Building a life from ZERO - Married without Wealth - Mufti Menk

How much do you expect there to be when you are getting married? A house, full time job, car and...

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[fareegreen]

Dear Mufti when I got married me and my husband had nothing, and I really do mean nothing. We lived above a Chinese takeaway in one room. I knew our situation wouldn't remain static though because we were both highly responsible and had a shared vision and goal to better ourselves. We have been married 11 years and within the time managed to buy a house, further our careers and have been blessed with a daughter and son. I can't say it's been easy and at times it still isn't but we as a couple are strong and remain committed to each other and our children. Always remember Allah helps those who help themselves and others. God bless x

[niya]

This is the miracle of Allah swt, when married with nothing he will give rizq and barakat to the home so you can find what to drink, eat or wear🤍

[khalidanoor]

There should be a balance between spirituality and materialism. Money is an important part of life but money is not life.

[mikaelN]

My proposal was denied due to these reasons. It's sad times we live in, where ppl who know better, should remember this duniya is temporary.

[nonsense]

I needed to hear this, I'm looking for a spouse, I have very little to offer material wise, I don't even have enough mehr, in sha allah I trust in Allah swt

[adn]

Unfortunately people don't see iman and character of a person today. What everyone want are looks and money not only in marriage but all worldly matters.. This is unfortunately the world we live in..

[AkramBaig]

This my point. When you get married you get rizq automatically. Don't just look for a guy or girl who has wealth or settled. Life always starts scratch.

[farhanaanis]

So true. Those who are having deep Faith in Islam and having fearness in ALLAH SWT n those who wanted to follow the Sunnah never demanding anything from their spouses. Only thing is we have to search for good n faithful one. It's the duty of caring parents. MAY ALLAH SWT guide every parent. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbil Alameen.

[ahmedalmahdi]

I really wish I had gotten married before building my wealth. Once you make good money, you have to also look out for the women who only want to marry you for the money or lifestyle

[wandascott]

My parents were like this! My father met my mother one summer after her divorce from my brother's father. He saw my mother walking for three days in a row before he got the nerve to get my aunt to make an introduction. He got her number and they were together ever since. Married for 8 years before she passed from lupus in '97. But the were each coming from a divorce and had basically nothing and had to rebuild. They got married. Had my sister and I practically back to back. And then made a huge move to Arizona. Before long the house and cars came and we never wanted for anything. I remember the pool, lemon trees, and playground set up in our back yard. My parents truly loved one another deeply.

[iramahmed]

Yes you shouldn't expect someone in their 20s to be wealthy. Money is not everything, definitely not more than your spouse who you love. But to get married you need to have at least some sort of salary, a ridiculous amount isn't a necessity but the salary should be enough for both spouses for at least necessities. There should also be a place to live and that doesn't include parents/in laws house. Living with them causing problems in a marriage and is unhealthy for the relationship. Even if the man provides a rented home with a 1 room flat with bathroom and kitchen it's fine for the start. Then insha Allah as the couple prosper and Allah blesses them with rizq they can get a better home if they wish according to their means. It is beautiful to both get married having not much and growing together to the top. But we need to be realistic having 0 and getting married can cause problems in the marriage, it's unfair on the spouse as their rights would not be fulfilled, (which is an important aspect of a successful marriage) and the problems it would entail would have negative impact on the spouses mental and emotional wellbeing and could strain their marriage. Which of course isn't good.

[othmanabdulkadir]

That's true married with out wealth, it's good for everyone because Allaah gives you more riziq. Some people don't do that. a few people do that masha'allaah mufti and this women❤👏.

[dr.mobarakali]

Jazakum Allahu Khairan Shaikh. Allah swt says: "aiyakunu fuqara yughnihumullaho min fadlih, wallaho wasiun saleem."

[dawoodsuliman]

Dear beloved Mufti everything you say is true, but when it comes to reality, the people now a days asks for all of those things and even much more. May grant me and all singles a Muslim spouse who would perceive and be patience in hard times

[Hacker-fhft]

ALLAH PURSUED ME OVER THE YEAR UNTIL I SURRENDER AND THEN THE ANONINTING CAME I LIVED BAD TIME YEARS GO BUT NOW IM LIVING WITH THE LIGHT AND LOVE OF ALLAH ALMIGHTY IN MY HEART WE MUST LET ALLAH GLORY HAVE HIS WAY IN OUR LIVES PRAYER FOR THOSE WHO STILL REMAIN IN DARKNESS ALLAH BLESS ❤ MAY ALLAH GUIDE AND PROCTECT U ALL

[jusranada]

Ya Rabbi, grant us a deeper understanding ameen

[cyberspiral]

Ya idk how u can expect some 1 to own a house in their 20s these days when houses are going for 500k to 1million plus, it's crazy

[SandraStachowiczLtd]

What is even more important than wealth itself is being with someone you see building a future with, even if you're building that future from scratch Wealth is temporary, a person's character is not

[lisal]

It doesn’t matter what the women wants, her father won’t accept someone who is young without money!!! 🤦‍♀️ parents really ruin their kids

[saleimahmad]

It's really amazing if our Muslim sisters would appreciate we're pleased to do such an act it's the best way to get Rizq through marriage