Should You Lower Your Standards For Him?

Today's episode will help you understand why you don't have to lower your standards in order to keep a guy or prevent him from going to someone else.

[DreamingInTechnicolor]

Be authentic to self: if you settle for less, less is what you'll receive.

[wendyhdzmiller]

I totally understand what you're saying. For the first time in my life I stayed single and didn't lower my standards for any man. The man with the higher standards found me, and we've been married for a week today. We're extremely happy. Understand that Bern has literally the greatest advice. He has helped me personally find the man of my dreams. And I am so grateful. Thanks Bern...keep them on their toes ;)

[beigelover]

not settling is SO difficult but im sure will be worth it ;)

[abisantos]

Before I even watch this, no you shouldn't lower your standards for ANYONE. Keep them up & the right one will meet all of them ❤

[glorfindelchocolateflowery]

Don't forget when other people make you feel guilty and say your stuck up for not lowering your standards even though you never asked them for advice in the first place

[havegrace]

If he doesn't comply to your standards??....NEXT ! There are plenty of fish in the sea.

[pamelameckley]

Brilliant video, excellent advice. I understood your message and I know many others will as well! Thank you Bernardo 😘😊

[realworld]

Amazing just loved it.great impressive:)

[shaktiliaom]

Love, love, love this advice! Thank you Bern!

[pialove]

Never lower your standards or sacrifice anything for a relationship with another. To do so is to show him you will continue to do so. Let those women who lower themselves have the guy! He is no one to be with.

[sikaah]

Thanks Bernie! Very well said. I'm on the right path!

[mariatheresaleonor]

Hello "Bern", I do highly appreciated the every topic you have, thank you so much and thanks God above all for you're channel, well gonna say never need to lower a standard in a certain man, for the right ones will approach and met them, for a high value woman is different from being having a high standard being, high standard people usually has a problem to search on love affair for they are just searching perfection on a certain guy, rather a high value woman, . knows how to preserved themselves with respect unto others and knows likewise how to love a guy in accordance at their real colours and virtues for who they are

[KPApothecary]

Bern, I know "Rolls Royce' guys exist...I've seen them on TV. My issue is that I've NEVER seen one in real life LOL. I see lots of Accords and Camary-type men (and they are great!) Along with deadbeat Yugo's... But I actually want an Alfa Romeo. Where can I get one of those? 😉

[dbzfan]

Yup. That's why I'm still single, since saving myself for marriage and not changing mind, even if that means dying single in this day and age haha.

[andi]

When you say lowering your standards, does that include attraction? I met a good guy seems to check all the boxes, but I'm not attracted to him.

[ItsSoarTime]

got it!
so i'll continue being alone.

[terriesmith]

Some women (not all not all not all) have unrealistic standards. Hahaha 😂🤣😆😂

Some be like a 3 (looks, personality, etc) and yet expect a hot dude that's super fit and rich. Lmao😂😂🤣😆😆

[rami]

Bernardo, seriously? We already know that.