How Much Freedom Should You Give Ni User Women? | CS Joseph Responds

CS Joseph responds to the Acolyte question how much freedom should you give Ni user women?

Psychoanalyzing and video games collide:

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[toddhoward]

4:22 "I'm going up an extremely steep path"

4:30 *Shows slight incline*

[nourelhouda]

I have to say that I looove these photoshopped thumbnails 😂

[rc_bambi]

(ISTP) Yeah it's really not a matter of how much Ne you give her, it's more about how much Si you give her. That freedom is just seeking Si, so if you provide that there shouldn't even be an issue.

[dr.hebagadallahclinicalpha]

And when Ni user are ignored in a relationship, because some boundaries are ok some are not . They simply leave, which is the best choice for them . I wish every man is as clear as that, that's how Ni Hero move on to find someone else unregretablly, no drama, no extra chaos . We can detect the difference between a supportive and an unsupportive man quickly . So grateful for clarity and honesty . And for time saving.

[ChickVicious]

All the Ni women watching that were waiting to get angry at CSJ's take on this question:

"Oooooh snake?" 😍

[sylviaowega]

I’m actually a Ti user female (INTP), and do frequently tired of my Ni user male (an INTJ) trying to social engineer me. He will often try to social engineer me by constantly trying to change me by trying to teach his way. For instance he’ll come to me by telling me something like, “I’m here trying to teach you by trying to get to you what you say and not often so many people by constantly being so blunt”, and so on.

[bodhisattvaFM]

4:55 That was a good luck snake. Everybody play lotto this weekend.

[aishaadam]

My sister is isfp and i am intp, it is like she doesnt know what consequence is. When She get moody or upset she does whatever she wants not caring what comes after it, she loses her staff all the time not simple things like important expensive things, further more she makes it like it is your promblem to solve and the time you reject to give clean up her mess, all of sudden you are bad guy and calls you bad names

[Luki]

I'm really disappointed You're didn't type this snake 😦

[Klingon]

As Ne parent, I appreciate the efficiency of Ni parent at coming up with best approaches or course of action. Sometimes Ni parent is blind to all the possibilities which is where I come in. I like to give my ENFJ wife as much info as possible and let her narrow down what she likes of those possibilities, and if she's well informed, her Ti inferior will weigh the options and be able to express exactly why she thinks one plan is better than another in a logical way. It's a good arrangement that usually works out well and helps me overcome Ni critic when I feel overwhelmed with making decisions. If done right, it feels like I'm using her as a sounding board, listing all the pros and cons of various possibilities, and she will call out the ones that sound the best. When this breaks down is sometimes deciding what to have for dinner. Her Si trickster prevents her from being decisive most of the time with food. She would prefer to go with what the family wants and we're all high Ne users, so you can imagine how that goes.

[law]

Beautiful area to walk! I've noticed, just like STPs and wearing Aviator sunglasses, ENTPs a lot of the time wear the exact kind sunglasses you have on..and just met another ENTP with them the other day!

[RRRsimracing]

The intro song is so much better than the last imo : ) .

[Mugzchunch]

Mr Cs Joseph, you should do a series of you exploring nature and recording your reactions and musings doing so. I for one think this would be very entertaining.

[officialaikido]

Thank you for your harsh Ti Parent.
I want to say that I appreciate the course corrections you are giving (while being hated) but you are still going further and further.

[giuseppelorisnuzzo]

Now i get why my ex friend (girl) would be overreactive when i a) First complimented her and b) displayed attention toward someone that was not her in front of her. But God if that's all It takes to influence INXJ how shallow Is that, and how many times/easily can they be used

[abrahiemdash]

4:46
Skechers are actually super comfy it's my favorite brand

[akaboo]

Ni trickster and Ni demon can do some really bad things.

[eskrest]

What is the difference between choosing the best path forward as an outcome-focused type and having a plan as a J type?

[akaboo]

Great video. I've also seen SJs make bad choices too.

[kiddracoify]

Okay, should NI users not work on forseeing consequences, planning around them and in the end not at least be considerate enough to help with the clean up? Just asking, pretty sure I am an NI user and that is something I am working on.
Also maybe I am naive as hell, but I thought not violating bounderies/ taking away freedom is a given thing in a relationship. Anyway great video