Are INTJs arrogant?/ How to develop empathy? / Q&A INTJ Personality

I respond today to my community's questions about the INTJ Personality type ❤️
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
0:39 Me & my channel
1:02 1. How to develop empathy for young INTJs
5:17 2. How to be less negative
6:34 3. How not to look unfriendly
8:39 4. How arrogant are INTJs
9:50 5. Overlap between MBTI and Enneagram type for INTJs
10:44 6. Why are INTJ stubborn
12:12 7. How INTJ connects with an ENFJ
14:21 8. How to resolve inner conflicts
15:49. 9. INTJ’s lack of awareness of their impact on others.
16:56 10. Unable to express thoughts in childhood? Why?
19:05 11. Should INTJ’s dumb themselves down to fit in?
21:40 12. How to convey emotions in a sincere way.

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[MariamZawjatNomayri]

As an INTJ personality type I wouldn't describe myself as "arrogant". I believe it's the incredibly insecure individuals, possibly those who are undeniably envious from inside, who'd perceive INTJs as full of themselves when they're just imparting knowledge to correct wrongs and do away with awful ignorance. An INTJ can appear to be "arrogant" by obstinately refusing to interact with you if they know for certain that you're a fake, pretending to be somebody whom you aren't therefore you aren't trustworthy or worthy of their attention

[mayulverma]

Everything she said is a 100% true... Being an INTJ I can assure that.
Be it enneagram number 5 or acting dumb to fit, or even that people cannot read what's going in our head.
Good work. I really appreciate it, keep going 👍👏

[Mindimalist]

My apologies everyone, the video stops playing at minute 17:47 even though it's perfectly uploaded. I have reported this issue, and they said it will be solved within 24 hours. — 10/01/21 update: the problem has been solved! 🎉

[whatisahandleanyway]

Tips for INTJs
If you don't wanna give the death stare
Just cover your eyes with a black cloth like Gojo from Jujutsu Kaisen😅
Problem Solved

[marblebloc]

Intjs please be yourself so I can have you - ENFP 😳💜

[markbrahma]

Thank you for the much needed advice, its rlly evident how much u know INTJ's, maybe even better than they know themselves at times hahaha. I related to so much of this especially in my personal growth. I'd still like to give some more perspective on the INTJ but as an enneagram 4w5.

Being an INTJ with enneagram 4w5, sp4 subtype. I've rlly not seen many INTJ's even on the internet with this enneagram type
And I think thats one of the reasons I found it weird that when I got INTJ as the result, I related to everything that the INTJ stereotypes and logical way they think, but my emotional spectrum of Fi, as an enneagram type 4 seemed to be smth I associated with a lot more than my Te

I think I personally have a lot of aspects regarding the empathy that INFJ's have, or rather, it was easier for me to develop it because of how aware I am about how I feel about many things inside, which is actually the foremost way to develop empathy as an INTJ, even according the video. I'm rlly fortunate to have had INFJ friends when I was in a very bad place with my emotions in my Ni Fi loop, but they helped nurture that emotional depth as a way for me to use it productively through empathy. Being with them has also helped me be much more 'vocal' about how I truly feel about things, without feeling judged. I personally already used to feel very deeply being an empath, but I struggled when it came to using the correct words to express them, and honestly having an INFJ to listen to u, even when it doesn't seem to make sense about what u're saying, they almost intuitively understand what u're getting at.

Here's one rlly weird aspect of being an enneagram 4 INTJ, we almost look like INFJ's but with boundaries. But I had to develop my social presence and knowing how to say the right things, through learning and reading, and even from observing my INFJ friends do it effortlessly lol. Fi and Te are actually rlly good emulators of Fe in a way. Fi after having gone thru multiple emotional experiences, can somewhat accurately understand what the other person might be feeling in a similar circumstance, and Te can be used to express that in a clear way.

There r still certain downsides to being an e4 INTJ type however. I am prone to staying in my emotions a lot longer than the action oriented INTJ's with enneatypes 5, 6 or 8. Being a 4 means experiencing emotions in a very intense and dramatic manner as well, but I've personally benefitted from having my INTJ friends who r 5w4 and 5w6 as well, they have helped me develop my Te (maybe even Ti because of the 5 enneagram) and think critically and detached. Its not that I do not posses those abilities beforehand, but my lack of practice and frequency of use of my Te sometimes gets rusted.

All in all, I'm rlly grateful for both my INFJ and INTJ friends, I personally connect so well with both types not because of being only an INTJ, but mainly because of the 4's added sensitivity and the wing 5 being still rational and detached in nature

I understand there are a lot more factors than just being one type in spectrum of being a human, and its great to see how there r many different subtypes even inside one type.

[MariamZawjatNomayri]

INTJs can actually apply astounding empathy but selectively. Why bother wasting your feelings and efforts to understand somebody who is not authentic, reliable and valuable in the first place?

[shakour]

It's hard for us to put anything into words honestly, not just our feelings 😅

[shakour]

22:02 has to be the kindest thing I was ever told in my entire life as an INTJ

[elypelowski]

To the person asking about INTJ and ENFJ. This is not a good paring cognitively and will be many struggles in a romantic relationship. ENFJ & INTJ would be best in the "friend zone". While technically any type can work with any type, some are going to be a more natural fit. (ie INTJ & ENFP, or INTJ & ENTP, or even INTJ & ESFJ for examples). In order for ENFJ and INTJ to work they both need to be very cognitively mature and be able to compromise A LOT (both ways) !!! It could be a good paring for some serious personal growth (through struggle) but will lack sexual/romantic compatibility.

Next topic: Fi ... Yes this can be the Achilles heal of INTJs. For every type the Tertiary (child) 3rd cognitive slot when over utilized can become a weakness. The tertiary function has the attitude of a child, and thus it does not know proper boundaries. Some of INTJs worst decisions will be ones that were made using Fi without using Te, or Ni. I've been there done that too many times when I was young. INTJ, if you ever find yourself doing/saying/not doing/not saying something solely from an Fi perspective then you will definitely want to think rationally of the outcomes. Get your Ni & Te involved and sit on it for a day or two and think through if how you Fi 'Feel' about something is justified rationally and what the future outcome will be. INTJ should make decisions for the most part from and Ni & Te perspective.

[no-thanks]

My INTJ friends aren’t arrogant, they Dong like performative kindness or pretentious people.

-female ISTJ

[MariamZawjatNomayri]

As an INTJ personality type I wouldn't describe myself as "arrogant". I believe it's the incredibly insecure individuals, possibly those who are undeniably envious from inside, who'd perceive INTJs as full of themselves when they're just imparting knowledge to correct wrongs and do away with awful ignorance. An INTJ can appear to be "arrogant" by obstinately refusing to interact with you if they know for certain that you're a fake, pretending to be somebody whom you aren't therefore you aren't trustworthy or worthy of their attention.

[TheKacperosss]

I have fiance in past intj 5w6. I am enfj 8w7. Love her still but this was to hard after 5 years. I love Talking with her, we was on another level. Also love her sensual side

[A_TALKINGSLUG]

Don't know if it's just me but from 17:47 till the end of the video, the frame stays frozen + no audio (check the upload)

[rameshcppodcasts]

Mindi, can you make some videos on INFJ males?❤

[shakour]

How can we stop people from putting us on a high pedestal, in a healthy way?

[shibejobs]

But the world is a gigantic craphole... Sry to correct that.