This Is Why You Feel Misunderstood | #shorts

In this video, I discuss why people with a fearful avoidant attachment style feel misunderstood in relationships.

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[m.majaaz]

You are like a magical mirror; but instead of showing me what I want to see you show me what I NEED to see. I kept on trying to understand what was happening to me in relationships and why, but I just kept chasing my own tail… I’m definitely going to sign up for one of your courses soon. Many thanks

[lisacohen]

3..2..1.. blast off .. number 2 + 3 all the way

[Lorij]

Just venting here but I feel like I'm always putting in so much work and so much effort to make people not feel the ways that I have felt. I'm frequently in relationships with APs and it's so draining to feel like I'm working so hard to help them learn about themselves as I work to understand and meet the needs of others. But there's no room for my needs or understanding me.

I feel like I fight the imaginary fears of my partners non-stop and there's never any time or mental energy left to talk about what's going on with me and what I need. I feel so frustrated all the time and like I'm always working so damn hard. Everybody that I know tells me how great I make them feel and at the end of the day I just wish I could feel the ways that they express are a result of me.

I sure hope that I can do more work with PDS which I am enrolled in to learn how to give it to myself because I'm so sad and alone and I definitely want to keep being who I am to everybody around me but I'm going to burn out if I can't figure out to give it to myself as well.

[MaeverickCall]

100% on point to my struggle right now! Although I'm(male) not in any relationship, I'm in a "close friend" friendship with a female friend who won't take the initiative to make times tgt.
She almost never asks about how I'm doing nor asking how I've been. She only took the initiative to talk to me when she needs my help. And when there are situations which she can choose between me and her female group, she always chooses them first even though the female group members aren't very fond of her. Is it wrong for me to feel used and extra? Or am I just overthinking?