This is Why You Feel CRAZY Around a Narcissist

In today's video Jill explains exactly what the Narcissists do that make you feel CRAZY when you are around one.

Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.

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[kmax]

You've described their approach to "problem solving" exactly! They don't want to solve problems. They want to shift blame, win, lie, gaslight, project, confuse and so on.

[Suzu]

There is no "conversation" with a narcissist....

[mountainmermaid]

Most "conversations" involve gaslighting, bullying, or lecturing. (grandiose)

[matilda]

I’m reading the comments and I am absolutely baffled by how many intelligent, witty, successful people fell prey to those creatures.

[salonsavy]

I was with a narcissist for 8 years, , the love bombing drew me in, , then the passive aggressive comments started, , then the gaslighting, , , followed by silent treatments, , , I lost myself!, , , ended up in the heart institute for treatment, , , last year I walked away from all the abuse, ,, never looked back!, , , life now is peaceful and calm, ,,

[reesedaniel]

"Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God." -Matthew 5:9

[izawaniek]

The goal is to get the narcisists to leave us alone. No conversation with them, no contact, nothing.

[katewithat]

You'll feel crazy around someone when they drive you there.

[grantsolomon]

It seems like a fine line between the narcissistic and the psychopath in the way they isolate the victim.

[audreylonsinger]

My mother completely in and out. Circular conversations and gaslighting to manipulate. Her favorite things to say: "You're nothing but crazy" and confronted confidently about something she did wrong, "There's no reason I need to talk to you. Go away"
Very cruel games she played from childhood until I was 40 - and her passing away. I felt as though I had been paroled and I could look at and live life on a different level. It only made things clear that she created the narrative all along. A bad one. She alienated friends and family from me. Told them the most horribly untrue things to keep the games going.

[gregwashburn]

OMG my ex narc was like a third grader put up with it for 17 years ..after 3 yr no contact I'm alive a human my life now

[fairymairah]

I not only agree. they use words for confusion and twist up the truth.

[karishort]

It boggles my mind how so many comments are from people in their 50's, 60's and 70's that are all dealing with this garbage. So much for finding true love later in life. We need a legal purge day...

[AKB]

I never felt crazy. I was just highly annoyed by their tactics and irritated that I couldn't really defend myself without it blowing up into a tantrum.

[crencottrell]

1.) Ms. Jill looks great today
2.) I realize I really am an empath 😅
3.) Praise God for NO contact since nothing good is going to happen if you reach out to that narc who hurt you, lied to you, smear campaigned you, tried to get you arrested, fill in the blank evil action towards you 🙏🏿🙌🏾

[pauljones]

you are spot on, as usual, a pure narcissist does make you feel crazy

[matilda]

Don’t defend, don’t explain…you own them nothing ! Preferably don’t engage !

[lil--mo]

This video is one of the most precise examples of how these types operate. The part where you mention the narcissist getting major supply form them thinking about how they have you thinking about them.

[karenhart]

I was always confused when I spoke or interacted with them, I have made a new resolution, if I dont feel good around a person, leave it and dont look back !

[PSBore]

This was good. I’m currently breaking free from my dad’s controlling and condescending ways. I realized something was wrong with him after he tried to gaslight me about something and I was like “are you honestly trying to tell me this after what I’ve experienced by your hand?” I knew he was living in an alternate reality or something and that got me into learning about narcissism. Now I know why things were the way they were and why my sister, brother, mom, and I are so screwed up.