How to Work With Your Partner's Love Style

Do you wonder what's the best way to go about working with your partner's love style? From one of our previous videos, we talked about how your childhood can affect your love styles later on in life and we felt many of you guys identified with the various types, from the vacillators to the pleasers. If you haven't seen the video, you can watch it here again to refresh yourself:

The point is, depending on how we relate ourselves to those styles, they will undoubtedly affect our relationships in some ways. In this video, we try to shed some lights on how to go about each types! Hope you find it as helpful! Feel free to suggest us topics! :)

Animated by: Ben Carswell

Ben's goal is to one day work as a director for animation.

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VO: Lily Hu
Animator: Ben Carswell
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Yerkovich, K., & Yerkovich, M. (2019). How We Love. Retrieved January 15, 2019.

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[RandoSando.]

When you're a pleaser and the other person is an avoider, so you're both in an endless loop of feeling guilty all the time.

[arlor.wilson]

*bold of you to assume i have a partner*

[ssjmuffin]

“Imagine approaching your crush”
- Oh, you’re approaching me? Instead of running away, you come to me?”

[daskrumpl]

Bruh why everyone having bad childhoods y’all making me wanna hug you all

[elfire]

Actually I don't think anyone can identify into just one category...we are kind of a mixture of all of them

[titlespree]

A good relationship is when someone ACCEPTS your past, SUPPORTS your present & Encourages your future!

[PhoenixKnight]

When she described what a pleaser is, I have literally never related more. I grew up exactly like that and act like that a lot.

[Ren-ofoh]

When you are a vacillator and your partner is an avoider so talking about feelings is just as likely as a snowstorm in a desert

[westonkouryfan]

catch me watching videos of how to improve my relationship with no one

[MrBuns-yihk]

You think I am watching this for my future partner, but I am watching for myself. BAMBOOZLED!!!

[potato]

How to handle a Lovestyle when Nobody loves you

[itsviperz]

*listens to Vacillator description*

Me: “Why is she calling me out like that?”

[fellowtemplar]

- "Imagine approaching your crush."








*Comment posted by Vacillator gang*

[mds]

Pro tip: anyone that’s lashing out/has a short fuse is almost certainly hurt inside. Trying to remember this can be incredibly difficult, especially when you’re close to that person. Be understanding and compassionate, but not by letting them walk all over you.

[iiAngelic]

Me: is a vacillator
Video: "They are capable of more than they usually think"
*bursts into tears*

[Psychgo]

Happy Sunday everyone. Which love styles do you relate to?

[Speckaboo]

I'm in my first relationship, same goes for my boyfriend.
He's definitely a pleaser, and I'm an avoider. Surprisingly enough, its not a bad pairing.

He always backs off when he knows I want to be alone or when Im in a mood, which I appreciate since I tend to snap under pressure.

On the other hand, I make sure to call him out when he's being submissive and ask for his opinions, and I always emphasize that we're on equal terms.

[hunchopeluche]

So helpful. Thank you for helping me grow as a person. Yay psych to go.

[MickeyDansa]

So the "Controler" needs a therapist as a partner.

[afanofindiegames]

I’m a pleaser I am always afraid of telling people my problems because I don’t want them to worry about me...my partner I believe is also a pleaser because we always try to do what the other wants I think that counts as a pleaser but I love him either way 💙