The only death we can bring someone back from

[bluerosesecrets]

This really resonates with me. I actually came to this very same realization last night, and I mourned the death of who I used to be. I realized that it felt like another identity entirely, and one that was lost. Thank you for this. This is actually quite hopeful. I'm trying to come back from that death everyday. Maybe one day I can return, and be better and stronger for it. Thank you.

[janinejansevanvuuren]

This channel has helped me heal from narcissistic trauma wounds. Only someone who has been through it can understand it. I have never been able to find help from therapy because they really just don't understand it on a personal level. That is why Dr Ramani's input is so valuable. She understands it.

[reneekalanui]

Truth, brother. Come back from the dead. Similar to this profound observation: "You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you're at and change the ending" - C.S. Lewis

[angelsone]

This is exactly what I have experienced. But after death there is resurrection. There is much loss and deep grief realizing I invested so much time and energy into the eternal emptiness of the narcissists who have dominated my life since childhood.

Now at the age of 70 I have reclaimed my authenticity through my connection with God instead of false connection with narcissists.

I lived in an inverse world.

Now it is right side up.

Great video!

[CR_]

'The only death we can bring someone back from.'
Its immensely empowering.

[josephineorellana]

Perfectly said!! I used to liken the relationship to being in a coma. Life was still going on around me, but I felt like I had no control over anything, not even my own body. When I finally 'awakened' and realized he was a narc, I became the real me again, but a stronger, wiser version of myself that had never existed before!! I am so glad he's gone, and life is wonderful without him!! And bonus, I really love myself now!! No one will ever do that to me again, for I am too precious!! We all are too precious!!❤❤

[jokendrick]

So true. I hung on at the edge for sooo many years until my husband died and set me free to be me again. I never totally lost myself but was fascinated by how much I realized I had.. lost of myself. I no longer have to compromise myself at all.

[WisconsinWanderer]

wow that is THE most profound statement i’ve ever heard dealing with narcissistic abuse in my life. It sure does fit! Thank you 😊

[lesabrydson]

I am literally being raised from the dead that the narcissist demon 👿 thought he and his narcissist adulteress and their flying monkey s had won the battle of evil against me....I am alive and strong. Powerful Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏👑🇯🇲🙌❤❤

[sandrasoler]

Omg this made me cry as well because it's so true!!!

[Coraferguson]

This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here

[fourmacs]

This is me! My mother is a narcissist. My entire life she was in competition with me. She hates me. She told me she couldn’t love me unless I was her religion. She told my family (including my two children who were 4 and 5 years old) that we were going to hell because we weren’t her religion. I went no contact. After decades of chasing my mother’s love, I finally found that I didn’t need it, I could love myself enough. Yes, I am a different me, but I’m stronger and more resilient…and I’m LOVABLE! All thanks to the work I put in with an excellent trauma therapist.

[kiv_daniels]

I always say this to myself when people try to make me feel bad about cutting my family off. “I felt dead, like I had to choose between my life and my family” I chose life.

[lorisunshine]

I agree 100%. I've attracted so many narcissists I felt like a narcissist magnet. From father to husband, friends and co workers to depression. 😢 But I found all the answers on this beautiful internet. I opened my eyes and prayed for amazing grace to save me and God did. On my way to being authentic me. No more people pleasing users and loosers. I'm pleasing ME!! Its never to late to live in peace ❤🤗🙏 No more saying sorry for things I didnt even do😅

[lushrimbaughiii]

I’m starting to come back to life. Thank you for all that you do it’s been life changing

[kkryz]

I agree with some of this... I think the reason it gets to me is because some people haven't come back from it. Narcissistic abuse has dampened lives. Narcissistic abuse has caused major mental illnesses and physical.

[docnine]

For me it was a little too literal. It affected me so much health wise that I ended up in the hospital and almost didn't make it out alive. It's not lost on me now two years later that her ex-husband ended up in the hospital and almost dying when they were together. Which just makes me think about things I would rather not. I'm still recovering from it now. So much so I think I'll be taking a couple more years off from relationships.

[Romain_Galland]

Maybe an hour before seeing this I was writing my ex husband that I felt utterly dead inside so this did touch a chord. However I wish I could believe it, but there isn’t an once that believe I will ever feel joy again. If I ever even feel anything it’s sadness, loneliness and despair when I’m not just empty. And I’m just waiting for my body to die because there isn’t anything left inside to save

[karmadharma]

When my mother was on her deathbed and the doctor thought she only had hours to live, my narcissistic sister and her narcissistic daughter chose not to call me at night. They wanted me to live the rest of my life with the anxiety of not having been with my mother during the last moment. But she survived and chose to pass away the next day with me alone by her side. I am eternally grateful for this. For once the universe was with me.

[ddilly]

Wow! It was a really hard afternoon thanks to toxic family. I really needed to hear this, thank you.