If you’re feeling lonely in NYC in your 20’s, watch this. *ACTUALLY make friends in a big city*

how do you make friends when you move out NYC?? how do you find your long-term girl group in your adult years??? it's tough to just navigate adulthood in a big city, but adding finding friends and dating on top of that? this video was heavily requested by y'all so i hope these tips make you feel a lot less lonely and you actually supported in making wholesome friendships :)

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3:45 where to meet people
18:50 tips to make friends and not be lonely

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[mohuyakhan]

y'all were requesting this video so much so i put all my research and best tips together 🥹 hope this helps you feel not so alone and go out there to meet new people ❤️❤️

[art.thomas]

That final tip is the key! Reshape "They think I'm too much" to "I know I'm a loving, caring person and I want to share that with them" it makes reaching out easier for those who feel anxious about it❤Now they're choosing to put themselves in a love recession rather than thinking of yourself as the problem

[sallydayy]

As someone who recently moved to nyc, I really appreciated this video! Loved the point about giving yourself grace and not putting pressure on finding friendships, just what I needed to hear ❤

[Jibril_Abdulkadir]

I think everyone should just try to meet a new person once a week whether it’s through work or going to gym, doing some type of activity. It’s definitely hard especially the older you get great vid mouhya ❤

[JulianSteve]

Thank you so much for the tips! I am going to rewatch this video and take notes. I want to meet more people in the city outside of work😅💯

[Movieman]

Mohuya, I believe most people enjoy spending time at the"Third Place". Although I doubt we ever gave it a particular specific name. I think we all would just say, "yo, let's go hang out at the park" or "yo, let's meet up a the cafe on Mulberry street" or something similar. But it's definitely a great place to chill or do things.

[MAA]

I've heard that places like the Mosque are a great place to find friends, I would say over the past year or so I started going there more often and i see pretty much the same people whenever I go in. The problem is i'm a bit too much of an introvert to make the first initial interaction with someone.

[morganfortier]

Love these tips! Totally agree re: the workout classes too!

[MatthewBratton-db]

I'm 32 and have been living here for about 5 months now. I have a small group of friends, but I'm still struggling to be honest. You really have to put yourself out there at my age, and sometimes I just can't find the energy. I'm finding myself just staying in my apartment on my days off a lot. I know that isn't good lol.

[Lizzztings]

YoU ARE SUCH A VIBE !! I LOVE YOUR ENERGY

[ko_grindz]

I’m trying to pursue working for music. I have a huge passion for drumming. Finding a career has been hard for me to say the least. The only issue I’m having is that my resume doesn’t match the requirements of working for the industry that I want to. I worked for different jobs not related to music and no one has called up yet.

[Movieman]

Mohuya, great you got that new laptop. If it's an Apple make sure to get the Apple Care Insurance! Those laptops are very expensive. My friend made the mistake of fallng asleep with the laptop on the bed. Well, they rolled over it and cracked the screen! Luckily, they had the Apple Care Insurance and the repair was $100. Anyway, being that Apple has the most expensive laptops you should definitely get the Apple Care Insurance. Have a nice day.

[George-fg]

i wanna move but have no plans and don’t wanna end up in debt ughhhh being young and poor is so lame

[ИгрокДва-иь]

"Third spaces are not as popular in NYC" You know that parks and plazas are a thing...

[_lil_shi_]

omg the bubble bff thing was me yesterday. I deleted it after a day 🥲