Should I Wait For Him | The Expert Secret To Wait For Him or Move On!

Are you wondering, “Should I wait for him?” Do you want to know a love and relationship coach’s answer?

The answer, ladies, is no! No, you should not wait for this guy and your mindset needs to change if you actually want him to fall for you!

If you’re waiting around for someone, then you’re just putting all the power into his hands, you aren’t doing anything, and you are devaluing yourself. If you really want this guy, the key lies in NOT waiting for him. So here are a few things to help you win him over without having to keep the ball in his court:

1. Understand the situation

This guy might be making you wait simply because he’s playing the field and he wants to keep his options open. He isn’t convinced that you’re it, and he’s seeing if there’s something better out there for him. But let me tell you something. If you wait for him, you’re just going to be all the other girls he’s talking to. So don’t wait for him and instead, reverse the situation!

He has to show YOU that he can make an effort for you, that he can make decisions, and that he can take leadership. That’s how you get on that pedestal.

2. You need to get rewards for what you give

If you give this guy all the elements of a relationship without the relationship, then he’s getting his cake and is eating it too while you’re left waiting. This makes it easy for him to take you for granted while continuing to explore his options. You’re giving him your time, affection, sex, etc and he feels no need to lock it down with you because it’s all available to him anyway.

3. Set boundaries

Men are like kids. If you give no boundaries to your kids, they’ll go wild and end up burning the house down! Men are pretty much the same. They’ll push the limits as much as you’ll let them and they’ll see what they can get away with. So if you don’t set boundaries because you’re afraid that this will make you lose him, I want you to be aware of the fact that this is exactly what is devaluing you. You’re allowing him too much out of the fear of losing him, and this is what makes it easy for him to string you along.

4. Take him off that pedestal

So if this guy isn’t ready, doesn’t want to commit, isn’t sure, or what have you, instead of continuing to lose your time and confidence waiting for him, why not decide to move on and make him your friend. If you can stop viewing him as “the man you want,” and see him as your “buddy,” he’ll pick up on the shift and you can then become the exciting challenge for him,

You have the power, you just have to make the decision. changing your actions is the key to making him see you as the challenge ,and this is when he’s going to want to pursue you.

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[butterflyqueen]

No, move on. It's never guaranteed that he'll get with you. You'll lose your blessing by waiting. Speaking from a very recent experience. It's painful .

[tesla]

"No, You should never wait for someone" I agree with you Alex.

[vivianeehui]

"Take him off that pedestal." It's my creed. Patience is a virtue that I strive to practice, but in the field relationship, this is above my skills when I deal with anyone who want to play the interesting.

[sweetieschannel]

You are absolutely right. We can't change someone's perspective and decisions...only ours. And waiting is so painful for a woman who has spent years and years of waiting but nothing to have in return.

[s_soul.]

I ignored him and he came back. I took him off from that pedestal and now he's not important to me. Because until and unless he will make effort it's useless to wait.

[TheShaws]

Alex, I started dating someone that in the beginning gave me all the attention, then several weeks later the attention lessened due to his new position at work, he says its stressful and he dont have much time. I noticed that after work he is always hanging out and he skipped out on a few dates. I finally decided to take him off the pedestal and set some boundaries. He is not allow to have me when he wants. Thanks

[enahsheen]

Thank you Coach. I don't know why I am teary-eyed while watching this video, but really thank you.

[ranianna]

Yes correct 👍 . No need wait just move on even it is hurting

[iisrahandianirahandiani]

after watching your video I understand who my boyfriend is, his behavior likes to come and go as he wishes, from now on I will leave his life, I will live my life as usual when he come to my life.. thank you Alex You have opened my mind❤️

[AngelofHogwarts]

I’m taking a break from the courting scene for my own healing, not because I’m waiting for him. I can’t just go from my ghosting trauma and grief to meeting somebody else so soon. 😢

[tegablessing]

you are right alex never wait for anyone

[abby-hvll]

i will no longer wait. if he isn’t putting in the effort then i won’t be putting in the effort. I will go on with my days, working on myself, making new connections, and minding my own buisness. he will soon realize what he is missing. if he comes back then he comes back but if he doesn’t then i’m not worried. what’s meant for me will find me. i don’t chase, i attract

[Emany]

Thank You Alex never put him on a pedestal 👍

[qudsiabano]

I was badly in need of this clearity and wasted 2.5 years in emotional disbalance.

[swatipatil]

Thank you . Alex, I did this mistakes and today I m alone..bt your videos are helping me to come out of this depression situation..thank you

[saniayousaf]

Soo true Alex u r absolutely right now he came back to me calling me texting me but now I am damn sure that he is not the real man soo I just ignore him n u know what he is chasing me me now. But now it's mu turn thnx I like ur all vedios God bless u alex🙏😊👍

[lotmoretolearn-dataanalyti]

Amazing.. . Ur videos always gives me strength and motivates me to go further in my life. Listening to this is like everyday prayer for me. It helps me to keep myself calm. Please continue with this and publish more articles n videos.

[simplymitch]

I also decided to broke up with my boyfriend because I am in a relation with him but I feel like I don't have boyfriend I'm not his priority I am always last in everything he do at night after finish his work he messages me but only 2 response to my messages sometime he doesn't replying me anymore. I told him let's be friend if he want me to be friend he doesn't reply.i will not wait for him I want to move on thanks for this video it can help me a lot

[carolparedes]

Thanks Alex for your awesome advices! I cannot spend a day without listening to you since i've discovered you. You are amazing. Thank you

[ginga]

Hi Coach Alex! Congrats on this new channel of yours! Been watching your video advices from another channel =) I love how you portrait the act of waiting by humming =) 1 day my ex of 14years had left me, we’ve been together for basically half of our lives. I’ve followed your advices and can attest that your teachings are all true. Today is supposedly our anniversary and I’ve cracked for 6days now. This ex of mine is my place of my frustration. I’ve been rejected too many times before being in no contact for 3 months. After undergoing the process of personal development I finally reached out to him. To cut things short, this time he told to stop waiting for him in order for us to cut off our expectations of getting back. I guess bu now blew up the chance of getting back with him.