Girlfriend of Prison Inmate-Kat (follow up)

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Kat, the girlfriend of an inmate in a central California prison.
Here are links to Kat’s social media and website: @emotionalsupportbae

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[sheystolz]

Sweetheart, i was you 10yrs ago. I loved my guy so much and I saw so much potential. He was not a lifer. He got out and took me down a awful road. Sis, Ive learned boundries and self love and need no one to validate me.

[CGriffinGo]

My sister married a guy in prison. Devoted six years and lots of money. He dumped her the very day he was released.

[Alhummerr]

The cycle of abuse is very real my friends.

[iwuvmycolts]

Her focus should be on herself and her four kids, not someone in prison.

[devenrae]

I was a MWI ( Met while incarcerated) & I wouldn't suggest it, get help. Listen to what ppl are telling you

[Jaykuza]

“I’m very traditional” woman with 4 kids dating a prisoner. She should be going to therapy on the weekends and not visiting inmates. Her terrible decision making and poor judge of character is glaring.

[CajunLady]

She needs help. Very poor example for her children. She needs to focus on them and not murderers.

[BMLEATHER]

Ehhh, I think she needs some serious self help. She claims to never do anything for herself and everything is for her kids. And complains that 4 kids is very expensive. However, she chose to enter a relationship with a man who has killed 2 people and is in prison for it. That in no way benefits the children, nor helps put money on the table.

[tinks]

3, marriages and 4 kids in and she said that she doesn't need a man to validate herself. Good grief, id say that's the absolute opposite.

[psihopedia]

Call me crazy but I personally believe that this relationship it's just her perfect way of avoiding a real relationship.

[marmark]

I was a correctional officer for a decade and every inmate claimed that he was innocent

[Jacob]

“Visits are annoying”
Ma’am, he killed two people, im sure the families would want nothing more than to be “annoyed” to see their deceased loved ones.

[shellylogan]

Imagine yourself with a truly confident, competent man. One who can show up and provide. One who can form healthy relationships with your children.

[christinafindlay]

Myles’ son, who brought jurors to tears during the trial when he described his fruitless efforts to save his dying mother by trying to drive the car away and giving her mouth-to-mouth resuscitation, provided the most dramatic moment of Tuesday’s hearing. After Moore was sentenced, Joshua Myles, now 15, stood up.

“I just want you to look at me and tell me if you remember that day you said: ‘Should I shoot the kid?’ Do you remember?”

This is the type of man she wants to free and be around her children? I have no respect for her and I have no respect for what she is trying to do for this man right now.

[knottedstar]

I am a returning citizen.. was incarcerated in the federal system. It’s hard to explain the attachments you develop when you have no options. Your feelings develop for people so much more deeply and seem very intense. In my experience, the value of those relationships was not a priority once I was released and could connect with my family and had the ability to focus on my own future and success. The relationships I had while locked up have dissolved completely.. and I have only been out for 4 years. I whole heartedly believed the relationship would be forever. I wanted it .. but being able to put yourself and your freedom as a priority I wanted more.. just my thoughts. Best of luck for Kat and Micheal .. ❤

[robertlevasseur]

She has four children. Bringing up four kids is like running a business. Where does she find the time for this relationship? This whole story just sounds so self indulgent and pointless for someone who has so many responsibilities.

[wtfisthisp]

Ridiculous, she's linked herself to an abuser because she feels a connection due to living through traumas almost like a Stockholm syndrome

[Allergicbroke]

Yikes… more red flags than a communist parade

[drkdrumz]

"He makes sure I am a priority." he in prison. lol smh

[denisescott]

I'm a nurse and have cared for inmates at the academic medical center I worked at. Every single one of them was innocent, don't you know. 🙄