The main reason why looks matter - Sadia Khan

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[clodaghcollins]

Beauty attracts attention
Personality captures the heart

[ruchikumari]

I am an average looking girl and my looks used to bother me, but now I don't care as the goal of life is to make relationship with God not men. It's just the part of life not whole life. I am enjoying my life very well.

[adrianavargova]

I am not average. And I am not that breathtakingly beautiful.

But if a woman feels attractive, she exudes that aura. Trust me.

[terencew]

Looks matter but personality is very important

[vronica]

She spoke the truth. Im average looking and i have always had to win people over with my personality and behavior. I had a minor glow up at 18-24 but i resented better treatment bc of my looks, so i intentionally made myself look plain. Being an ugly duckling made me cherish people with true good personalities, so i continue to look plain bc i want to weed out the fake people in my life.

[JacobHill-ik]

Not all men will reward women for just being physically attractive...a lot of them sadly will

[vegasgirl]

Meh. If beauty was all that's needed to maintain a relationship, there wouldn't be so many actresses and models with multiple divorces.

[BrightEyedBushyTailed-ldmn]

Being very beautiful or extremely handsome in looks is never easy. Life becomes even more complicated if you have a beautiful heart to match it.

[AsumputaNdagire-cjth]

Trust me many beautiful women don't last long in relationships not all but many of them

[tutiens]

She is correct 💯.
And I am a woman with average look. That's why I work really hard to be wealthy, to be able to reach privileged status.

[Moooonzy]

Hard truth. My friend is one of those beautiful and attractive women so she has extra high standards for the man she chooses to be with, despite the fact that she is almost 40 years old.She always talks about those men who approach her and she rejects them because of how they look or where they live. I am considered below average, or practically ugly so I don't actually have any opportunities concerning relationships. What my friend talks about doesn't make any sense to me and many times I find it hurtful.

[constancedecastro]

I dunno. I’ve seen plenty of gorgeous women get treated like absolute garbage from average looking men. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I feel like average men should also be realistic and go for average women.

[deandomino]

"Favor is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised." - Proverbs 31: 30

[sonjaradovic]

There's a lot of truth to what this lady said. Fortunately, I never had the beauty to experience any kind of entitlement, but I imagine that the ladies who did, or do, in fact, are not the luckiest of us all. Can there be anything scarier than being gorgeous, and fear eternally of losing your best asset to time or illness? You know that time is the enemy you cannot defeat, and are more aware of every wrinkle, every gray hair...And when that beauty passes so does the privilege. I imagine it has to hurt as hell to miss something so defining you no longer possess.
Also, if the 1% beauty is the only asset one possesses, then it is really hard to keep anyone's attention for a long time. Even the most beautiful woman becomes ordinary, boring and replaceable, if she does not manage to develop some kind of personality. In my opinion, entitlement usually comes with a lack of empathy, lack of depth, lack of will to question oneself and the world around you. I imagine that extremely beautiful people are, also, often very lonely. Not an easy thing to have girlfriends when you're an object of envy. Not easy to have a relationship if the person you are in relationship with is not equally self-assured and trusting. It's hard for me to believe that a self-assured, confident, smart person would choose someone entitled as a long term partner, potential mother to his children. All things considered, maybe average is a blessing we aren't even aware of. 😊

[melissamontiel]

I’m average and I get treated with respect and like a queen . I even get doors held for me and it depends on how they’re raised. If they are told that they’re prettier than better than the average woman, they are going to mistreat others because of it. The irony is that immature men who operate from their ego will reward their entitled behavior .

[GloriaC]

She’s right. Attractive, educated, and can articulate her thoughts.

[PLOttawa]

Very interesting perspective. The only thing is that “submission” is not sustainable long-term. Men but people more generally are superficial but not that superficial. There has to be chemistry, shared values and all the rest for any relationship to withstand the test of time.

[danielbravo-ly]

This is true to the extent of their age. When a man learns to love himself first he will eventually leave a woman of beauty if he doesn’t get the same love.

[philcudworth]

Stunning beauty gets you about 3, maybe 6 months. Then after that everyone is average.

[dianaconstantinescu]

Even if you are beautiful you need luck.. I saw a lot of beautiful women who just had bad luck and their life is so misserable compared with the average.. Luck and faith are above beauty and image...