Friends With Benefits (When To Walk Away )

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[shamia]

A wise woman told me " Friends with benefits gotta have an expiration date"

[jenelyncarpina]

I have freinds with benefits its hurt cause you fall in love with him but he doesn't love you

[thecowboy]

If someone is friends with benefits with you, don't be surprised if they're not FWBs with someone else as well. I personally, and I'm a dude, frankly don't recommend it, because it always backfires, because sooner or later somebody wants more, and normally it's not reciprocated, and as a result somebody ends up getting hurt.

[dannyroe]

"You can't force a relationship only open up space for it to happen"🤯

[samboriboun]

If u walk with God u dont have to deal with the bullshit

[chococookies]

It will/can eventually tear you apart if you are a woman and will feel unsatisfying and like you're wasting your time because you will feel at arm's length and being used vs being cared for. It will really suck when you are left high and dry when in a time of need.

[madddie]

I had one friend with benefits I just ended. I ended it because I caught feelings. It started pissing me off when he started saying he wanted to move in together and get married and meet my mom but wouldn't move past the fwb title. So I broke it off this weekend and he was shocked. He said it hurt him... Funny cause I'm the one whose not getting a bf/gf relationship.

[michaelf]

You end your FWB, when you meet someone with whom you want more than that with.

[misskat]

All valid points. It all boils down to taking responsibility and self reflection. I ended up in a friends with benefits situation because I was feeling low. We hold each other with high positive regard, but at the end of the day we are not right for each other. I have to get out of the way to allow room for God to create positive channels. The truth is people are scared to just allow God to humble themselves like Job did. He knew that he didn't need anything in life, just God. Would I marry myself the way I am now? Probably not, but I'm trying to see it as an opportunity, just like any season of life. God doesn't promise us marriage, hate to say it folks but that's the truth. God promises us Himself. Keep saying no to lead you to a greater yes.

[tonyaholmes]

I believe you can have no strings attatched sex only when there's no compatibility or chemistry going on anywhere while the only factor there is sexual attraction.

[maroussia]

I had a FWB once we were intimate twice. After I told him I liked him he ghosted me out of no where. I never heard from him again.

[juliabrown]

It's not healthy trust me the spirit and body cannot be separated you cant have your cake and est it too without destructions

[Fatgirlspeaks]

1. Faith
2. Love
3. Sex
4. FOOD!!!!

[lisabrown]

I have been in one for the last 3 months . At first it was amazing. Now it’s become complicated.

[didymos]

friends with benefits tear you apart - I just ended mine this afternoon. I developed feelings for him, made it clear and spoke about it, feelings are not mutual. they wanted to continue but I just can’t - my sanity was at stake

[hybridangel]

41 and gave up on looking for someone. I have my children and my home. Not everything is for us. And sometimes it's alright to hold some dignity and modesty. F with benefits has no intamacy. Its a physical interaction that gives you a temporary relief in some way. On some level you might question if this is all our friendship is worth. They can point you towards doing something that makes your life amazing.
Faith, integrity, productivity adventure acceptance of me being a mom.

[dahlia-]

I'm curious. Would you say you're spiritual or religious. I have a friends with benefits and I think hes an energy vampire. If I spend more than a few days with him, I start feeling drained or more depressed than normal. In the myst of possibly cutting him off. It's not easy ha. It's been almost 5 years. :(

[leslieanderson]

This is a great video. I’ve read your comments that this was done 4 years ago. I recently had an opportunity to get back w and ex who wanted no committed relationship or commitment from me but to enjoy our time and “ let things happen” which meant he wanted to have sex. As hard as that situation was, i said no and goodbye. I feel that FWB is dangerous. Just like you said, someone ends up having feelings and things become toxic...i think that waiting for the right person and working on yourself to mirror what you want in another person is the way to go.Having sex is special and to give it away to someone who doesn’t really care about you is something i can’t do. I may be alone for awhile, but that’s ok. I too meditate and do a lot of self work which helps!

[Anna-ggwp]

My friend she was..in the " friends with benefits" ...they end up married and they have daughter.

[sweetcapricorn]

Yes the friends with benefits isn't for me for that very reason sharing my body im gonna get feelings while the guy doesnt.