13 Signs She's Stringing You Along

Sometimes when women really enjoy your attention & the validation that you give them, but are not completely feeling a high level of attraction for you, they will lead you to believe that there's a chance for a relationship or sex with them, but it will never really happen. You can waste weeks, months or years or your life waiting for that to come, but it never does. She's stringing you along or leading you on.

In this Attraction Tips video I'm going to be discussing 13 common signs that a woman is stringing you along, why you're falling for it, & what you can do to stop it. And if you continue going along with this it will eventually turn into resentment towards her & anger towards yourself for continuing to fall for it. #mensdatingadvice #deceptivetactics #redflagsindating #selfrespect
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I'm Erik Peterson, a men's relationship & dating coach, and at Skill of Attraction I provide dating tips & relationship advice, mainly for men, to help facilitate growing & maintaining attraction in their romantic relationships to where it's fun, loving & relatively effortless.

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[ModernDatingMastery]

*Respect yourself enough to walk away when you notice you’re putting in all the effort.*

[drmdj]

Couch is right guys, unfortunately I got into this situation and I've asked myself how I could be so dumb in put myself in this relationship that was not really a relationship but that I've struggled a lot to get over, even though it's been 3-4 months that I walked away.
The worst part is know that all this time she was using me for attention and validation and I was doing everything coach said, waiting patiently for things changing. You know what? I've been feeling terrible since the day I cut her off cause I miss her a lot, but I've realized after this time that it was all an illusion of my mind and that was never gonna work from her part. Follow what coach Erick suggests, it could be very painful for you, like it's been for me, but there's no other way, this situation sucks.
Just to point out, I'm even thinking about going to the psychologist after all that, for you see how fuck up I am after it all. I'll make sure I won't fall in this trap ever again.

[NightOrchids]

you forgot point 14.. shes always active or online on FB or another Chat program.. means shes chatting to someone else or afew other men, but shes keeping you as a play thing or backup...
My gf relates to about 9 of these points.. and your right..in my gut i know .. I'm just fantasising about what i want, not the truth.. i might just walk away.. but she wont meet, its all over txt.. she only lives 8Miles away, but shes alway "active Now" on messenger.. shame

[PierresWildAdventure]

You're my favorite relationship coach. Spot on 👍🏻

[K-yb]

Just broke up again with my ex who was stringing me along. She has no intention from moving on from the past and wants to crucify me for a bad choice I made while I was with her. Has narcissistic traits and is using manipulation to keep me hanging on. I've invested so much time in her the past 12 months, so hard to let her go and she knows this so she keeps playing the game. I told her we're done! I just hope I can ride out this no contact so I can heal and recover from all this shit!

[JJohnstonLife]

Man, this breaks my heart. This girl I was seeing, used to message me "good morning" every morning, she'd come to see me and let me see her. I did meet her friends. But, when I mentioned a relationship everything went cold. She told me cared about me but wasn't in love with me but then told me she would give me a chance when I started to pull away. She asked me if I wanted to go on a trip with her. There's been several red flags but there's also been some good things, too. But, this video, unfortunately, makes it very clear. I just don't know if I have the strength to stop it. I'm madly in love with her and I don't see anyone giving me the attention she... sometimes gives me. But, I'll never find it waiting on her either.

[tompiper]

thanks for the great advice I'm going through a situation just like this

[mariomarin]

Appreciate that. Definitely making a change tomorrow.

[rompastompa]

When you say "walk away from this" do you mean to actually tell her that I'm breaking up or just go into no contact and only get in touch with her if she reaches out again?

[terrilam]

I'm a woman, and he's telling the truth. I was a woman that strung a guy along for some years knowing we didn't want the same thing. I did, and still do love him, but never wanted to be married again, which I told him several times, even in the beginning. And yes, I could have walked away and spared him, but I got caught up in my feelings because again, I did/do love him.

[bobross]

All of these are spot on. This happened to me and it is very frustrating and insulting and you feel like you wasted your time. You can do everything right, be funny and charming and confident, and still have this happen to you. Attractive women are masters at this kind of thing and guys are not. They give you just enough hope to keep you on the hook, but then after some time, you realize that she is not going out with you (anymore), always "busy" and you basically have a texting buddy. Actually good guys are the ones most vulnerable to being strung along because we are confident enough to think she will go out with us, we are a catch so why wouldn't she, and we have good jobs, or think we are attractive enough for her. That is what she uses to string you along. A loser will not even ask her out and if a guy is ugly or broke, she gets nothing from it and gets a hard no.

Some women like having orbiters. It gives them validation. a source of guys that can do things for her, and actually raises her standing with other women to be seen with all these guys chasing her.

What to do? Always stick to the three strike rule. Ask her out (definite date with definite time) three times and no matter what the excuse is, if she does not say yes she does not like you that way. If you have not gone out with her yet, this keeps you from becoming invested in her more than a month. If you did go out with her a few times or even dated and she does not go out three times? You need to walk away completely. No texts, no calls, unfriend or unfollow on social media. If you don't you will hit her up again and girls can string you along years if you let them. If it turns into a year, she thinks you are buddies and you are stuck there forever. She has to know you see her sexually, you asked her out like a man, she was not interested, so you are NOT friends. That is the only way to turn it around. If she misses you or thinks she blew it by taking you for granted, you have a chance, but it is not good. But better than the zero chance if you put up with being strung along. And you are no longer wasting your time.

[CoverBrazilian]

You should do a video on girls leading on men early on. Here’s my situation: Girl in my class would hit on me a lot. After about a week I asked her out, she excitedly pulls her phone out and gets my number and texts me. This was on a Friday. Same day tell her hey, we should hang out this weekend. She was like actually I unfortunately forgot that I’m going to go see my grandparents. Okay whatever, in comes next week on Wednesday, she apologized to my face, and said she really was busy, but that this weekend we’d hang out. Fair enough, then come Friday of this same week and she has a “last minute trip” with her friends to a different state. After that revelation she’s starts texting me flirty and saying I’d be their sexy bodyguard next time. I then got annoyed and ignored her. In person in class the next week I said hi, and proceeded to talk to everybody but her. After class she starts chasing me over text, practically declaring her love for me. Now I’m just pissed, not because I feel hurt idgaf, I’m confident. I’m pissed because I’m starting to see just how much of a piece of shit she is, where she’s willing to manipulate another humans emotions in order to validate herself. You have any information as to why some women do this? Its super bizarre to me.

[johnmortimerjbmfitness]

Here's a couple I've had every hour god sent, so u can't date her very often, but tells u she would be happy to see u more often. Rents an apartment in a hotel complex, with the terms that x boyfriends can't visit due to the company having past issues with x' causing trouble....but....she is allowed female guests...she can go round other hotel rooms, and the hotel turns a blind eye to everyone else having guests...just not x boyfriends she never quite has enough money for u both to rent a new place, despite working silly hours. All these things just to keep u at arms

[Dom-cmdy]

Hello Eric! I need a bit of advice for my current situation with my girlfriend of 4 years. So we both started dating since we were 15 (I know that’s pretty young) and just today her and I had a whole conversation about a lot of personals. For a little while now she’s been having a whole lot of family problems thats making her change and she’s told me that “there’s a lot going on, she hates the thought that she’s growing up fast”, (especially at a really young age because she had to take care of herself, family, etc and she use to want to grow up fast at that time). She’s also pointed out to me that we dated at a young age, didn’t know how it truly feels to love (tho I felt it but she didn’t grow up feeling that love/affection so she became the type to not be all lovey/affectionate), she liked the feeling that someone was by her side, and she told me that she’s waited for me for hours (because I was always busy back then with my own situations), and now I’m waiting for hours on her..(Tho I have been waiting even when I was busy but she doesn’t realize it..) Idk what to do and I’m sorry if this is long. She’ve also told me that it does get stressing reassuring someone then tells me to not get her wrong because she wants me to know that she truly won’t stop loving me and so on but it puts a lot on her. (I’m a big overthinker and I always thinking that I’m slowly losing her tho I know I shouldn’t because that may end up becoming true one day. I just love her too much, but sometimes I feel like I’m not enough or something). I really need your advice ): I want to change and be better for her and for me.

[mikemarks]

When they want money they will really string you along and never have any intentions of being with you. I had one like this and I walked off. Women can be disquisting

[ahmog]

Great tips! Good sign for me to walk away.

[DC-wpoj]

Been there. Then she went with another guy. Manipulation at its finest.

[mikec]

Hello Sir ! Great video . How can I use your coach services through email or phone ?

[alphapimp]

I’m tired of hearing that there is plenty of women out there that will go out with me. I’m sick of hearing that. Where are these women?