How to speak softly and elegantly: 10 Tips To Make You A Better Speaker | Jamila Musayeva

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How to speak softly and elegantly: 10 Tips To Make You A Better Speaker|
In this video, I share 10 tips that will improve your speaking skills. You will learn how to have a more soothing and calmer voice and which exercises to do to soften your vocal cords. Speaking softer and more elegantly is a skill that you can acquire but it takes time and practice to do so.

Share your favorite tips and techniques in the comment section below.

Yours,
Jamila

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[ChaimaaTraida]

يلي جات من انستغرام لتتعلم لتنعم صوتها تحط لايك 🤣🤣🤣

[mulberrymugwump]

I'm naturally a soft talker and gentle, but being a medical student it requires me to be cut-glass quick and sharp. Otherwise people think you're stupid and walk all over you... sad.

[Carmen]

You are right silence is gold, people think that being soft talker is weak, they are very wrong! Thank you Jamila as always, you never failed to deliver what your viewers request/suggestions. I am very grateful that you are helping a lot of ladies/women bringing etiquette back to fashion.

[ailurii]

How to have a soft and elegant voice (translated from another comment):

- Breathe, the more relaxed your breathing is, the softer you will speak
+ Exercise, breaths with the diaphragm.
+ Breathing exercises (exhale, hold 15 seconds, inhale), do it 3 or 4 times.
- To be sitting and standing straight.
- Speak slowly, take pauses when you are speaking and be comfortable with silences.
+Try to read slowly.
- Enunciate the words, emphasize what you want to say
+ Practice with tongue twisters
- Use grammar when speaking (do not use slang, profanity, do not cut words)
- Expand your vocabulary (read books especially classic books or poetry)
- If you speak in a very high tone, practice whispering, but that another person can hear you.
-Drink water
- Loosens the mouth and vocal cords
+ Massage the vocal cords
- Record yourself speaking.
- Practice

[anonymousnation]

Take it from the most aggressive woman ever. One of my exes pointed out that my tone is very angry and loud. No one before him ever corrected me on this. I worked on my tone and conversation style and it helped massively in socializing and connecting with people. Also, men are blown away by soft voice and elegant tone as they find it seductive.

[nature_is_beautiful]

My best tips here are
Speaking slowly
Breathing
Enunciation
Posture
Im working effortlessly on them
Thank you

[sakinaparmar]

As said by His Holiness Maula Ali, “half of your beauty comes from the way you speak.”

[sethhhh]

1. bernafas dgn diafragma--sebelum speech
2. sit or stand straight
3. speak slower, silence is gold
5. volume-how u loud ur speak--speaking more slowly (for me)
6.enunciate word
7. proper grammar
8.expand vocab (classic book, poetry)
9. practice whispering voice (bisikan)
10. drinking water
11. relaks pita suara, mulut (yawn, mmm, massage)
12. recording yourself

[littlecupofstars]

I needed to hear that tip about speaking more slowly. I often try to talk too fast and end up tripping over my words. I'm an introvert who doesn't like talking a lot in general, so I feel like I need to rush to get out what I have to say as quickly as possible. Definitely going to have to work on improving that.

[momoblood]

I think an approachable and nice voice is always needed because I personally get scared of really strong or loud voices and, on the contrary, when someone speaks softly I get less nervous and that helps me open up! On another note... I am VERY guilty of talking at the speed of sound, I'll definitely work on that! ;')

[kflecha]

Who smiles every time Jamila post a video ?! 🙌🏽🤍🥲 love this content 🤍

[Ebichuchu]

Men would benefit from this more than anyone 😊

[foconnor]

YOU are the perfect example of how to speak softly and elegantly.

[missn]

Needed this video as I am very direct and tend to speak in a way that may sound harsh even though my intentions are always good. I will practice speaking in a softer, calmer, slower manner like you do. Ideally, I would also speak less. Not every opinion or remark needs to be verbalized!

[kangkana]

Your advices are so soft and sweet. They are just like you. Honestly I'm fan of yours. So, happy to find your channel a year back.

[vhdvjyn]

I consider your tips and advice quite helpful for those who‘d like to sound more feminine, but elegance is a different dimension.

[pricklypear]

I wouldn't say my voice is soft but it's definitely clear, loud enough to be audible (not whispery lol) and confident. I feel my best when I speak this way. In my career as a physician this manner of speaking serves me well because it evokes confidence from my patients and their families.

[beluasmr]

In my opinion, this is the best video from yours! Regardless to say that all your videos have such a value. You are a great teacher. Thank you, 💐

[zvezdoblyat]

For me, the more important things are: clarity, gentleness, and smoothness. These three things, to me, make a voice elegant. Then I, of course, prefer a deeper voice; if a person has those 3 things, their voice is pleasant even if it's not deep. And naturally, vocabulary is most important when it comes to elegance in speech.

[patricep]

Jamila, really the right person giving this advice, you have such a lovely speech and demeanor. Thank you so much