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[Spooky_G]

I don’t have DID but I find all of your videos fascinating and I love learning about it and I just find your videos overall enjoyable :)

[georgerobins]

"I don't know why I said coffee..." RELATABLE

[XgothicXbarbieX]

I've always wondered how alters talk within the body. Being that I'm a highly visual learner, this makes so much more sense than just hearing how it works. If my psychology professors taught like this, I would have had a 4.0 GPA at the end of college. Great work as always Jess, can't wait for the next video 💚

[caitlinhulse]

I was diagnosed 10 years ago and stopped therapy because it frightened me beyond anything I could comprehend. Here I am… a mom and trying to heal because I refuse to scar and scare my son. Your channel has been the most helpful (beside my dr) and I’m truly and internally grateful. We all are. For all of you. Thank you.

[whimsydotexe]

"Have we got" is such a British sentence structure, and it sounded strange hearing it in Jake's voice, like he was reading a script that a different alter wrote. God, that's so i n t e r e s t i n g

[sleepyote]

As someone who got diagnosed with OSDD last month this is very helpful. Communication is such a struggle for us right how hoping to improve it.

[aikosetsuna]

We are a system of 24 currently. And with our therapy we've been trying to come closer together as a system and possibly integrate some, since we want to achieve a functional multiplicity, which we are close to thankfully. Leaving notes for one another and co-fronting or being co-concious has greatly helped us learn about each other and we've become much better at communicating amongst ourselves.

Also want to say, we love your videos and your willingness to come out as a system to defeat the tropes that something like hollywood will shove down peoples throat about DID as a whole. Making us all look like monsters and cruel evil people who just want to harm others. It always hurts seeing that.

[marqsward]

This is exactly the kind of videos we've been looking for! Having examples to share with folks would make it so much easier to talk about.

[philliemonara]

This is such a great explanation, thanks, can you pls send that back in time to us like 8 years ago? ;)



Also you forgot two others:
- "I want tea", "well I want water" -> two (or more) blocking each other to the point where the body can't speak until another person steps in to break the tie. Happens to us mainly with sensitive topics in therapy.


- "I want strawberry juice" - what? who even likes that - chorus of "not me" - ok who ARE you? - "I don't know but where are we and who are you people?" -> random new person showing up during a decision making process.

[PrincessLelouch]

Since Jake is an actor and we’ve seen him act as Jess. I’d love to see him try to act like the other alters and maybe even Gaz!

[biggmissy]

Cool video the hijacked voice where you didn't mean to say coffee. I have that alot we call it accidentally hitting the spreaker like the old school type microphone.

[wibblewobble]

OMG Bless Iris, she was putting in her order for a drink @2:40 🤣

[kage]

Conflicted, this was a common term I heard or ended up using a lot. Me and a past psychiatrist coined the term human embodiment of contradictions as that’s how I felt most of the time, I wanted two contradictory things simultaneously. I now can feel how separate it is. Instead of denying it we have meetings and discussions.

[wibblewobble]

Thanks for making this Jess. Co-fonting has always been something the DID community says happens "rarely" or is really just the flux of a switch taking place etc...But for us, what you've described is our constant. "I" although the host, am never ever alone or the only one 'out'. There's always someone out with me or literally mm away from me and who speaks or acts through/with me at any given second even without me knowing they're there sometimes.

[megaFan]

Hi guys! I've been writing a character with DID and wanted to get it right and this channel has been a big help! Plus it's just a lot of fun to watch so thanks for all of that!

[SashyGryphyth]

I usually just say "Oops, brain fart." Brain fog is a common thing, and nearly everyone understands it. Another one is "Got a touch of 3:30itis, it came on early." a common time for tired brain.
Thankyou for another educational video. Your cat is a star too. Lol

[nathanbernards]

That "I don't know" hit me, I hear that come out of me all the time but I never know what its in regards to

[saladflambe]

This is 100% how I experience it. Thank you. Super validating for me right now.

[TheEntropySystem]

Absolutely brilliant as always ❤️ this is such an accessible way to explain communication. You always think of the best explanations. -Wyn

[sinistersistervapes]

All of your videos help so much! My Fiance has DID and these help me to understand the things/situations/processes he goes thru. He's only been aware for little over a year now and still working on communication, so this video truly gives me a perspective into what it's like! Thanks Jess!