about...

- The moment she tells you “It’s OVER” is NOT the moment when it’s OVER…

- This is the precise moment when she’s actually watching you the closest…

- You have just been given the best & biggest opportunity to really showcase your changes and change her mind!

Through my years of being a relationship coach, I've guided my clients through every possible scenario and given them the tools they need to not only rebuild trust, but to take their relationship to heights it's never been before.

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[GeoffreySetiawan]

Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)

[Jake-rnlj]

Your videos are how I got my girl back. She was stonewalling me, told me I was being too negative, told me my depression was bringing her down. But I kept working through it and pulled myself together while listening to your advice and got her back and now we’re happier than ever💪🏻

[williamgarcia-medina]

The problem is that my wife doesn’t care whether I’m changing or not. She just doesn’t care anymore. She’s saying that past harm can’t be overcome. At this point, I’m changing for me because I can’t expect anything from her.

[aiden_zae]

Watching your videos, gave me a different outcome than expected. I come here to give myself hope that one day she would wanna get back with me but after listening to you about becoming better version and emotional control, i made a decision that even if she doesnt come back, im okay with it, i forgive her, i love her so therefore im happy as long as she is even if it means not with me. All this give me internal peace whereas before this i was angry and sad that she left me without explanation. Thank you so much man.

[rrurban]

Most wives say this exact thing. “Too much damage”, but things change with time and healing

[nienjaysonzanoria]

Thank you for making this type of content, I really want to get my girlfriend back after she lost her feelings towards me. I'm not sure if I should move on or wait but she keeps getting out of reach, doesn't want to face me, and implying that we're really over. I'm just trying to make things right after the way I mistreated her, not in any abuse though, but because of my insensitivity and lack of sense like breaking my promises and letting her down for many reasons. I still love her.

[robinsonortiz]

Geoffrey nails this one. My wife filed for divorce and she gave me ZERO hope. She has also been hitting me with congruency tests (subtle insults etc). She informed me she is dating other men. Through this process she has been watching me like an FBI agent. I have not crumbled. I have remained bulletproof and untethered. My wife appears stunned by my emotionally regulated behavior. Thank you Geoffrey for your wisdom. I will keep you posted.

[_multiverse_]

How can they watch you if you can't stand to be with them in a platonic way?
Every time I see her, we have a good time, we enjoy our company but every time I leave I feel like when she left all over again.

Being around someone you love who doesn't love you back in the same way is gut wrenching.

[johanndupreez]

It is just incredible how accurate you hit the nail on the head here. It is exactly what is currently in my relationship. You are a very brilliant young man and have thought a 50 year old what the problem is. Thank you so much for your contribution and it is comforting to have a way forward. Changes will be made and I see it now. Breaking the cycle….

[Chris-ykzc]

Thx so much Man u saved my marriage she loves me so much now ur the best

[leeretaschen]

You can’t force someone to love you. If she tells you it’s over, or her actions tell you it’s over, believe her. Take your dignity and leave. Life is too short.

[michaeleseverin]

you are one of the greatest persons on the face of this earth i pray God allways continue to bless you bro for real thank you for all you do

[AP-seok]

I’m going through it right now but everything he says hits the head on the nail.

[gamitha]

I have been struggling a lot to create the low values nowadays, even though, in my understanding they don't add as much as the high ones in a relationship, i do belive that they are a must to have.
Probably I've been struggling because i was not able to internally change as much as it's needed to. Thats why i lack the courage to talk to her again. Even if i have quite a path yet to walk I'm really glad that I'm aware of that and other things thanks to you. I manage to have the control of my emmotions and rationality back thanks to each eye opener video . I really appreciate your work.
Keep it up. I will be back someday with great news about the relationship I'm trying to rebuild. I swear.

[WilliamCarter-svny]

Hey Geoffrey, your videos have been a life saver! I've saved so many to rewatch, relisten and take notes on. My longterm gf broke up with me 1 month ago exactly. Since then I've been looking myself in the mirror and trying my best to improve. 2 weeks ago I reached out, opened a door and left it there. Still NC from her and I'm still workin on myself. My question today is that, do you have any encouragement or positivity to improvement when your partner is broken up or separated? I think these ideas are amazing and I appreciate all your videos.

[jothishkumar]

Your video's says you can still regain her with positivity hope and trying to be the best version of you even though if she leaves then accept nd let her go .

[leoserakos]

Geoffrey top notch video once again. Thanks for sharing the 5 point roadmap at the end 👍

[tena]

She broke up with me just after Thanksgiving. 10 year relationship. Gone. I know the things that broke it. Anger on my side and forcing a trip to happen, trust broken on both sides. It's messy. But there was a lot of good. A LOT. My anger and even the forcing of the trip stemmed from expectations on my side, which i should have handled and communicated better. The trust was an issue on both sides.

I just hope she'll remember all the good. The sacrifices. The time and care i gave. I wish there was a clear path to reignite those feelings she once had. I'm doing no contact. I'm dieting and exercising (lost 22lbs already). I'm fixing my home situation. I'm working on myself in every way. But I'm struggling to balance my feelings, as i still wish she were here with me

[williamshula]

I would join your program if I had the money. My situation is as hopeless as I've ever felt. She doesn't love me, she's seeing someone else and she really believes that she'll get the house and the kids and her best friends are divorced. For 5 months I've been unable to create emotional safety. I don't know how to completely un-tether. Your videos are the only things that give me hope. That's for the hope.

[whysomad]

You are helping me to keep me sane rn..

Were 25 years old are together since 2016, got a daughter (almost 4) and a son (almost 2), I didn't do shit for a whole year, we smoked weed like idiots daily, didn't talk about our problems with each other, stuffed all of those emotions and questions into ourselves and couldn't open up, now she says she doesn't love me anymore, that her feelings are blocked, that she ofc "wuvs me" but that "love" and "sexual attraction" is gone. We are seeing each other everyday for we live together and we started to talk about things, I realized that I was the problem and I changed couple weeks ago and I am happy with my changes, she still let's me wobble like a fish on the hook. It breaks me but it also breaks her, she feels "guilty" of making me feel that way, while i tell her that she doesn't have to because her feelings rn are genuine and that I understand what went wrong, that if she needs time and space I am more than willing to give it to her.

She now wants to go to her mothers place for a week, I said I'd go so she can stay with our children.

I am going away for 3 days I think, I know going away is the wrong approach but what should I do? I just talked with her and we understood each other, that we should've talked last year, that I should've been around her more and help her with "life", but I wasn't and didn't. I didn't have a job or ambition, now I have a good Job for my future ambitions which I found and am doing more than I woulf at 100% last year, it's too late tho. She also didn't talk about her needs and emotions and shoved all of it under the rug, now it's all too late, we are talking yes but her feelings are numb. She doesn't want everything to be good again, she doesn't know how to want it and she doesn't know if she will ever again.

I am standing strong tho. I changed not only for her but for my kids and myself, in hope that she falls in love with the person again that I rly am without hiding anything and being demotivated.

But do you think it's hopeless though? Do you think we still got a future together or that she (in her prime rn) is going to want to live her life without me? I breaks me, my heart bleeds and I feel like suffocating to death, but am holding on to hope which feels non existent.. help?