She Keeps Canceling Dates & Won't Meet Up | Dealing With Flaky Behavior

Miguel was at a bar with some friends when he accidentally knocked into Mary. Instead of getting angry, Mary smiled and playfully punched Miguel on the arm. Miguel insisted on buying Mary a drink and they hit it off straight away. For the next two hours, Miguel and Mary stood in a corner of the bar, talking about everything from music to sport. After that night, Miguel was hooked. He couldn’t stop thinking about Mary. Their attraction was so strong, they both agreed they should catch up over the weekend.
On Friday morning, Miguel sent Mary a message to make sure their date was still on. When Mary got back to Miguel, however, it wasn’t the kind of message he was expecting. Miguel blinked several times as he re-read Mary’s message: “Hey, I’m really sorry, but I don’t think I can make it this weekend. Got so many things to catch up on.”
Miguel felt a surge of anger and frustration. He squeezed his phone, then typed out a reply, trying his best to stay calm: “No problem. Let’s catch up this evening.”
“I’m really sorry. I can’t this weekend. Maybe next week,” Mary replied.
Miguel’s blood began to boil. He had seen flaky behavior before and he wasn’t going to let Mary disrespect him this way. Miguel fired off another message: “You know when you arrange to meet someone it’s rude to cancel.”
For the next hour, there was nothing but silence. Miguel decided to send Mary another message to try and fix the situation: “Hey, I just wanted to say I’m sorry I was angry before. I’m not angry at you. I was just disappointed because I really wanted to see you. Let me know when you’re free and we can catch up.”
Miguel never heard back from Mary. His initial frustration and high level of emotional investment had turned Mary off and killed what little desire she had for him.

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Almost a year ago to the day, Mary had been shopping at a new department store downtown when Jeff introduced himself. Jeff had asked for her number, and over the course of the following week, they both agreed to meet up on Saturday afternoon.
Jeff waited until Saturday morning before sending Mary a message: “Hey, can meet at 7 pm?”
About twenty minutes later, Mary responded with a similar message to the one she would later send Miguel: “Hey, I’m really sorry but I can’t make it this weekend. I’m really busy, maybe next week.”
Jeff didn’t even bother to respond. As Mary waited for a response, she began to feel more and more anxious.
By late Saturday afternoon, Mary got the sense that Jeff wasn’t going to get back to her. She bit her lip. Maybe if I don’t see him tonight I’ll never see him again, she thought as she reached into her bag and pulled out her phone.
Jeff’s phoned buzzed. He looked down and saw a message from Mary: “Hey, looks like I can make it after all. Still on for 7?”


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Chris Canwell

[chibuzookoye]

If a woman isn't interested in seeing you, she is not worth the investment of your time. Keep it moving.

[Ghhh-onnl]

This channel is underrated compared to other relationship advisors ... Keep up the great work.

[kobinsadvance]

*"Scarcity breeds Desire"* .... Show that you are rare and fun at the same time. Don't be too clingy or needy. Don't be too expressive or reactive. Be warm and Be Cold. Don't be warm all the time. Don't be cold all the time. And they will be confused, the more you make them confused, the more they will think about you, the more they will think about you the more they will be hooked to you.

[HenrryWithRs]

Went on a date with an absolutely incredible woman over the weekend. Strong initial attraction. Today she’s been a little quiet and I told myself to apply the principles of this channel.

Forced myself to wait, and not send follow up texts. It works. She just texted me back.

This man and his channel have really helped me realize how much attention we give to women instead of building ourselves up.

[xTheFly]

If someone flakes, they aren't worth your time or effort. Do not waste your time and just move on.

[JK-npdr]

Don't respond when they cancel.. I gotta try that

[michaelpassmore]

I’m at the point now where I only associate with people who have consistent desire for me. If at any point someone changes their mind about me, they are automatically not worth my time.

[meghnaths]

Be manly enough to walk away when women flakes on you. Flaky behaviour shows they don't respect you. Put self-respect above everything.

[jannieschluter]

Reason for her behavioris called "hypergamy". She will always move on and lose any attraction she had for you if she feels that she has got you.
We are living in times when women have unreal expectations and when they can never find joy and happiness in their partners because no man can be good enough for her.

[harrasingh]

Guys let me make it easy for you - unless she makes you feel like you're special and she is someone that makes you the better version of yourself - don't waste time on her because if she is meant to be yours, everything will happen naturally rather than always initiating plans.

[DanTrustsTheFathersPlan]

Always a few valuable book chapters of info in a free less than 3 minute video! Much respect man👊💥

[RyuEnGamer]

Yup. Had this happen with a girl who decided to flake two hours before the date(to go and do something else) and then have the nerve to ask for a rain check. Of course I didn’t respond and she kept messaging me to make sure I got her message. She sends me a message the next day apologizing because she was nervous and guessed that the flake was a deal breaker. I waited a bit more and told her “Yup dealbreaker and big red flag. Best of luck to you.” Yes. You really have to show these types of women (chronic flakers and attention whores) that they flaked on the wrong one that day.

[Krelian]

And then you reply, "No i'm busy right now maybe next week".

Pro tip, Never ask "are we still up for the date"? First send a message like this "omw I see you 30 minutes" if she says she can't go just ignore her, and go out with friends always have a plan B,

[arnabmahapatra]

These things applies mainly with the low quality women or those who are just promiscuous

[mav]

I hope the 2nd guy didn't agree to the date so late. I would just say I already have plans but maybe next week lol

[McLarenIT]

Little things like those can show you exactly what your value is to someone. Even if you ignore the flakey message and never hear back, it's still a win for you because you saved on some very precious commodity: Your time.

[abdulmalikumar]

This guy knows the psychology of attraction

[mayorofthenonsense]

I have had this exact same scenario. We set up a second date and she tried to flake on me at the last minute, saying she had lost track of time and we should put it off until the next day. I told her it was now or never, and she appeared on my doorstep quicker than anything I've ever seen.

[josephmw]

I love this video. This one is so realistic! Anyway, focusing too much on the relationship will distract you from focusing on what is important to you. Ignoring a woman's call or message will make her feel something about you and that's what makes relationship interesting and unpredictable.

[XxChuyoxX]

And if she changes her mind last minute like that, say you already made other plans.