how i (realistically) romanticize my life everyday | daily habits that make me the main character

For the sake of productivity, I used to float through life as efficiently as possible. I felt very robotic and struggled to find joy unless something exciting was going on. I decided a few months ago to make myself the main character of my own life, and started prioritizing romanticizing my life every single day. This started with trying aesthetic ideas from TikTok and Pinterest, but eventually evolved into these five daily habits that keep me present and in love with life. By doing these, I learned that romanticizing your life does not have to be about looking great or even feeling great, but showing up for yourself every day, and appreciating the smallest parts of that.

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age: 23
race: black

[LynetteAdkins]

What's something you try to do every day to romanticize your life?✨ I love learning/getting ideas from each other!

[brownskinbeauty]

My mantra. I say every morning before my feet hits the floor. Is I have more then enough time. It’s never to late. Any time is the right time. Then I move. It’s truly amazing

[mschrisfrank]

I’m all about the little luxuries—grinding fresh coffee beans, lighting a candle while I work at my desk, listening to music on my morning commute, doing a sheet mask while I read, etc.

[inactive]

I try to live by the saying: "There's no point in living if you can't feel alive!" So I try to stop being caught up in trying to get somewhere but focus on *feeling life* to the fullest if that makes sense 😅🥰

[colewashington]

Sometimes I have this feeling where I think “what am I looking forward to?” The weekend? Getting off work? And it’s not enough anymore. I definitely need to change up my routine

[natasha.]

Love this! I tend to romanticize life because it helps with my depression and anxiety.

[genessiperez]

Working out first thing in the morning and blocking out social media/texting during work hours or quality time with loved ones, helps me to come back to myself in a way. I like being my own little world and focused on what's right in front of me. I love how you phrase the title as "romanticizing" your life. It's a sweet way to look at your self-care routine 😊

[ZoeysMusings]

I live in my head 95% of the time so I romanticize my life by being more present, whether it be grounding myself by sitting outside in the sun, reading a book, loving on or playing with my hair or manifesting the life I want. Life is as romantic as you want it to be! You're a gem, Lynette!🥰🙌🏽

[nicoleonfeels]

This is a unique way to really get to enjoy the little things in life. I’m trying this out ✨

[talisha]

I’m so glad you discussed the importance of romanticizing your life everyday. Doing various things for yourself such as making your bed, putting on something cute, doing your hair, buying & taking care of flowers, washing your car, cooking, etc is vital to your mental health and sense of self worth. Regardless of whether or not you’re in a relationship, you are important and your existence matters😘🥰😉

[realshantia]

I can't agree enough that dressing up, even though I work from home really boosts my attitude. I do it all for myself and it makes me feel great.

[katpedra]

yesss we all have to start romanticizing our lives!! this is your sign to start! 🥰🥰🥰

[suethecoffeeaddict]

Romanticizing life and adding everything a bit romance is the key i guess, it's just making my day and life better ❤

[jaysays]

This affirms the shifts I’ve been feeling post breakup. My morning routine has become so vital to my day, meditations, yoga, and a shower. I find myself skipping to make my coffee bc I’m so excited for that process and my first sip. Thanks for sharing your experiences!

[shesliterate]

Just want to say that you have been a GODSEND for me during this pandemic. Finding you and your videos have made me feel more calm and inspired! I love watching you and your little pup (: I work that corporate / office life job too and am trying to grow my YT channel, so again, you have just been really inspirational and beautiful to watch. All my best to you, and thanks for your amazing content!! 💜💜💜

[funkyandbold]

Girl, life is an adventure. You can literally do whatever you want. Life can kick so much ass it's not even funny. Do you know how many people want to know who you are? Mama you are killing it. People want to be you. Don't doubt how exciting your life is.

[SunRayBabyJ]

This is what I've been doing and it is changing my life for the better. These daily practices help to keep me centered and grounded. I feel like I'm living in gratitude for the bed that I have, the food that I eat, to be able to exercise my body, etc. Thanks for sharing💛💛

[serenitybeats]

You probably dont remember me but i used to watch your videos so much last year, i just stopped watching because of highschool you know. But im back and im so proud of how much your channel has grown so far!!! It’s amazing!! Sending all my love 💖💖 also can we talk about how gorgeous you are seriously

[sacdaabdurhman]

“Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come.” Sharing some love from a small YouTuber.
Loved the video 💜

[currnc]

I feel like I'm truly living when I can take the time to appreciate the beauty in the sights, scents, sounds and feelings of everyday life.
The editing in this video is amazing BTW (like a Jenn Im vlog) and I love the refreshing outlook, particularly at the end of a Monday.