How to Be a Good Sister

Whether you're the older, middle or youngest sister and whether you're still living with your siblings or you're living away, being a good sister requires tolerance, patience and a willingness to find the time to connect. Fostering a good relationship with your siblings is important if you want to be able to turn to them throughout your life and rely upon their support through thick and thin. Being a good sister involves leading by example, demonstrating to your siblings how much you value the sibling relationship and how much they matter to you.

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[labonnovalentine]

To any younger sibling watching this...Just know that your older sibling loves you but doesn’t know how to show it.

[mfezvyu]

I used to always scream at my siblings and be so rude. I regret it so much, I wished I never took my anger out in them. Just remembering how mean I used to be makes me cry.

[janiellama]

I'm a bad sister. I don't mean to be. I hate it, I hate the way I am. I want to give them a good life, I want to be there for them and make them be somewhat ok. But I've ruined our relationships. I've messed up. I hate myself for it. I wish I could restart and give them a good life. It'd be better if I was gone.

[raine_rainegoaway]

Just an older sister trying to figure out how to be nice to my younger sister and give her less problems than we already have at home, toxic mom and all.

[audreybrooks]

Currently watching this because my brother said im terrible and he’s gonna go buy a new sister💀

[IDK-tsnz]

I'm an older sister (11) trying to be nicer to my younger brother (7) he's annoying sometimes, and I take my anger out on him when he did nothing, I have a lot of mental and emotional problems for my age, and he thinks I hate him, and I don't I love and care for him so much.

[jazzykittie]

IM WATCHING THIS CUZ MY MOM IS PREGANT AND I HAD BEEN WAITING FOR THIS MY WHOLE LIFE SO IM DOING MY BEST FOR HIM/HER


Edit- ITS A GIRL she came out on aug 25 😄

[skrimamv]

my older sister is 16
I am 14. Ever since my sister turned 11, she didnt care about me anymore. She treats her friends like sisters and me like nothing. [I am a boy]

And it's gotten worst ever since she joined high school, she tells her friends MY DEEPEST secrets, that I dont want to share. She doesnt care about me and i feel like i would have to start treating her how she is treating me.

[awolvesarecute]

I've failed in all these catagories I feel so bad for everything in my life when will the from reaper finally collect my soul

[AnaMaria-huby]

I m watching this because, I feel like I don t know how to be there for my bro and just now I realised that I was not as active as I should ve been in His life . I love him but idk how to show it and the last thing I need is him growing up without a sister around.

[aayide]

i am the only daughter and the oldest. I have a very bad attitude where i yell to them for no reasons, easy to say, anger issues i couldn't manage. After i yell, i felt really bad and wanting to apologize. I wanted to but i'm kind of embarrassed and if i apologize, they'll take advantage and make me do whatever they want and loop.

[jaejaeclayton]

Im only watching thos rn because my I wanted my sister to fix my hair and she got mad saying " why did you even pull the bun out!??". So I said " i will do anything". She asked me to make her bread with butter and jam, no crusts. I said "everytime i make you something, you always get picky. That blew her off and sbe started saying things like " you always are picky, so then she got mad and said " fi e, i will make myself cereal." After she blew up while the kettle was going she said "YOU ALWAYS TREAT ME AND EVERYONE ELSE LIKE TRASH!!! THATS WHY YOU DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS, ATLEAST REAL ONES." I didn't get affected, after all I was used to it for 3-4 years, I said in my head {"honey, dat dont affect me so better luck next because if I said that out loud, she would have slapped me.


You might think she is a terrible sister but for all of that, i still love her. So i locked myself in the bathroom and started watching this. But if the volume was apperently up, she would have thought it was for her and she would have gotten "affended". I didn't cry i was "brave??"
( also i am 11 and she is 12 turning 13) I know when she is a teen, its gonna be 100% worse so keep me in your prayers....😞😖😖

[kageyamatobio]

My brother is 3 years old and I'm 18 years old, this age gap is so tough for me because I actually don't know how to treat my baby brother nicely, I always yell at him whenever he wants something from me. Now, I just want to treat him good. I regret every single thing I made him feel bad. I want to be a good sister so that he won't feel what I've felt before in our mom's hands.

To my brother, if you came across this video and see this comment someday, always remember that ate loves you so much and I'm truly sorry for what I did. I swear that I will change and will give the best for you. I love you as always!

[Dineshd]

Well I am watching it cuz I think I always treat my sister badly or rudely.. I always try my best not to yell at her but always end up yelling at her . We fight 24 × 7... She has also started to ignore mee.. that make me feel bad, but still she really loves me a lot and I know that.. whenever she asks me to spend time with her I always ignore her but now I will try to be a good sister..💖💖☻☻

[dilnazmms]

I know that I am toxic and bad sister
my brother is 6 and I am 16
every time I say bad words and make him cry I regret it
but, I just can't be nice to him
I don't know why.. he always so sweet and funny but I am the opposite of him only when I am with him
when I am with my friends I am the sweetest person around..
I have to start treating my brother like my friends so I watch this video(

[FunSquad]

I have a toddler at home who knows bad words like stupid and shut up, I wanna be a better sister so I am making a big change

[pogromcafal]

i guess i gotta be better to... i'm the older sibling (14) and i have an 8 yo brother. We're both problematic for each other. Once i yelled at him because he brought me a card, i didn't know what's inside so i ignored it. After opening it my heart broke... There was a big blue heart with my name in it. There are also a lot of more other situations when we both weren't fine but as an older sister i need to change and fix our relations... [*] wish me luck

[analyadelan]

Thank you my brother dont care me but I still love him thank u

[lexievalentina]

“Be nice to your sister, or this will happen” I literally watched that video. I’m literally crying this instinct. I haven’t seen my sister since she was 1 or 2. I srsly wanna see her I’m 15 now. And she’s 8. Almost 9. We have diff moms. My dad has 4 sons and 2 daughters. I’m his oldest daughter. My mom and I HIGHLY dislike my half sister’s mom. She calls her a b****. And so do I. But I just say. “Yep! She is!” I’m different than other sisters. I wish my sis and I hung out. We would literally never fight or argue. Just us hanging out, doing girly stuff. And yea. I Miss And Love U Ashley💕

[susmiphanjuofficial]

I love my sister a lot!! She is my godmother