Do THIS If Someone Is Teasing You

When someone teases you, makes fun of you or even bullies you, you don't have to accept it and let their self-esteem issues stick to you and bring you down. Here's a simple way to act when someone teases you that helps you stay confident and makes them look silly and unimportant.

[nofacerainbow]

"Oh seems he is not affected by our actions"
*Continues to do it daily*

[AC-]

But sometimes they keep picking on that person until that person attacks back and put an end for bullying.

[bduodwj]

Ignore it and stay away for these types of people.

[pupton]

No it isn't. Attack back. With no mercy. They'll never bother you again.

[davidgloberman]

He's right. Just believe you're higher value and you won't react.

[KrayZ]

What I do is “agree and amplify”. I play along with their joke and act over the top on what they are teasing me about i.e if someone is calling me or something I did gay, I agree with them and act super flamboyant. It gets them and everyone around to laugh and they tend to stop joking about it after.

[SrikanthBhospet]

I was just looking outside the bus on a journey and these two guys indirectly said poor spectacles guy, to this I replied to them with laughter "your happiness is amazing" and gave them thumbs-up while the bus just moved on..
This video confirmed I did right.. ❤

[gup-gup]

This works. (At least for my situation) I’m not bullied or teased a lot, but these two boys keep teasing how I react to thinks and they mock my words. At first when it was real bad I reacted and said things like “you’re not funny” or what-not, and then I just ignored it. For the past week, it’s been getting better. At one point one of the boys was telling the other “dude shit up” and that made me feel better. It still happened today but definitely not as much. I still have a lot of anxiety going into that class everyday though, but I know I’ll get through this one day.

[abdullxhshahid]

Guys best thing you can do is not back down, don't be scared and its okay to joke back as one should know that if you will attack first, it's almost natural for somebody else to get defensive, Remember to always stand up for yourself

[pdc]

So basically you need to never react and wear a mask the bullies can wear down. Also if you reacted once, they bullies know can be persistent and get the reaction out of you and not reacting becomes a test of wills. Personally for me in high-school, I found that flipping the teasing onto them like a mirror normally works albeit its a little dripping gas on the fire but it's definitely better than fighting.

[Darkblazer]

Attack is the best way that's effective

[redrabbit]

Yes but I've actually have had incidents where they lashed back at me cause I was acting nonchalant about them either teasing or being angry at me...so I would say know when to act in this manner and who to act this way with...or beaware that you might have go get confrontational with them, cause some people can only be taught by force and not reason.

[pandasenpai]

Just today I went to a well reputed restaurant with my family. We were enjoying our meal in peace until in the next table there were 4 boys and one of them were winking at me. It made me pretty uncomfortable but I decided to ignore it. Next he started to raise his eye brows and bite his lips. Again I decided to ignore but it was way more than the limit. I shouted why are you staring at me and he was like what are you talking about I don't know then my uncle and mother shouted at them too that what are you doing and all... Then he acknowledged that he did that and apologized for it. GIRLS OUT THERE I want to let you know that when he apologized, THE SATISFACTION I FELT WAS BEYOND EVERYTHING!! ALL I WANT TO SAY IS NEVER TOLERATE OR IGNORE EVE TEASERS.ALWAYS BE ON THE OFFENSIVE SIDE AND NEVER ON THE DEFENSIVE SIDE... I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST MY GIRLS AND I WISH THAT WHAT HAPPENED TO ME NEVER HAPPENS TO YOU❤❤❤

[nanabaaafram]

My sister was a huge bully in middle school she would always tease and make fun of me but then I was in my emo phase and just didn’t care soon she became nicer and here we are her at my wedding

[jazzminejackson]

I don’t agree. I’m not going to sit there and laugh about something like that. The person will just keep doing it

[countertask]

As a person who has been bullied before, this does not work.

[prateekl]

I'm just worried about forgetting this advice

[chocostar]

I know 2 persons who are my "friends". When they are together, they are like a nigtmare. They keep teasing me and making fun of me for no reason. Like once I got white nike shoes, and they said I am such a faker, because they had ones. But this isn't the worst. They do much more BAD things. They are like demons! But when I'm with one of them only, they are suprisingly nice. Wtf is wrong with these two? I wish they could just back up and leave everyone alone. I wish I didn't have to be friends with them but I can't.. if I would dumb them, they would tell EVERYONE in basketball team that I'm such a bad person and everyone would leave me and I would be just too lonely..

[flowerbloom]

No. You got to set your boundaries cause laughing at their jokes or none reactive is just gonna enable them. They think you’re a punk and that you will do nothing next time. The cycle will repeat.

People will go as far as much as you’re willing to tolerate. This is for all types of relationships.

[crystalfelicia]

Not always, tried that and they keep at it, some ppl still attract this sht as adults!