What Women Actually Want in a Man

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[MeneerHerculePoirot]

"When a women says she wants a man who's in touch with his emotions? She doesn't. She wants a man who's in touch with HER emotions. Don't take the bait." - My Dad

[lessonlearned]

Women want a man who is emotionally intelligent not necessarily overly emotional. I finally met that person with who I can discuss anything and everything and who is emotionally intelligent enough to share his emotions and understand mine.

[sage._.]

Don’t look for what women want in u, look for what u wanna see in u

[deejay_lol]

“Exactly the opposite of what they say they want right now” Short kings, it’s our time to shine 😂

[LordOfTheRings]

My husband is incredibly sweet to me all day every day. But he is also manly, makes the tough decisions when I can't bring myself to, and works hard. I know when he is upset, it is almost always for a good reason. He's witty and book smart, also knows how to fix cars and other maintenance issues. He's amazing. I don't know why any woman ever gave him up. One month until our 7th anniversary 💙

[WorldofLos]

I don’t care what a woman wants from me. I’m just living my life my way. I’ve lived my life trying to make women happy and it failed. They dont know what the want or they want everything. Don’t waste your time living your life for a woman. Of you find one who accepts and loves you for you, and you her, awesome. Other than that, forget it.

[oldsoul]

When women say "I want a more emotional man" it usually just means "Idk what's going on in that head of his"

[ShinyHunterkt]

I want someone I can laugh with and have fun with, someone I can depend on and they can depend on me, and loyalty.

[snazzycat]

"I want a more emotional man" just means I want a man who understands my emotions

[muslimah]

If I say I want a man who is in touch with his emotions, I genuinely mean it. He can come home and talk about his day, tell how stressful it was, I can comfort him, and vice versa. I've seen this in my parents as well (they both are very simple) so I really dont understand these mind games men and women play with each other.

[Tiogar]

I think it comes down to them wanting a charming man, who is also masculine and strong. Not so difficult bois. Be strong, mentally and physically, don't take bs from anyone, not even the girl. Get your life in order and make space for a relationship. Take her under your wings and you will see what masculinity is about, and how it is beautiful

[tania]

I think instead of “emotional” the term would be “more in touch with feelings”

[momma]

Companionship, safety, honesty, compassion.

[norrona]

Be yourself and you’ll find someone as you are. Not as you or they think they want.

[Ghostface]

I accepted I’d never find anyone since I’m short but also just drained and dead on the inside from years of rejection when I was younger. Now I’m just a bitter old man at the age of 24. Too tired to work on myself and too exhausted and shit for more rejections as I know rejections is part of the process but I can’t anymore so I just stay away from them now. My mother is the only woman I need in my life at this point.

[DillonColtMusic]

I've never been a feminine guy at all. But I will say I have been working hard to get stronger both physically and spiritually. I'll be ready for my future wife one day.

[baysenchesney]

And now imagine being raised to be prince charming and then having to realize that you gotta relearn how to fucking be the thing you were supposed to hate.

[eulalia]

I've been happily married for many years. I looked for a man who came from a happy stable family since I knew that would give the best chance of him knowing how sustain a happy marriage. I also wanted him to have a level of intelligence which matched my own, made me laugh, earned enough to be comfortable and reasonably compatible in views on how to deal with money (definitely not interested in rich - carries too many problems), similar level of attractiveness, faithful and kind without being too emotional or a pushover. My husband is a king among men.

[riothero]

It's sad, one of the things that makes you attractive to women is being financially secure. That is one of the things I try to hide from potential partners. I literally had a friend out of the blue start trying to set me up with all her friends when I got money. I must have hit that threshold of being a good human through my tax return.

[oneofone]

As a man I’m going to go out on a limb and say they just want a man who is emotionally available. I personally want a woman who is strong and independent but I still want her to be feminine at the end of the day. Men and women both have masculinity and femininity. Balance is key not too much of one nor the other. That’s why the conversations never go anywhere. Because what we all want is different, but at the end of the day we want BALANCED individuals. Anyone telling you to be more of the other most likely is the problem and not you.

A man who isn’t in control of his emotions, whether that be too much or lack thereof is shitty/overbearing. He is clearly not In control of his mental state at all. Most likely sucks at communication and being honest.

A woman who can’t handle her own business and take the lead from time to time is pathetic/lost. She clearly isn’t in control of her own life and needs someone to lead her even though she is an adult. The blind leading the blind.

Balance people that’s the key. If your chasing masculinity or femininity ONLY in your partner you probably have some issues you need to address before you get a partner… Because you are clearly lacking in some area of your life so your trying to find a partner to fill that emptiness. Whether that be financial/physical or mental/ emotional. It won’t work but good luck trying.

Ps all of my families happiest marriages 50+ years followed this belief that I hold and they instilled in me. The man showed care and emotion, while still being men. The woman showed direction and work ethic, while still being women. They lasted because they were BALANCED… Modern culture and also this wannabe “traditionalism” has ruined all of you if you ask me. All sides sound dumb to me tbh. Red pill and ultra feminists you are all lost af, but blame the other side. The blind arguing with the blind 😂😂