If a Man Can date a Cute Pick me Why Does He go after Gold Diggers

I will break down the reasons and why men are naturally attracted to women with high standards

[Mrs.]

Do ya notice pick me’s love bragging about what they can do for a man vs what a man can do for them. It’s like they love going up and beyond for the same men who would leave them at the drop of the dime for the chick he has to move mountains for.

[foyerfelin]

I was a very cute pick-me and only got abuse and neglect from everyone until i found Shera at 50 ! Dust repellant works wonders !

[jking]

My step mom told me that rich men cheat, I said all men cheat, I’ll take my chances with a rich one

[LadyAngela]

Its a red flag when a man says “Let’s build together”. That means he was too weak to make it on his own.

[BlkMedusa]

pick mes accept whatever a man gives. and it makes them confortable. a "gold digger" makes him uncomfortable and he has to better himself to keep up

[tiffanyjohnson]

Real men take pride in caring for their family 😘

[rizzybone]

"After a certain age you ain't a pimp no more, you're just a loser." That should be a Proverb 😂😂
Love you Shera💕

[Trailblazers]

They go for the high class, expensive women the same reason they spend on the expensive watch, car, grass fed steak, pricey bottle of champagne, the expensive tailored suit, etc, etc, etc. Its so basic to understand, yet again, men have no clue what a man is anymore. They have internal conflict going on. They are confused as hell and are taking it out on women. Its called a trophy wife for a reason. She is the cherry on top of your success. She runs the house while you are working. She multiplies every single thing a man presents her with. Guys these days have no clue! Don’t they see that the most successful men in the world always have a wife? Morons! Accomplished men at the firm, company etc are sizing single men up at the conferences like, “Dude, where’s your wife? You haven’t gotten anyone yet? HAHA!” It’s next level accomplishment for real men.

[MrBlackretreat]

I’m a gay man .. and all your advice works on these so call alpha males

[Bouboune]

I play this video on loud speaker for my 11 year old to hear. Planting some seeds.

[loveself]

These videos hit way harder after my spiritual awakening. Lol. I rem I showed these videos to my OLD pick me friends two years ago and they all hated on you. They’re STILL stagnant and I’m leveled up and thriving. The game of life is crazy.

I was a never a pick me. But I did go through a Bob the builder stage. I was told I was wrong to play with men's feelings for money and it would come back on me blah, blah, blah. And back in the day that independent woman bs was big. I wasn't really into the independent thing if I'm with a dude but I thought 50/50 was fair. They don't respect you with that bs and all you're doing is giving them extra money to cheat with. That's why they holler you need to bring something to the table. They say that because when they get tired of looking at you. They can wine and dine the next fool. I learned that I was right all along about men and stopped listening to ppl when it comes to that.

[chilloften]

Men must maintain that ability to keep the woman respecting him.
If she loses it, by paying bills and is not provided for, it's over. Respect gone. End of relationship.

[oogunde]

So happy I found your channel. You saved me from ruining my life

[kyracoach]

All good, but 1:41:22 Megan clearly "bagged" Harry, because she acted like she didn't need him...she wasn't intimidated, she acted like she was the prize, not him. She joked with him a lot, kept him on his toes.

[YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent]

My own sister told me that my husband would be better off with an ugly woman who works as hard or harder than he does, rather than stay married to my gorgeous self who is ALWAYS asking for more. I just LAUGHED! Ha!

I told her I will give him a divorce today if he wants a Barbara the Builder. I have told him the same; he told me to stop playing and let’s go ride by these $700k houses like the one we are about to build, and we will go shopping afterwards 😆😆😆 I really love you Shera girl you speak nothing but FACTS! 💯💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾

[lademonhunter]

Thanks to you just got $500 worth off shopping after our dinner date. He enjoyed seeing all of my outfits and he wanted me to get them all. I added more bikinis and things. Idk why it took this long to say what I want. Men have no problem insisting on getting in between our legs. I want to shop. Period. Thank you Shera. I was blessing you as he was cashing out. I’m so thankful. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[tawanawilliams]

You told that lady right sis. A child will love you more than any man and my kids gave me purpose at times when I felt like life was dark and I was unhappy.

[El_izabethheart]

Men want a status symbol and if you’re paying you’re NOT. 💥💥💥

[emnasomrani]

My mom is a bob the builder and yes she looks like she's taking care of my dad.
I'm a Gold digger and my mom shames me for it, lmao
If she had access to this knowledge when she was my age, she wouldn't be living this life.