If Your Woman Is Like This, End Your Relationship...

[theantihustlers]

I really could of used hearing this before I got married. My soon to be ex-wife had a past, blames all short comings on mental health, and claimed every past partner was abusive and a "narcissist". When the relationship started turning sour and she refused to be held accountable, I noticed her starting to frame me in the same abusive and narcissist light to further excuse her actions. I fell into the trap that a lot of men fall into. That mindset of "I'll save you baby!" aka captain saveaho.

[masik]

Tbh women with a past can still be good women who are extremely loyal & loving & nurturing. They just have to own up to their past, repent, & sincerely never want to repeat those mistakes again. Women aren't perfect unfortunately, and some have fallen for the lies today's society teaches. Men aren't perfect either. How many men have done things they sincerely regret & wish they could undo? Men & women are in this together. Good people stumble but get back up stronger & better than ever. High standards are important but good people =/= perfect people. Look for a GOOD woman, not necessarily a perfect women (unless you are perfect yourself)

[AzumaRikimaru]

Emotionally available women are rare and extremely important to a nurturing home and family. Especially for the children. I’m sure we men could take a look on the women in our life and how the ability to be emotionally available means they are in tune with being feminine. Single mothers usually have to play both masculine and feminine but tend to stay in the masculine role because it’s the energy the gets things done.

[musicdamar]

That gigachad moment when I look back now, and see how I always ignored the lowly opinions of the masses... considering I have a much younger wife then is accepted by Western norms. I'm 33 now, wife is 23, son of 4 and daughter of 2. No baggage, no regrets, believes in God... is not politically correct, doesn't mind I have never touched even 1 diaper or did anything feminine related, and still respects me.
Baggage does come with age because of the degeneracy in society... but the most important of all is her parents being a God-fearing people.

[julioandresgomez]

Taking women with "past" is rewarding poor behaviour, and that´s harmful to society as a whole. That´s like a father after the son skips a Karate class to buy and eat some candy instead of putting forth consequences to that action "don´t worry, son. It´s all in the past. I´ll buy you an ice cream too".

[warriorlight]

The more I experience life the more I want a traditional woman.

[Garbanzo]

American women are taught that they are to be served because they have a cooter and give very little in return.

[gmeovr]

Nail on the head about abuse. Usually this means the man putting in place reasonable boundaries that the woman doesn’t want to adhere to!

[calholli]

What a woman has done in the past is not just a red flag, it's a signal; it's a direct indication of what she WILL do in the future. It's a prophecy; easy to predict and impossible to avoid. When she shows you signs of who she really is, BELIEVE HER. We call that a clue

[marksavoia]

Not only is marriage good for the adults and children involved, but it is also good for the economy, for married spouses work harder, save more, and buy more homes.
Marriage is good for neighborhoods, it is the seedbed of civic virtue and moral character, that drives out crime and violence.

[DivineLogos]

True, a lot of western women call their ex's that had strong boundaries "abusive".

[MiguelAmar]

Yo Elliott! This video is so true! You’re videos actually saved me from being with toxic woman! Can you do more videos on red flags in women and also green flags?

[G.G_one]

I just left a work center where my supervisor constantly talked about her mental health and my coworker would talk about her past marital relationship as all abusive.
If any normal sane male was employed there they would’ve have been deemed toxic from the get go by those two females.
I’m thankful I don’t work there no more. Hallelujah!

[geneticsmatter]

Everybody needs to read the Forbes article titled "Don't Marry Career Women"

[patdoit]

Mental health is a red flag but I wouldn’t consider it a bs excuse because alot of girls a messed up from trauma

[aodh]

One of my exes told me her ex threw her down the stairs. I almost said well I can see why. I would leave rather than shout or trash talk. It didn't last long. Keep your standards high!

[MAJIN.BUUUUU]

Don't forget astrology. "It's because I'm a scorpio" lol

[alexanderj.]

That's usually what women say about men who aren't willing to become their doormat. Just brand his behavior in a negative way, call it abusive so each time he's not your doormat he feels guilty about it, add the social pressure and viola, you got a whole generation of men without balls. You'd think that would make her happy having a convenient yes-man around but wrong, it'll only irritate her and chances are she'll end up leaving you because deep down she's still gravitated toward a dominant man. To be fair, sometimes abusive could mean just that, an abusive asshole of a man. But her ending up with a man like that should tell you a thing or two about her as well. And damn right people should be held accountable for their past choices. We are all responsible for who we end up with.

[SonDeku-yx]

I agree with you Elliot, but how can we as men keep women accountable for their past practically, by telling her “No, I don’t date women with a past” or ignoring women who are not virgins?

Basically what sort of actions can we as men take?

[Ants.w]

I agreeee, thanks for your amazing videos