Red Pillers Are LYING About Dating in 2023, Here's The TRUTH!

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⏱️ Timestamps:
0:00 - The red pill is BAD for dating
0:53 - Issue #1: Hook-up culture
2:50 - Issue #2: The self-improvement scam
4:10 - Issue #3: The cultural shift in gender roles

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[atomicgeisha]

I married my husband because i loved him. He was broke but he treated me like a beautiful princess. Women crave an emotional connection with men.

[karansujan]

Bro you have no clue how insightful these videos are. I recently went down a rabbit hole on youtube videos of the red pill culture and i started beileving those things until i saw your videos after a gap of almost 4 years XD . I love your commitement and pray you suceed fam.

[HonkHonkler]

So basically, we're correct. Thanks for confirming.

[Thatlilmonkey-ngil]

The funniest part is a lot of redpillers try to hide their identities when it comes to dating. Some men do not realise how misogynistic they have became after consuming those content for too long. No sane women want to deal with that type of men, too aggressive and dangerous.

[theguynextdoor]

Actually, I disengaged quite a lot from these "alpha red pill" channels and started getting more out of the house. I believe that a lot of these so-called coaches have been burned severely by women in the past. They have been surrounded by narcissistic trolls as mothers and stumbled upon the rotten apples among women. I have met many cute, sweet and wonderful women who are both beautiful on the inside and outside. Are there women out there who only want 6 ft fit millionaires? Of course it is. But the doomsday prophecies of many of these pill-poppers are far from true. Many of them got unresolved issues within themselves. Instead, they often just site and pout and blame the world for their problems.

[Johnson-ggkv]

Hey josh, I was just wondering if you are going to stream again any time soon? I have a few questions I’d like to ask you. Cheers

[thedarkestknight]

Women only want chad so it doesn’t matter

[BlackPhoenix]

I have looked at redpill content. I see their points and much of what they say tends to make a lot of sense. At the same time, it can get depressing knowing the truth that they spew.

But if there is one thing I've learned from them is this...

Be careful.

I can discard their pessimism, cause it isn't giving me the courage to go out and meet women.

I've been singke for a decade. Why? Because my last girlfriend was a slut, and I was stupid enough to forgive her.

She's long gone from my life, thank God.

My problem has been the means of attraction.

As well as the lack to find women that enjoy the same hobbies that I do, near the areas where I live.

It's like you gotta travel far to find what you're looking for.

[fazbeargaming]

Hey Josh, just wanna let you know. Thank you for all your videos. Please help me through a lot you’re probably the YouTuber on here that probably gives the best advice in my opinion I was wondering, could you do a video about what to do if you don’t have a lot of girls in your school

[marshaygilker]

Hey josh ! I am needing your input on this, I am wanting to your perspective about this topic and how do you feel about this topic . So now through social media their has been debate about marriage . I hear that with in 6 months a man knows he wants to be you intentionally or not for the rest of his life but on the marriage perspective I been seeing that within a a year a man knows he if wants to marry you or not ? Is this true or not ? I have boyfriend and we dating for almost 6+ months(many longer I think ), I have mention the word marriage to him & trying to see how he feelings about it but he keeps kinda brushing it off and saying he is not thinking about it right now & that he has other plans he is focusing on, but in my opinion I feel like he is being hesitant on his answers like, I can feel it in his voice when talking . I even at times to see why he is being hesitant by asking questions like what’s your view on marriage ? What are your concerns about marriage? Where are you at future wise ?Is there something I should be concerned about ? Me personally I already made it known that I’m dating for marriage and not dating for heart break .I am currently 19 and he currently 18, I do someday wanna get married .

[promofitnesse]

Funny when you said that everybody has a choice of sleeping with whoever they like. And at the same time, stating that 💊 community telling men to better themselves for them to CHOOSE a wife over a hoe is somehow bad

[neonnwave]

Red Pill gives bad advice to men, Modern Day Feminism gives bad advice to women. Both teach people to never trust each other, never to be loyal, that it's okay to sleep around, that you should forgo socializing and focus on only work, and that being alone is the best thing which is all BS. They both give the same awful advice, act very similar to one another (neither can handle criticism, they demonize the other side, act like children, are not in control of their emotions, etc.).

The only thing I will say is that the reason the Red Pill got so much power is because the dating world now is very messed up. Over 60% of men in the US alone, between the ages 18-29, are single. Meanwhile only 30% of women of the same age group are single. Women's standards have risen to near impossible that so many men can't even get noticed (watch Courtney Ryan's videos where she asks women about a man's income to see what I mean). A lot of women today want a guy who does better than they do, which is understandable (financial security and such). But the issue is that a lot of women are getting degrees and landing jobs that will earn them a higher income than most men, so they're looking for someone who is of a small percentage. Not to mention that social media has an effect on people's minds to the point they think it's the norm to live a life of leisure, or that men who are like Chris Evans grow on trees. As a result, so many men are left in the dirt and become lonely. Lonely men are very easy to influence since they may feel resentment towards women, which is why so many of them listen to Red Pill content creators. And with that, the divide and hostility between men and women gets worse.

Side Note: The reason as to why the percentages is so different between single men and women is either because multiple women are dating the same man, or because a lot of the younger women are dating men who are 30+. Reason for that is because men who are 30+ tend to be financially stable, have their own home and career, and have more life experience. Meanwhile men between 18-29 are still trying to establish themselves in the world, thus cannot compete with older men for women's attention.

[BengalsBillsFan]

Hey Josh Me and Girl Best Friend Rarely get to Hangout anymore everytime we want Hanging Out we never get to on mainly On Weekdays cause She Has A Job What do i do😢? the only I talk to her is Via Discord

Is this why guys don't ask us out as much anymore? Literally my friends and I always see the same thing happened, guys just go near us, and try to talk but they never say anything LOL. What a crazy thing, I wonder if the same thing is happening for girls. Thank you for your amazing videos Josh❤

[BengalsBillsFan]

Another thing guys if u dm ur Crush they’ve seen the message but don’t respond PLEASE Don’t Delete the message and resend it thats the same thing as spamming them Hey Hey Hey😂

[BrandelJoshsaundh]

Hey josh what should I do because my girlfriend broke up with me should I get my girlfriend back or go after my crush because my crush really likes me

[HamzaAgha-bl]

Why do you conveniently leave out the fact that women regardless of their own looks almost exclusively want to casually hookup with conventionally hot guys? How can you say the RP or Blackpill guys are wrong about this?