Men Explain Why They Want to Stay Single

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[HansensUniverseT-A]

I don't hold grudge to women but i simply wish to remain single, i wont let sexual drives compromise me, staying true to my self has provided me with a lot of insights and a meaningful life, i will likely remain single for the rest of my life and it doesn't bother me at all, people need to choose for themselves what they want.

[waterydepths]

The first comment presented got me. Before I married, my soon to be husband said, "you are perfect, just as you are". But as soon as we married he said, "now you have to change". Turns out he didn't like my lipstick color, music, books, friends, hair style, clothes, car, and so on. The marriage didn't last long, because I could not fundamentally become someone I was not.

[ajnyou.youtube]

I believe that change happens anyways, with or without the person. Every year we are different from the past year, it’s natural. And if it’s not that partner “changing” you, eventually it will be someone else. We, as humans, learn from each other all the time. The major factor is to respect our differences and allow the “changes” to happen naturally.

[brianwhitley]

Ive never been married and have no kids, I'm 41 everything in your videos I heard when i was 18. I'm glad you're out there speaking the truth of positivity and love.

[MsGuitars]

I love how Jameson was the camera man at first and now is part of the podcast 🤩 yasss

[guntervanstraaten]

Spent the last year getting to know her, found out she had mental health issues, depression, anxiety etc, medically diagnosed. Helped her out of that hole at leas a lot, showed her there is still hope, when she got out of it, as well as a toxic relationship, she went straight for a guy playing around, fling basically. Seen another one yesterday, and since this she said she doesn't want a relationship now, and basically ghosted me a few days so far, so yeah this is whe i dont care for a relationship anymore, too many that want to use us and discard us when they find a new toy. Committing is something fewer and fewer want to do.

[nichole]

A past ex had brought up a few times how he didn't want to give up his free time doing the things he enjoyed and he was adamant about not losing his sense of self in a relationship. I gently reminded him that I was only going to add to the life he already had, not take anything away. When he was married, his wife began slowly complaining about how she wanted him to spend more time with her. Of course I'm only hearing one side, his side. I had accepted him where he was in his life but unfortunately he was not doing the same for me. This was where I had to call it quits.

[daboys]

Single for life. Thank you and goodbye!

[paulnilsson]

I am 53 years old with no kids. I have always been single and I like it.

[sylvaindion-cloutier]

As a man, 3 years ago, I started shit testing girl at the 4 month mark by sharing my emotions and become vulnerable.... so far, every single girls I did that dumped me the following week 😂... So I am still enjoying single life without having to do break up myself. I still hope to find my unicorn that won't break it off though... and until then hook up culture is awesome!

[mathisnotforthefaintofheart]

Staying single for a man is not a crime. So it's the most prudent way to go these days. It's safe, no drama and you won't be treated like a doormat

[unconditionalloveandlight]

I also have that fear of judgment which stems from insecurity. It has stopped me from having a relationship for a long time . In the past I did not have good boundaries so I lost myself in relationships . I know I should not let the past prevent me from trusting that I can have a healthy relationship now as I’ve worked on myself and I do have good boundaries now .

[NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[vvvthhcn]

Reading the comments, I think it's really unfair to speak about men being selfish or being afraid to commit. I was committed to my ex-gf. I gave her all I could, and always reminded her that I truly love and appreciate her. To my surprise, she blocked me without explanation one day. And when I drove 170 miles to see her and asked her why, she simply told me we were just incompatible. That to me is the greatest pain and embarrassment I've ever felt. If that's not commitment, idk what is. Please, stop villainizing us men and generalizing all of us. There are plenty of women who dont want to commit as well. But we are all independent beings, and we have feelings. Regardless of your gender (or who you may identify as), if you've been hurt and are reading this comment, please continue to be kind and generous to yourself and to others. Keep on loving, and keep on searching. I hope all of you have a happy ending.

[chiquitaf]

My 17 year marriage ended almost a year ago and I don’t see the appeal of being in a relationship again. I’m finding myself again and don’t want change or compromise to accommodate someone again. I’m actually happy. Why mess it up?

[jenniferl]

I just met a man (he's 51 and never married) who is definitely afraid to commit and seeking casual - I wished him well and said we aren't looking for the same thing. I've don't tons of personal growth and healing and want someone to not afraid to commit to me. You NEED to do work on your inner self to heal to be in a relationship.

[cwadh]

I know for me, I'm very introverted, know I'm visually appealing to women, i go to the gym, im a published author, but my personality and things I like to do requires that I be alone for awhile. Plus I don't want kids or to travel a lot. A lot of women my age will call that boring because they like partying and vacations, but I'm working on myself everyday. So I'm not missing out, I just gotta be single for as long as I need to be.

[HavyHaulr]

after two longterm relationships in my 54yrs i have no interest in being in a relationship again…i have succeeded in many facets of my life when a women wasn’t included…i now have the experience to know that i can be happy when i’m single…i’m not less for it, i am more….

[AP-ggep]

I just broke up with someone who I bent backwards for with no appreciation. In the future, I will change (for the sake of healthy improvement) again for my next partner, because I want to build a wonderful relationship. Just because I had a bad experience doesn't make me bitter. I interpret people who are resistant to change as bitter from past hurt.

[bibilym]

I also think, like women too, a lot of men have been hurt by women but have not healed from it. I think it really makes them afraid to really be vulnerable and build something special with someone.