TIME TO MOVE ON! Let’s Talk About How by RC Blakes

#RCBLAKES
#TOXICRELATIONSHIPS
#Soulties

[veronika]

“You’re not grieving the person, you’re grieving the disappointment and loss of hope.” Wow.

[destewart]

And sometimes the part where “God has something better for you” ain’t the love of another person. It’s the love of you, loving yourself.

[donnajeffreys]

Keep your emotions private and burry it, grieve it, walk away !! No conversation, no contact PERIODT. The closure you need is from within 💜 Get your joy back hallelujah and live a healthy peaceful life not full of bitterness from the past

[keepingitrealwithmarquita]

Its amazing how God will use a 2 year old message to give u confirmation. Gods timing is everything

[aishawilliams]

I played this message 3 times yesterday and decided to release him, I went to dance class and danced him out of my system and as soon as I got back home he called me, trying to flirt knowing fully well he just wants to keep me in his "Just incase" box, he doesn't really want me in his life or he would put me there. . for the 1st time I felt NOTHING! I usually cry after he calls, I felt nothing. I'm so very grateful for you and this message. Thank

[littlelamb]

Went to the park by myself today and in the car had a revelation that I was not alone. I had GOD with me. Who is better than Him??? No one!! Wasn't lonely and it was a beautiful day spending time with GOD!

[shalanathomas]

"The person that broke me cannot heal me, I am above the treatment I have allowed and this hurt will not last!" Hallelujah! 👏🏾👏🏾 thank you Jesus ❤

[naomiedwin]

No matter the situation never let your emotion over power your intelligence ✨ I always tell myself this pastor

[Mesha]

“Sometimes you have to be able to feel the pain, cry the tears, and still make the right decision.”
Letting go when you know you deserve better is the most difficult part.

[PrairieeGirl]

"The closure you need is from within." You never need a toxic person who has done nothing but waste your life and time, to give you closure.

[cassandragrayes]

“I’m above the treatment that I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last. “ 🙏🏽

[romarina]

13:40 “Truth is the most painful blessing”
15:05 “Because you don’t want anybody to disrupt this fantasy of a situationship that you’re trying to create”
15:25 You need a purely objective truth “you cannot separate freedom from truth”
18:30 “you got to pay attention to the thoughts you’ve always ignored”
20:20 “you got to be able to feel the pain, cry the tears and still make the right decision”
21:15 “you’ve been lying to yourself too long”
22:30 “you playing the role of a side chick bae”
24:30 “you sitting around here losing your whole life to a situation that you should never even entertained”
25:40 “grieve the disappointment, you’re not grieving the individual, you’re grieving the lost hope”
26:55 “You need to grieve the lost hope because you had a whole lot of hope in this thing that it would be exactly what you desired it to be that it would be what you needed it to be and it turned out to be a lie, now you have to grieve it”
28:04 “you grieve it to finalize in your mind that is dead”
30:14 Anchor yourself in dignity/privately vent your emotion/you got to bury it psychologically where it needs to be and then you walk away from it (cancel them)
34:26 “You must create your own closure” (you need them to answer this for you/the idea the same person that opened the wound is the one that’s going to close the wound: finding ways to interact)
39:40 “The person that broke me will not heal me, I am above the treatment I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last”
43:00 “Revisit and reinvest in your vision” (Invest in you/do the things you always wanted to do/you need a revelation of you/remember your goals before you were distracted)
45:00 Summary
46:26 “Calm down and wait on God” stop being driven by your emotions/stop expecting men to do what only God can do. IT’S TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON, THIS THING IS DEAD, LET’S BURY IT.

[bellydanza]

“Sometimes you have to feel the pain, cry the tears, and still make the right decision.” - RC Blakes

[JIJII]

" Grieve the disappointment. You're not grieving the INDIVIDUAL but the lost hope " this is so liberating

[christinagurrola]

I’m Catholic and I follow you. I don’t listen to religious freaks I listen to wisdom and those that help me navigate through life. I listen to people who speak or the spirit and God.

[billyholiday]

Talk to me, Pastor! This is me 😢, I'm not even married to the man. Everything you said is about me, and it's the truth, but I'm no longer sleeping. Thank you for the truth!

[iamaleo]

“Sometimes.... you’ve got to be strong enough, to rescue yourself”...
Sometimes you’ve got to be able to feel the pain, cry the STILL make the right decisions!✨🙌🏽✨

[nicolerice]

“The person that broke me will not heal me. I’m above the treatment that I’ve allowed and my hurt will not last.” Amen 🙏🏽

[ViagensGringa]

"Get this yoke off of your neck!" I FELT that. THE PERSON THAT BROKE ME WILL NOT HEAL ME. I'm above the treatment I've allowed and my hurt will not last. AMEN

[reneef.]

I was definitely lying to myself. I gave more chances than necessary, with each time a circumstance getting worse or argument blowing up. I finally made the decision to leave and move on. I’m a mom and have to set the proper example for my child. We share this child, but now refuse to keep going through dysfunction. The love I constantly poured out started going into myself. I need this time to be completely alone and be next to God, and not put anyone on a pedestal before Him. All lessons learned and now being applied.