I'm Not Cheating, We Are Just Friends. An Emotional Affair Is A Choice. From An Infidelity Therapist

Emotional affairs, in fact, all types of affairs are something you can recover from. If you are watching this, don't give up on hope. At the core of an affair, there is always unresolved pain on all sides - the side of the one cheating, the one being cheated on, and the one with home the cheating is taking place.

Please keep hope that with the right guidance and support this can not only be resolved and healed but it can be an exemplary relationship.

When you have a massive challenge and you face it together and overcome it by healing yourselves and each other, you become closer than you would have if you never had a big challenge at all.

It's surprising how many couples don’t understand what an emotional affair is and they haven’t taken the time to agree on what they consider an affair, infidelity, or betrayal.

This confusion can make you more susceptible to accidentally falling into an emotional affair.

If you haven’t had sex can it still be an emotional affair?

As an infidelity specialist, in this video, I help you identify the difference between an affair and a platonic friendship or a friendly interaction.

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[kurpal]

Lying to your partner, you already in your mind mentally decided to make the first step to “cheat”.

[StevenMikel]

Anything you have to hide from your significant other is wrong.

[KH-fvvq]

You know you're screwed when your gf/wife says "but we're JUST friends"

[salanzaldi]

It's true that some people try to rationalize that emotional cheating isn't really cheating because it isn't physical. First of all, it is Cheating and second, emotional cheating often leeds to physical cheating.

[nansitey]

Finally! Someone who tells the truth about this male-female friendship dynamic. Men and women cannot be just platonic friends. And if a woman expresses her discomfort of such a situation to a man and he does nothing about it he does not love her.

[eugenedegeorge]

I hope this comment doesn't get too long .I was married twice; both wives had physical Affairs. That being the case, I also used to think that men and women could be friends and have platonic relationships-- but I don't believe that anymore.To me a male/ female friendship is a backup. You know the old line " he/she is just a friend".But if you start to have problems in your marriage, as every marriage has sooner or later, that friendship can quickly become a sexual relationship in the blink of an eye. I remember when I got married one of the things the minister said was "love is a friendship that has caught fire".Well, when you have that fire smoldering in the background it doesn't take much to put some gasoline on it and it explodes.

[yearight]

It's truly remarkable how it's scenarios like this that would make an otherwise confident man, feel insecure. At which point his girlfriend or wife say his insecurity is a turn off. Never realizing she's creating the insecurity with her actions, I've always found that the only time I've ever felt jealous or insecure was always with women who I would come to find had another man in the picture and were doing something they shouldn't have been.

[joedouche]

There is no way an emotional cheater will never admit it! Not admitting it just means everyday that she went by is another day she or he lied to you!

[videosdigest-iits]

Thank you for validating those who are gaslighted in this grey zone of the "if this isn't wrong then this is right."

[JohnnyRebKy]

When someone is doing that it’s over. There’s no fixing it. It might go away awhile but it will be back

[Metimes]

Thanks for this. I can't stand double standards. My wife was mad that I found out that she was talking to another guy off to the side, and of course I was at fault for not "giving her enough attention, " therefore I forced her to do that. I tried to explain to her several times how it's wrong that she did it, and even tried to give the scenario of if the roles were reversed and I was still talking to someone I met years prior to us being together. Her response goes along the line of "that's fine, you can do that. You're a guy." Sounds rather misandristic. Her basis for all of it is over something I did years before we met, but it somehow affects her because of who it was. Regardless, it was before I even knew she existed! So she gets to do the same to me as "revenge". Even after all was said and done, and she supposedly stopped talking to this guy, I still see his number on her phone. She doesn't like me going through her phone. Well, I don't like you still talking to the guy you messed around with behind my back!

[sibusisokhumalo]

I normally would listen to different coaches and I've never met anyone so spot on, nailing it and truthful like you. Relationships are difficult and impossible to enjoy with people whom are constantly seeking after attention and validation from others.

[justanotherperson]

Good on you, you called it out as it is. Just went through this. Because 300 text in a week is normal she said. she has 3 kids and did not send 30 text to all of them and myself combined... BUT ITS NORMAL. then comes the deflection, yo are just Jealous, Insecure, and you have trust issues...

[my.dumpling]

Thank you! This is exactly was lead to the destruction of my relationship, he did everything you said and he claims that emotional cheating is not real

[m_jay]

NO! Because that opposite sex "friend" will become the shoulder to cry on when things hit a rough patch in the relationship/marriage and then the devil will open up all the doors to infidelity and an affair. You're playing with fire by having "friends" of the opposite sex in the confines of relationship/marriage. I don't care if this approach sounds old school or if haters try and say to me that "you're just an abusive, insecure, jealous, controlling, manipulative person for doing this. Don't you trust your girlfriend/wife?" You bet I do, but I also know that very rarely does a man stay "friends" with a woman who he doesn't have feelings for. And worse of all I can't help but feel those opposite sex "friends" are just waiting in the wings licking their chops for their turns just hoping your relationship/marriage will fail. So you bet I see any of these opposite sex "friends" in the confines of a relationship/marriage as a threat. I'm about to hit my 30s and still waiting for God's timing to bless me with the wife he has in store for me in His time, but I for one will be making sure I have no other friends of the opposite sex in the picture at all except her. Can't risk any temptations like this. A Christian marriage needs to be guarded/defended like your life depends on it because it literally does. And that means sacrificing existing friendships with the opposite sex so the devil can't tempt you with infidelty and having an affair. Sadly most of my millennial generation doesn't seem to understand this concept.

[irenewajemolizzy]

It's exactly the truth, most men tend to hide texts and delete them as a way of hiding .

[luizalouyoga]

THANK - YOU! Yes! So many people have a hard time understanding this and you went straight to the point.

[katssavvas]

I listen to Coaches but this video every word was SPOT ON!!!! Thank you for this

[manuellongfield]

This is exactly what my wife is doing, she's in the limerance stage and thinking/acting like she's not doing anything wrong,

[pastelfolio]

I have never seen a more accurate video. Thanks for putting it out there. It has helped me tremendously. Thanks for a free therapy! :)