Have You Ever Rejected Someone And Regretted It Later?

[jondough]

I rejected someone and deeply regret it in the pit of my stomach. I’ve grown since then but still regret the way I’ve acted. Always give people a chance and if someone shows kindness towards you then ALWAYS return it. Having someone who cares for you is the greatest treasure one could ever have. Treat it with care.

[Alteroxx]

I rejected a girl who confessed to me, she was, for me, the perfect fit and i really liked her, but back than i was really depressed and thought that i don't want her to have a bad life because of me, because i'm gonna be jobless, i'm useless etc...so i just said, ,i love someone else, , .I regret it to this day.

[Ayse-wfes]

For people who reject or dump others because they are going through problems in life, here’s my question to you? Are you ever going to be without problems or dark times in life? Nope! Years ago a guy rejected me citing “sick parents” as reason. Yet, his parents were still sick when he was with his ex girlfriend and their illness and other issues did not prevent him from wanting to marry her. He was willing to face those dark times and still keep her in his life.

I’ve heard guys say that they’re not in that relationshippy place yet....but yet you see them put in effort for another girl.

So, if a guy’s into you, he will be make time for you, he will put in effort for you despite the challenges he’s facing.

If he’s not into, he’ll cite those challenges and any other reason or excuse.

[lenilove]

Thank you for jumping right in. People be talking to much at the beginning of their videos

[RteeAlvarez]

I regret this one guy, but I was not in a happy space in my life at that
time. But he’s the one I regret the most now he’s all I think about, it’s been year’s now. Great advise tho!

[EmilyGloeggler]

I did regret dumping an ex, but eventually, you learn to move on without them and realize to focus on God and not going back to dust.

[themosquito]

A girl asked do you like me? Do they like me back?

[Patchotron]

I am going through a hard time with my mental health right now and I rejected a boy who really liked me. Don’t get me wrong I don’t like him but I feel so bad and guilty for not liking him and I feel like I wouldn’t have hurt him if I’d have just sucked it up and dated him for a while. He treated me like an object telling me I had to prove I’m “worth it” and that if I am I’m “not convincing him” and I told him that I don’t deserve to be treated that way and I don’t need to prove myself wrong but I still feel so guilty about it.

[catwhisker]

it have been only 2 months since i rejected him. Now he has a girlfriend and it breaks me because i see them everyday for 7 hours💔

[optimusprime]

in my case, I wouldn't advance on a girl even if she admits or sending signs that she has feelings for me mostly because of the fact that I refuse to go through rejection again but I'm OK with being rejected as long as it doesn't come with an insult. so now, to deal with that pain, I choose to reject others first before it happens to me

[iamsomeone]

i was like this. i was moving from guy to guy. i met this 1 guy i kinda liked but i just could date him bc i wasnt in the right state of mind. Him too tbh he was super sweet but now he has a gf and its eating me from within. He was literally perfect. hair, smart, good body, taller than me, similar taste in music, religious. And i just wasnt inbright state of mind to take a relationship with any of the guys i met serious. i defo regret it. Plz tips onbgetting over him. I was the mean 1 and had a short temper due to stress, i had hardly any friends, sad, but i just wanted to be sad on my own, tbh i didnt end it well and kinda shouted at him. I WANT TO GET OVER HIM NOW. I WISH THIS NEVER HAPPENED. I CANT MOVE ON UNTIL I FORGET HIM. PLZ

[maxtruong]

There a girl that really liked me, she gave me signs that she interested. I liked her too but i did not want a girlfriend yet so i rejected her. Now i want her to be my girlfriend what should i do???

[allisonbennett]

I did it because i was in shock, we knew each other since we where six!

[clrought]

Of course I always saw them with another girl. So I thought they were together.

[_quixote]

I rejected someone and I feel like a monster. I just didnt want a relationship and when i rejected her nicely then she told me she didnt want to date, she just wanted to know if i liked her. And she said shes depressed and stressed. That sentence broke me. And im suffering in swallowing guilt. Should i be guilty?

[Thesilentecho]

Take a deep breath and remember who the fuck you are. That is the point

[Faithandseekerofchrist]

I don't regret rejecting the guys because I didn't want to be in a relationship with them and in fact I wish I would have rejected a lot of the guys that I dated. I rejected a guy last year because I couldn't look past him being just a friend and it just wasn't fair to stay friends with him knowing that he feels this way so I ended the friendship with him. Most of the time men and women just can't be friends without having different feelings about each other. I also had a guy that tried to put me in the friend zone me after our breakup but I said no and he got mad when I said no and then I blocked him after that. Now I'm just not dating anybody because I have a lot of things I need to work through and it's just exhausting to date in general. Also since I no longer have a job, pretty much the guys will reject me and see me as even more of a loser because I am now jobless due to my injury that causes me constant chronic pain and my mental health is not really that good.

[biggooeyyy]

uh idk when someone likes me or not but 99.99% they say their ex was crazy coming to find it it’s them... so I could say i dodged many bullets.. they could say the same too cus i’m not perfect

[fi_naritra]

I regret it but I did it without knowing I was. I'm sorry I hurt him.

[denisageorge]

I rejected someone and I regret it but don't have a clue as to why I do. This guy stayed high and drunk all the time. He smoked medicinal marijuana for anxiety and drank because of the loss of his brother that died tragically. When this guy would get high, he would text me inappropriate things and I would tell him that I didn't like being talked to like that and he would always use the excuse, sorry I was high last night and continue being disrespectful.