3 “Low Key” Red Flags in Women 🚩

[damiancarrasco]

My ex was all 3, this made me happy i moved on

[splinterun]

“Guys in the past never made me do that”
“And that’s why they’re in the past”

[austinhorne]

My wife always had male friends. She knew how much I didn't like it and continued to talk to them anyway. We got divorced and she got with one of them 2 weeks later. Heads up boys

[mhd]

I'm okay with male friends if she's known them before, they were from the same group of friends or same class and she hangs out with them in a group or alone with them provided that she's known them forever (friends from the first year of school or family friends). Otherwise, suddenly meeting a guy, texting with him, being close to him, being hesitant to introduce me to him, being hesitant to tell him about our relationship is a no-go for me.

[aaronbest]

My gf had dudes flirting with her on her phone and refused to friend zone them.

[Brujo]

Facts. Don’t ever let these women gaslight you thinking that it’s alright for them to keep male friends around if you’re in a relationship with her. They need to respect boundaries otherwise they can go kick rocks.

[Illeaturface]

think these are 3 low key red flags for both sexes. if a person is never grateful, drop them. if a person has multiple friends of the opposite sex, drop them. if a person tries to manipulate u, drop them

[burnt]

you dont realize how bad her having male friends is until she cheats on you

[why]

All these experts. Thank God we have them. No wonder dating is so messed up

[Elevendyeleven]

When I was a little girl, I grew up with two boys. One was one year older and the other was one year younger. We met when they moved in next door when I was two years old. Our mothers were close. I thought of them as brothers. When we grew up and they got girlfriends/married they didnt want anything to do with me. One wouldnt even be friends with me on facebook. It broke my heart. It doesnt feel good to suddenly be nothing to people you thought were family because you are a female.

[mithridatesi]

Few months ago, I found my dream girl. She was exactly my type. But she had all these 3 red flags. At this point I have realized that personality is important. She is the most beautiful girl, I've ever seen but it doesn't matter if she has a shitty character. Be a strong man and you will find one day your true soul mate

[xhaviermcgregor]

just broke up with me a week ago but all these things were her and now i’m realizing how much she was hurting me and how that power dynamic really made me feel stuck and depressed all the time

[TTALLYKYLE]

#4 Goes out a lot, even if it’s just with “the girls”

[_misty.eyed.]

I'm 22 and I meet so many women like this. Word of advice for my fellow twenty-year-olds, focus on your own life and a woman that you will value your time with will come around someday soon. If you already have women in your life, whether it's friends or family you should be spending more time with them cuz that will only increase your value and your confidence as a man. Not to mention, it makes you more loving and caring and sincere, which is not what these red flag women like.

[kalikolehuaopuna]

Thank you!! This is so important to share. Keep this content coming please. We are not all like those women. Those of us who are nothing like these women don’t like these women either. Good men are getting scorned by these women and turning them off from having meaningful relationships.

[theKRAESHO]

The first point about thanking you and showing gratitude is so true fellas, I just went through that. I paid for everything and she would never say thank you I brought it up to her three times she still never changed. Plz listen to what there saying and don’t make excuses for her like I did.

[ida]

I have male friends that treat me as their dude, I don't hang out with guys that are interested in me unless I am also interested in them, I cut it off doesn't matter if I have a partner or not. I don't need the validation.

[johncummings]

The friends thing shows how immature people are now. As adults any friends outside of work are few and usually are friends because they are loyal and trustworthy. Never give up or be stupid enough to make a gf/bf choose between you and their circle, never works in a positive way.

[dificulttocure]

The exception to the rule of the male friends is if the friend in question is gay, I don't see a problem there.

[parker]

I have had a lady friend since I was 12. When my wife (girlfriend) at the time found out, she was worried. I told her this up front (Married 3 years and together 8).

Now... she talks to her way more than I do, and they've gone on trips together to podcast shows and things like that.

Those, my friends, are what good relationship green flags look and feel like.