3 Tips to Figure Out if You're Nonbinary | @adesso.laurenzo

Are you Nonbinary? Let's find out! In this video, I offer three tips to help you figure this out :)

I get a ton of Instagram DMs from LGBTQ+ youth all over the world, & this YouTube series is about answering the most common questions!

Today's question is: "Do you have any tips for figuring out if you're Nonbinary?"

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[lazer-exe]

the hardest part for me is figuring out if im non-binary, or if im just not comfortable with traditional femininity and gender roles

[Nicoratboy]

“ I love when people can’t tell if I’m a boy or girl “ can relate

[zayden]

when your native language doesn't have neutral pronouns:

*cries in portugese*

[pizzafur]

My grandmother said to me at one point: “I have one wonderful granddaughter” to which I said “no.” I’ll carry on the conversation.

“Why ‘no’?”
“I’m not a granddaughter”
“Grandson?”
“No?”
“Grandchild”
“Yes”

That’s how I ended up coming out to my grandmother, it was such a weight off my shoulders even if no one else knows.

[mgsgamer]

-non binary
-asexual
-aromantic
The no-trio

[star..boy.]

I heard someone say:
“Cis people don’t spend hours agonizing over if they’re cis or not” and that’s something I use all the time

[justme-etsr]

I mean, if I want a lower voice, want to have a top surgery, wear a binder often, hate the femininity that I associate with having periods, but don't feel like a man and don't like he/him pronouns but am delighted by they/them... how can people say I'm fucking faking it.

[atlas]

The pain when you know youre non-binary but can't tell your parents or get a binder to see how it feels

[reallytired]

to everyone who’s confused about their sexuality or gender identity don’t forget that it’s okay to be confused and it’s perfectly okay to experiment. stay strong! stay safe!

[skylasandoodles]

This was helpful, I'm gonna go back now **walks into closet**

[Ciel-splg]

A major sign that I was enby is the thing where I stare at myself in the mirror and dissociate while thinking about how the thing I’m seeing isn’t really me

[stevie]

I’m experimenting with she/they, and it feels honestly quite natural for me

[xxtrixietheclownxx]

I'm nonbinary but like wearing makeup because it's pretty.

[bepis]

Me: has been doubting my gender identity for years, done tons and tons of research and has chest dysphoria
Also me: idk man might be faking it 🤔

[bumblebeagan]

when I first started to question my gender identity, I always thought I was just faking it cuz sometimes I would be uncomfortable with she/her and women's bathrooms and sometimes I would be completely fine
and then I heard of genderfluidity! it made me so comfortable, I'm not wondering if I'm faking anything or unsure anymore and I can just be whomever i want, whenever i want!

[ppunz]

when i tell myself im a girl, i feel alright, when i tell myself im a boy, i feel alright. im just really confused on my identity lollll
edit: nvm i’m non binary trans masc ⟟ think

[havenwalkowiak]

Me: trying to think back to when I was young
My childhood trauma leading to my current depression: N O . Y O U C A N' T R E M E M B E R .

[zaynubcajee]

and to all the enby's reading the comment section, u r valid and loved and accepted <3

[kermit-san]

anyways like i said gender is a social construct
at this point i just call myself a waffle

[vengefulapparition]

I’m honestly having a lot of trouble with my gender and sexuality. When it comes gender I was born biologically a female but frequently feel uncomfortable when people use she and her for me, it just doesn’t feel right. But then again I feel comfortable in female bathrooms as well as boys. I have female and male friends and feel comfortable with both genders