Why Men Shut Down Pt. 1

Why Men Shut Down
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[CursedRose]

So many people are taught to mask pain and hard emotions and often we feel limited on how to help others when they express their heavy emotions on the outside.
As a woman, i feel theres a general understanding that we need to minimize our expressions as well, especially during times of heavy period cramps and more- we're expected to grin and bear it and never feel like we can rest. Sometimes this makes me feel apathetic to when men are in pain or sick and they express it so much in private.
Mem are allowed to be emotional, but only in expected states like anger or grand gestures- theyre not taught to understand and regulate their emotions.

Women are expected to be emotional, but in the age of toxic masculinity- a lot of women suppress their needs and pain in order to exist and be accepted and feel helpful to a community.

Women deal with a flu for weeks because they cant always rest. Men can take a few days off and be better quickly.

Idk sometimes i feel like so many men are often coddled too long and arent given enoigh space or guidance to find themselves and balance themselves.

[llgrazes]

I have never, and would never say anything like this to a man. Because I would not want that said to me. I treat my man like the way I wanna be treated by him.

[BravehartGirl]

People do this to my 3 year old girl if she cries. Makes me furious. Why are we doing this crap to children?

[mindingmybusiness]

Nah I told my son it’s okay to cry, he’s human but don’t get it twisted he’s no punk. I grew up with my family telling me crying makes you weak and I’m a female

[Machenziethemodel]

I’m convinced alot men do not want to to grow from their brokenness.

[karenb]

That’s what I was told as a child and as a young adult too 😢

[paulasmith]

It's pretty sad. I've never done this to my son, I've allowed him to cry and express his emotions.

[Zoehvvfx]

I use to say that about men, you change my view.

[aliciaaustin]

This is true, but i told my son to show and communicate, emtions can bring on darkness!

[truthd]

Men are people too, and they have emotions. Yes, if my man tells me anything like something is off or he is not feeling something, I have to take into consideration and not be shame him.

[BroDCDAB]

Yo, qualify what u are saying. Absolutely nothing wrong with telling boys that WHEN correct on point! For example, Ur sister dies. NOBODY would say that! However, the boy kid gets grape kool-aid, and he wanted cheery. I would say, hey boy, "suck it up! DONT CRY, Don't wine and act like a little itch" that is APPROPRIATE. Sisters need more real men raised by real men.

[barryharvey]

It's not about shutting up, it's about controlling your ability to project your emotions when you need to provide a solution. So often men that have no fathers produce criminals. (Facts back me here) Emotions are a main driver for domestoc and violent crimes. Weak man l, emotional wreck, or call it what you want...it's not acceptable to carry on woth emotions. Man or woman. Older men will not cosign a man that can't keep his cool in trying tines. You can still express your emotions at an appropriate time projecting emotions externally is not tolerated.

[grv]

Men to soft today they need to suck it up

[TechLife_car]

I like been this way, I was programmed this way. I love it. I can face anything and won’t even flinch.

[mynamesNev]

Cause it’s soft as fuck and nobody is going to care as much as you do anyway. Deal with the emotions in private and fix the issue. If you can’t fix the issue move on and make your life better.