Psychologist Addresses FEMALE DISRESPECT: why this is essential to relationship success

Addressing FEMALE DISRESPECT: why this is essential to relationship success

[mentlinc]

Why don't women "accidentally" disrespect their boss at work? Straight cap they know what they are doing and they know the laws allow it.

[BasedGymChad]

Covert disrespect. How many times have we seen teen girls roll their eyes at someone and then are in complete denial about the disrespect when called out on it. It starts from a young age.

[johnconnor]

Seeing how my now ex wife treated me compared to everyone else was an eye opener. I realized why everyone liked her, she treated them with respect and care, while I got the cold, cruel, disrespectful part.

[johnmoore]

I dated a disrespectful woman. I tried to tell her you keep this up. I'm out. She tried again and I said I'm out. When I stopped taking her calls 📞. She kept saying I'm sorry give me another chance 😔. I said hey I have options. She said its a defense mechanism. I said I'm moving on. SHE was in disbelief I stopped calling 📞. To this day 5 months later. She text me please 🙏 give me another chance. I don't respond back.

[keirangrant]

Women are aware of what they are doing because if you do the same disrespectful thing to a woman, she will definitely get offended by it. if you know it's disrespectful to you then you definitely know its disrespectful to others. That boss analogy is perfect and sums up the fact that all women know what disrespect is.

[lorenzoredmond]

I strongly disagree women know when their disrespectful to men they know what they're doing. It's a culture and sociology to women's behavior. Women know what they're doing.

[Aggielife]

I’ll add that I don’t think this is reversible for a woman in a relationship. Once she loses respect, it’s over!

[juiceknot]

My relationship with my ex, was like Jada & Will.
Covert narcissist, no empathy, no respect. To be given back to the streets.
The husband leads the wife. Metaphorically, the mind🧠 leads the emotions ❤️
When that order is reversed, even in an individual, there’s chaos

[jaycar]

This was a great one thank you for showing it. I have been married to my wife now for 35 years disrespect creeped into our relationship over time and has poisoned it. I have stayed in it up till now for the sake of my sons happiness to provide him with a stable home but he is grown now and has a life of his own. I have tried to fix our relationship but it is beyond fixing and though hard I will be ending our relationship soon and moving on because no one man or women deserves to be mistreated or disrespected Thanks again to you and the psychologist and have a blessed day.

[kenthil]

Yup. I'm in the downward slope of a failing marriage; she hasn't respected me in a long time. Right now, I'm only holding out until she gets a job, and then I'm dropping papers. I'm finished with being treated and talked to like a child by someone who is supposed to love me.

[thejakyl]

OMG! I have been saying this same thing to my wife for a couple years now! Flat out, full stop, I do NOT put up with ANY disrespect from her or anyone else after realizing this. Its not that people cant control their mouths, its that they think their relationship with you gives them license to say what they want, when they want and YOU must endure it or risk damaging the relationship.

[saraianknowledge]

“…we never ever consider from the man’s perspective what’s best for him, we don’t even ask, we don’t even CARE, we don’t even know what a man thinks his ideal relationship is…”

If this doesn’t answer all your questions about relationships with modern women then I’m not sure what will…stay single, chase your own dreams, master yourself and conquer your own reality, stay safe brothers!

[guntertorfs]

3:54- your explanation makes perfect sense. In fact, most men realize very well that a lot of women have very little empathy towards adult males, as does society on the whole, despite the claims that we live in a ' heaven for men ', the patriarchy.

[mickeyc]

I'm a woman who applauds this. I've learned from bad female examples in my family and elsewhere to be cognizant to not act this way to men and the older I get the more conscious I am to not fall into these societal norms. Its appalling

[markhamilton]

I NEEDED this video 40 yrs ago in my twenties ! Including Melanie’s reactions and body language ! TRUTH !

[castle]

This is also a Biblical teaching:
Ephesians 5:33 says, “Let the wife see that she respects her husband” without including the word if. Just as husbands are commanded to love their wives when they don't feel like it, wives are commanded to respect their husbands when they don't feel like it.
I love the way this translation expresses this,

[docsavage]

You have established upfront what you won't tolerate from your woman. I had a situation arise with disrespect and thoughtlessness and had to stamp it out right then and there or it would continue forevermore and worsen. She actually listened and adjusted. Never came up again.

[ggmiethe]

I once overheard two women talking. One said, “Where is your jewellery? You don’t wear earrings anymore?” The other said, “I’m married now. I don’t need to do that anymore.” They didn’t laugh. I believe that when a woman gets a job, like anyone, they don’t think, “Oh, now I’ve got the job, I don’t have to work anymore.” But when a lot of modern women “get” their man, they go, “That’s it - I’m on Easy Street.” Thanks for the post, Geoff from Fremantle Australia 🇦🇺

[blueaqua]

Yes, according to many studies on the Big Five Personality Traits, men tend to be Agreeable, while women tend to be Neurotic.

[danpolo]

Orion puts down some deep wisdom here and Melanie does a great job breaking down how profound this is. It’s powerful. Thank you both.