If People Who Dislike Children Said What's On Their Mind

I would prefer not to hold your baby.

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[jogaile]

That moment when you say you don't like kids and everybody looks at you like you murdered their whole family.

[ronjarovardotter]

Why I don't want children:
- I don't like them.
- I feel uncomfortable around them and don't know how to handle them.
- I'd be a terrible mom.
- I can hardly take care of myself let alone of an additional human being.
- I am an extremely introverted person and need a lot of time on my own in order to recharge my batteries.
- I have struggled with an eating disorder and depression more than half of my life and am still not recovered. Way to be an example for my child.

[Babys-Interior]

I hate when people act like I'm satan just cuz I don't like kids. Like I'm not gonna drop kick it out the window, I just don't want to be around it.

[petehuskins]

I have never held a baby (I'm 49) and I have never wanted kids. The older I get the more I dislike children. Constantly noisy and demanding!! No thank you!

[hmilz]

I understand if someone loves kids and meets somebody who doesn't it can seem weird to think that someone can not love them. But saying things like 'oh your clock is ticking' or 'you are heartless for not wanting kids' is actually quite rude. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and if someone doesn't want to go through labour and have the responsibility of raising a child then that is their choice. Please respect that!

[idontcare]

I think it's disgusting when people talk about how cute it is when their babies poop. Jesus Christ nobody wants to hear that especially when your eating UGH

[riverwaterworth]

"but you were a child how could you hate children" well I hated myself even as a child

[piemonkeyponypuppy]

"You were a child once!" Whoever said I like myself??
This video is extremely relatable. Bless this content.

[JulianneHannes]

I don't hate babies I just hate their mothers when they try to use their baby as a trophy to push in the faces of single girls hoping they'll get them to feel like less than a woman because they don't have babies, THAT is what I hate.

[annm]

I don't know why people get so butt hurt when people say they don't want kids. I personally would like to have kids someday but I would never judge someone for not wanting them. The world is overpopulated enough

[divapenk]

i relate to this video so much and everyone always says "oh you'll love kids when you're older!" like no i wont and right now i hate you as well as kids

[arjii]

my mum always say, "What if you find the perfect one and she wants one" well im sorry but the perfect one wont want a baby either

[pegasusdey]

I'm always told 'you were a baby too !' never asked people to like me as a baby ! cmon !

[loserchips]

"I didn't like kids, when I was a kid!"

I am currently 11 and in the future I will be able to say this truthfully.

[АяЯнсен]

Why do people assume that if a person doesn't like kids, you have to show them as many photos, babies, diapers as you can? Some people just aren't into it. It's OK, find another topic for a conversation;)

[jurneejones]

I don't know why people act so weird when people say that they don't want or like children, the world is already overpopulated and we don't have enough food for everyone

[RC]

I personally find children annoying. I never get that "warm and fuzzy" feeling when I'm around children or babies like I do when I'm around animals. People need to stop trying to force parenthood on those who have no desire to be parents. I just wish some breeders would get off my back about it and mind their own business and worry about themselves.

[MomoiroGirl]

I kinda hate myself for it, but generally I don't want any kids anywhere near me. If they come closer to me, I go further away from them. Like a magnet. I very rarely see a kid I don't mind. It's like parents think that kids are automatically cute, no, they're not if they running around screaming like wild animals. I was not an unruly kid, and simply can't comprehend how some parents simply can't control them from something as simple as not kicking your seat. If they fall and cry, I get it, I might too if I seriously hurt myself, and kids are sensitive. But leave my fucking seat alone, shut up screaming just because you think it's fun, and don't fucking pick your nose and then try to touch me. I have literal OCD and can't touch ANYONE, especially a kid who is pretty much BOUND to not yet have learned to wash hands after touching something dirty or been to the toilet, pick their nose and drool etc.
I realize kids won't actually read this, and that it's the parents who raise them and all that, but I needed to vent DX

[haileybleach]

I will only adopt. You cant hurt a child who's not conceived yet. But you can help a child who is.

[nataliee]

Omg...when people try to get me to hold their baby...NO!!!!