Fear of Letting People Down/Disappointing Them - Tapping with Brad Yates

While the fear of disappointing people could motivate us to try harder and do better... it often stops us from doing anything, so as to avoid the possibility of letting them down. I hope you'll decide that the potential benefits are worth the risk. Let's address these feelings with EFT/Tapping.

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This is only my way of using the process, rather than what might be called official EFT.

Be Magnificent!

Brad

[lynettemcmechan]

Thank you Brad! I’ve been so stuck lately in a pattern of not doing anything for me “just in case” someone needs me to be there for them. So everyone else goes on with their lives and I am waiting so I am available for them. I think I will need to repeat this video a few times.

[natachamusser]

In the last two weeks I have been feeling a deep sense of lost and sadness. I do 5 trappings a day, which really help. I have been feeling guilty of not being a stay at home mommy for my dog. After the divorce, I feel that I let her down, not being able to spend the time with her that I use to. I have never been able to have children, and I treat her as if she was my child.

[greenfingers]

For me the fear of letting people down, which I dowsed for is one the my current blockers, so I'm tapping on this but the angle for me is also fearing of messing up which has also brought shame ( couple of fear of failure). I was scolded for being put back a year when I was grieving the loss of my grandparents which also triggered a PTSD since the age of 7. A also felt bad about a traumatic event that took place before then that reinforced the feeling of having let down and failing. Then I suffered from non-Hodgkin's as a teenager and survived it after lots of rounds of chemo. This has often times lead me to overcompensate ( the opposite for not doing anything) to do too much, to not let either divorced parents down growing, always proving my self-worth. I'm picking lots of your wonderful videos out to help heal my inner child. I'm so forever grateful. Is there a suitable tapping video for fearing letting people down but from the angle of having to feel to overcompensate and people please ? Thank you

[lovealways]

The victory of pleasing others, sometimes comes at too high of a cost.
yes.. i agree

[courtneyreynolds]

Thank you Brad, I am tapping along with you every morning and it really helps. 🤗

[WezaMind]

7.26 you crack me up
punchline!

this is transformative for me, it's like waking up from sleep... thanks so much Brad

[BinduMadhu]

You are an earth angel! There is that compassion combined with strength and love in your eyes that just shines through. Thank you!

[StreaminFreedom]

Thanks Brad realized this was my block! Great video, felt the emotion of this long held challenge today. Now I feel much better.

[lisajames]

wow brad i seemed to have missed this aspect of my programing before. i was surprised how deep and far back this goes for me. Will be working on this

[denniscircawdm]

Quite common in so many peoples lives and mines. 👍

[lodenco]

Thanks Brad! On the flipside, if you are a codependent or product of a narcissistic family your pattern may be to continue to try harder and harder and abandon yourself in order to please other people.

[archanabhatt]

😊 I was feeling stuck and crying, realising that old deep hurt of disappointing others has surfaced. Found your video, and by the end of it I am laughing and giggling. Feeling lighter. Do thank you 🙏

[angelahernandez]

I didnt realize how much i needed this tap. The floodgates burst open😭 I will definitely be doing this a few times. Thank you🙏

[rebeccal.]

Thanks for another great tapping session. I have really needed this one to help with a mother who is never pleased with me no matter what I do or dont do. Have a great day!

[kimberly-abriefongrief]

This is perfectly timed for my tapping and shifting with session 4 of Tap into Money- thank you Universe and thank you Brad for shining the Universe’s abundance! 🥰
I love you my friend, even when (or perhaps even more!) when you say No 😉💜 The no’s always have hidden magic! THAT in itself, is a life-altering shift for me!!

[monicaenglander]

Thank you, Brad. I needed this. I appreciate you and everything you do.

[jessicaf]

THANK YOU for this (and all of these)! This topic isn't mentioned often.

[ilsevanoostenbrugge]

Epic, as always. Thanks Brad, you were spot on....i so appreciate your work. (I will repeat this one a few times.)

[deedee]

This is what I really need today. Thank you. :)

[sakyqueen]

❤ thank you, this fear really held me back. I am so afraid that I cried, I am really thankful for this video to bring me relif