Friends With Benefits: The Hidden Risks You Need to Know

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Is friends with benefits a good idea? In this video, I'll provide you with three compelling reasons to carefully consider before entering into a friends-with-benefits arrangement. While it's possible for friends with benefits to work out if you establish clear guidelines and boundaries, it's essential to weigh the potential pitfalls and consequences.

Reason 1: Developing feelings
Despite establishing guidelines, catching feelings can still occur when intimacy is added to a close friendship. Separating friendship from a romantic relationship can be challenging, and even if you manage to avoid developing feelings, your friend might not. Setting limits on the frequency of interaction and establishing an expiration date can help mitigate these risks.

Reason 2: Closing yourself off
Engaging in a friends with benefits relationship can lead to closing yourself off from potential dating opportunities. When you spend a significant amount of time with your FWB, it can become a crutch, preventing you from exploring other romantic possibilities. It's crucial to maintain a healthy balance and not let the FWB arrangement hinder your dating life.

Reason 3: Risk of losing the friendship
Once you cross the line into friends with benefits territory, the dynamics of your friendship inevitably change. If it becomes necessary to move on from the FWB arrangement, there's a good chance that someone's feelings may be hurt, and the friendship itself may be at risk. It's important to assess whether the potential loss of the friendship is worth pursuing the FWB scenario.

Navigating a friends with benefits situation requires careful consideration and open communication. It's essential to assess your own feelings, boundaries, and priorities before entering into such an arrangement. Remember, every friendship is unique, and only you can determine if pursuing a friends with benefits relationship aligns with your values and the importance you place on the friendship.

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you’re bound to get hurt in a fwb relationship, I’ve been talking to my fwb for 4 months and I ended up catching feelings but had to take a step back and realize that I ain’t meant for this lol

jasmineberrios
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When agreeing to FWB the number 1 thing to acknowledge is that you will begin to feel some type of way for that person so it is important to establish boundaries and expectations before jumping into this.

tonyaholmes
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Exactly. Sex is an intimate emotional act where you are vulnerable and care and saying you cant care about someone is really just rejection from the start and shitty sex.

nicolii
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Yeah, I would never have a FWB. I need assurance and I feel like FWB is this grey area. I recognize how it can and does work for others but personally I don't see the benefits in this exchange.

Oscarnodwannabe
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Friends with Benefits can work but there are a lot of problems. Have you had success with friends with benefits? let me know!

TiffyShow
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I tried it 2 different times, (2 different women) she feel for me in the first one and I fell for the 2nd one. Both got hurt each time. I actually liked the first one also but come to find out I was an idiot and I regret not giving it a chance to this day

greggfridline
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I still don’t understand what the problem is in developing feelings? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with vulnerability 😭

stenciaaa
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I was dating someone for 5 months and he didn't want to be in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. I noticed the only thing I was really going to miss was the companionship and the sex. Im a single mom, its not like I am able to have guys over often. He is someone I trust to be in my house as my children know him. I put down guidelines, he can't do lovey stuff with me, he can't hold me after sex when we go to bed or kiss me when he leaves. Or pay for my food when we go to eat. We can't be sleeping with others, and if one of us meet someone new we gotta be honest. I had done this with someone before, him and I are still friends. I dont want to deal with the emotion of dating and wondering if its going to move forward. I hate to daydream the what ifs, my imagination cuts all that out now and im getting my needs met and have a friend I can trust with my body. Not take advantage of me or bringing home a random stranger. Im almost 40, marriage to me is off the table, but doesn't mean I don't want intimacy.

JulietCStevens
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This is quality content, should have more views

bierfiets
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So i have just agreed to be friends with benefits with someone, their are many reasons we can't be in a relationship going to different unis ect but the main one is we just have different ideas for our respective futures. We have both admitted to having feelings for one another from the beginning so a lot of these videos saying "you might catch feelings!" or "One of you is lying" are kinda irrelevant to me :/ (we've been friends without benifits for a year!)

damii
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I am a 46 year old man this is no what with FWB means to men. So let me clear this up. Your are in the friend zone ladies and you will never ever ever ever come out. But my friend married her husband they started out as FWB. I told you the truth do what you want.

puffy_vegas
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I call it the "hearts & parts thingy"! Usually in any relationship or situation, you guys are new & getting to know each other. Then that person has your heart! You're thinking about em all the time, can't wait to see/talk to them, then you introduce your parts.

But it works in reverse too! You meet someone new & exchange parts, then after a couple times your heart follows. Then there's this internal shift! That bf/gf energy starts taking over & it can get confusing & irritating because somebody isn't reciprocating.
So at this point I stopped all that mess. Either we're in this together, or we're not!

YellowPaint
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I had a friend that wanted to be benefits with me and I kept saying no multiple times because I don’t do that kind of stuff and he kept pressuring me and he’s like come what’s so bad about it and then he would randomly call me and start talking about sexual things not appreciate it it took him quite a while for him to tell me he want a friends with benefits he didn’t tell me from the beginning

doglover
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Friends with benefits relationship is made of two unconscious robots. Here's why. If two people were capable of emitting timelessness at the same wavelength, the emergent Resonance would be so meaningful and special, they would not part. The loss of which would make you exit this hellish place immediately.
Resonance
Standing wave that emerges from the liminal, between harmonic frequencies of vibration, oscillating with greater amplitude than the emissions : a quality that makes something personally meaningful or important to someone. The interference pattern of harmonic frequencies of vibration does not cause the Standing Wave. Rather it emerges from the liminal, from nowhere. The core type of Magick.

the REAL reason.

greennights
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Ughhgeee I've been in it for a year and ended it about a week ago. I ended up seeing that he started talking to another female so yeaahhhh. Over here with his bs ass "I'm not ready for a relationship right now"

Trynnagetmydegree__
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i fnd it completley wrong and disturbing

crissieroserose
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My brain is playing Wayne Brady's F.W.B. while watching this 🤣

suggiesugindabuilding
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My current FwB just ended a week ago after 2 years. We've been friends for over a decade having started as Co-Workers. I'm Aromantic and She knew that going in so catching feelings was never an issue for Us. We were planning stuff for last weekend since we hadn't been together in over a year and She called me the night before and expressed how She was feeling and that She needs that Romantic aspect to feel something. I've constantly assured Her that if She ever wanted to end it that I was ok with that. She still came over as we had other things planned as well as sex. I'd much rather lose the physical aspect of our relationship if it means preserving our long lasting friendship 😌

stephenwillis
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It's completely dumb. I have never understood how people could see that as a "beneficial" situation outside of the benefits to the player person who's interested in that kind of a BS situation, basically to use somebody until a better and more ideal person and situation comes along....🤢...gross. And also, yes what she said, don't do the FWB (and I am saying this as somebody who never has..and never could want to be doing that) ...because if you are wanting more than this FWB BS is going to be wasting your most precious time and energy for as long as they are around and distracting you away from your own ideal

LL-jdmn
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I love the singing.. somehow solidified the material for me. Lolz Thanks for the advice!

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